Happily married for 20y. Today DH has done something that may be unforgivable.

[TheFirstOHN]

He's written something for the Daily Mail.

LTB?

He’s let you down, he’s let his family down, but most of all he’s let himself down. Thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

You're right, thegreatbeyond. Rabbits was showcasing her ample cleavage and flaunting her pert posterior.

Oh dear, TheFirst. You’ll have to decide if this is something you can forgive or I’d worry about your marriage. Is he being protective of his phone, changed his passwords, started going to the ’newsagents’?

I believe that a dunking at Lourdes cures a great many things. It's up to you how long you hold him under for.

Will your family and friends be forgiving or will you lose them too. I know it's his actions but they will reflect on you. And people judge...

Oh fucking grow up. I am sick to death of the soi-disant radical middle classes talking about reading the Daily Mail as if it were the same as necrophilia. You know what could be worse? You could be a member of the Labour Party; a party led for the last 3 years by an anti-semitic, terrorist cheerleader who was the dupe of a Czechoslovakian communist spy.

The Mail is read by something like 4 million people, it is read by more people than read the Mirror, the Guardian, or the Independent. So fuck off with your pathetic sneering.

Not quite caught the spirit there ADropofReality

ADropOfReality you ok hon

Well I've just worked out Sarah Vine's username.

Well I've just worked out Sarah Vine's username.

ADropOfReality, Yikes!

@LellyMcKelly, LOLOLOLOLO!!!!!!! Thanks! I just about did a Danny Thomas spit take!

OP you’d better start getting all your ducks in a row...

I think it's time to get all your ducks in a row. Bank statements, birth & marriage certs, mortgage docs, etc.... So you can leave in a hurry, change your name, etc..... quickie divorce.

ACK! Cross post with @Areyouongluedear*!

Why did he have to tell you, though?
Just to be freed of his guilt?
Did you really need to know?

I'd book a few Relate sessions.

And a spa day.

“I’m not mad just disappointed” is what I used to say to my kids, but they were kids and this is a grown man. So sorry this happened to you OP, it’s not like you can even send him to his room to think about what he did. I don’t know what to suggest to make you feel better, a rebuttal article in the Guardian or would that be overkill? Other than that I have nothing.

Haha! great minds justilou1

And I bet his mother is right behind him. To be safe I should go NC with her

My friend gives me old copies of the DM to wrap my cats’ used litter in. Best use I can think of for that paper!

Reality is talking out of their arse 'generous derriere', I see.