How to respond to this message about presents?

[OhHelp0hNo]

My friends had their DTDs Christened yesterday and had a gathering afterwards for their joint Christening / Birthday party (they are 1 today).
I bought them each a collectors edition of a classic children's book as a present (different books).
Today I had a message from my friend saying that they've got their Christening presents but where are their birthday presents?
Perhaps I should have got them two presents each but I decided not to. Now I feel really awkward and don't know how to respond!

Good for you op

Good response OP

That's a good response, she is cheeky to expect more

She’s very rude

I am shocked at how rude your friend is!! Lovely presents, hope you do not mind but I may steal it for my Goddaughter's birthday

I'm hoping she's just worried she misplaced something.

Your friend is a rude, grabby cf.
Not only messaging in the first place but chasing it up too.
What a lovely gift you have given them, don’t let them guilt trip you into buying another.

What bizarre behaviour from your CF friend.

what kind of fucker thinks its ok to ask for presents?

Glad you did that reply.

did you see my earlier message? I'm very confused!

You are so much nicer than I am. I’d have texted back “That makes two of us!”

Or else, “No they weren’t the christening presents, they were the birthday presents.”

As if one-year-olds need two presents FFS!

Cringing for her if she’s actually demanding to know why you didn’t give her 2 presents. It’s possible she thinks she’s lost them but I don’t get that impression. I once had presents to buy for a joint party, so 2 children to buy for except for some reason I only bought for one and not the other, no idea why, just a brain freeze moment. I left the present in one of the boys houses as that was the meeting place, mother texted me later, embarrassed saying she thinks she misplaced the presents from me, I replied saying, oh, I left it in blah place, blue envelope, so on, didn’t occur to me that it was the other child’s present they meant. She texted back to say ‘ok’ (probably thinking I’m really rude in not buying the other child a gift). About a week later it suddenly dawned on me so I texted them both back owning up and saying what a dum dum I’d been and got a present to the other child sharpish. I did wonder if they thought I knew all along and then only bought another gift out of guilt but it was a genuine error!

What is wrong with some people? I’d be ashamed for my life if I asked the question in the first place, then to chase a response. Has your friend behaved like this before OP? Seems so grabby it’s hard to believe it’s a one off, if that makes sense...

Good response. Are they usually high maintenence?

I cannot imagine, in a million years, being a cheeky fucker of this proportion. Staggering.

So cheeky that I would reconsider the friendship to be honest. She’s shown her true colours. Who behaves like this then sends a follow up text chasing up your response!

You’re a politer person than I am. I’d have told her to do one.

Wow, can’t get over this. Is she normally demanding?

I hope she reads your message and realises how entitled she came across

I wouldn't have responded. She's really confused? I think she didn't think much of the books and is risky telling you so. If she says anything else ask for them back.

Are they normally high maintenance? I've also given joint birthday/christening gifts

OP can I ask, did you have a christening for ypur kids where your friend bought your kids a present?

If you do get a shitty response, I think I'd let the friendship go.

She may be panicking that she’s lost or left them somewhere, it’ll be a bit full on ( hoping) your reply was perfect

Wow they have actually audited the presents for 1 year olds and are chasing up perceived shortfalls. Ghastly people.

Maybe they thought they had mislaid them?x