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People with no online presence

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exlibrisok · 06/11/2018 14:04

After a morning of nosing around old classmates facebook pages and seeing what everyone is up to these day it got me wondering about the one or two who have no facebook and one in particular who has no online presence at all. I come from a small village and I think I am facebook friends with virtually everyone in my year at high school except one girl, who will now be 40 and a guy who does have a twitter but no facebook.

The girl is just off grid nothing comes up for her. I do know her brother and I know she went to art school in London and lives in Copenhagen now with her Danish husband. She was always a bit of a loner at school but nice. I guess I am just pretty nosey about her and wonder why she or anyoen doesn't have any social media or linkedin at all? I used to think people who didn't use social media had something to hide or that looking at other peoples lives just made them depressed but it sounds like she has done well for herself and I find it a bit sad she doesn't keep in touch with the old country!

I know a lot of people do give social media up if they find it overwhelming or depressing and some just don't care. This isn't meant to be judgmental I'm just curious about why people don't do social media, especially if they have normal or successful lives?

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Noviceoftheweek · 10/11/2018 13:30

I must admit I do wonder about those who are quite happy to use Facebook and other outlets under assumed names. It feels a little controlling, particularly if their friends are using their real names.

CountFosco · 10/11/2018 13:38

I'm not on FB etc precisely because I grew up in a small and insular community. I don't want random people I went to school with looking me up online and gossiping about me. I know how that type of community works and I left for a reason. I have done very well for myself thank you very much but that is none of their business. I should really get a linkedin account so our clients can look me up but am resisting that as well.

AndromedaPerseus · 10/11/2018 14:01

I have no SM presence because I cba with it all and have no time to curate a SM presence. Also I think the explosion of the mental health problems particularly in teenagers in recent years is due to SM and I have no desire to give it greater prominence than it already has in our lives. SM reminds of Big Brother in 1984.

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