I've always struggled with friendships, even from a very young age. As a result, I've sometimes hung out with people who didn't really respect me and who talked to me like dirt. I am feeling kind of shit about it today, even though none of them are major but it bothers me that so many people have so many bad things to say about me.
I went to a dance class (first time I'd ever been to a class since I was five or something). I had a great time, danced and chatted with loads of people. Very nice-on-the-surface touchy-feely social worker vegetarian friend-to-all type friend asked if I was going again. I said yes since I'd had fun and wanted to learn more. She said 'Really? You are a really wooden dancer, so I didn't think you'd want to go again.'
I know it's not insult of the century, but I felt so deflated. I'm sure I was wooden - it was my first class ever and I'm generally a self-conscious person so of course I sucked. I still kept hanging out with her (but eventually gave up on her because she kept saying shit like that.)
I think what annoys me is that, as I said, she's very much the 'earth mother' or whatever type so everyone goes on about how wonderful she is, how kind, how loving etc, but she always makes sly little digs at people, talks shit about people behind their back etc.
Anyone else had people say mean, passive aggressive shit to them?