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Anybody tamed a feral kitten?

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nextdoorscatwantstomovein · 20/10/2018 21:21

A few days ago dd1 and her friend found what appears to be an abandoned feral kitten(from the look of it just couple of months old max). On the advice of loca! rescues have been putting food down but have not yet been able to catch it. We now have a trap down but it seems to be too light to trigger it so we're going to see if we can get a smaller one from the rescue.

Dd1 and dd2(aka the cat whisperer as she seems to have a knack with cats) want to keep it if we catch it, I've not definitely said yes or no, I had cats growing up and as a teenager tamed a feral adult who turned into one of the most affectionate cats I've known.

Just wondering if anyone else had experience with feral kittens

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VenusClapTrap · 21/10/2018 23:28

Years ago I had a boyfriend who adopted two rescue cats; a large male adult and a little female kitten. The kitten was pretty much feral but gradually became tamer with lots of gentle encouragement. She was far from being a lap cat, but enjoyed playing with string and would allow the odd stroke, warily.

Shortly after I split up from boyfriend he called me to say he was moving in with a new girlfriend who had budgies, so he needed to rehome the cats Hmm. He was hoping I’d take them, which I couldn’t, sadly, as pets weren’t allowed where I lived. I did find a new home for them though, with a lovely lady; friend of a friend of a friend.

I went to visit them some weeks later, and their new owner said that although the boy had settled in, the little female was hiding under the spare bed, only coming out at night. Amazingly, as soon as I walked in that room and called her name, she started meowing and came running to me, purring and head rubbing in a display of affection she had never ever honoured me or anyone with before. It was both lovely and heartbreaking at the same time, because it meant she was missing me, but I couldn’t take her back with me.

But, happily, something about my visit gave her confidence, and her new owner emailed me later to say that that very evening she had come out of the room to eat with boy cat, and a few days later when new owner was off work sick, in bed, the little cat had jumped up onto the bed and sat on her and purred. She became a very affectionate and happy little cat.

toastfiend · 21/10/2018 23:39

We adopted two feral kittens when I was a teenager. One was always very wary of humans. Adored my Dad and used to follow him around the garden like a shadow and would sit on his lap every night. Tolerated my Mum if Dad wasn't around, hated me and anyone else who dared to look in his direction. The other is a much better hunter than nervous cat but also the daftest, soppiest thing you'll ever come across. Likes being worn as a scarf and loves attention from anyone.

One retained some of his 'feral' instincts and was never hugely family friendly, the other is the most domesticated lump you could ever meet. I certainly think if they're kittens they can be tamed, they just have very individual characteristics (as does any animal I suppose!) and the perceived success of it would probably depend on that.

HappyEverIftar · 22/10/2018 05:41

Loving the cat pictures!

We have a formally feral cat, who came to us s a tiny kitten. She was being picked on by bigger cats, so we left food out for her and eventually she moved herself in. She is the funniest, most loving cat I've ever had. She definitely picked us, she was hiding under DH car before we spotted her and took her under our wing.

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nextdoorscatwantstomovein · 07/11/2018 20:25

Well the cat has well.and truly settled inShe definitely thinks we all belong to her

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Fluffycloudland77 · 07/11/2018 20:35

Well that didn’t take long. What’s her name?

nextdoorscatwantstomovein · 07/11/2018 20:36

Ivy, she'd made a nest in some ivy under a bush when we found her!

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ThistleAmore · 07/11/2018 20:56

My 'wee darling princess' was a tiny abandoned feral kitten when we found her under a neighbour's decking. The vet estimated she was about three-four weeks old, as her eyes were still blue, but she was able to eat solid food etc and was clean from day one.

She's five years old now and rules the roost, including having my OH and the two Big Cats under her tiny tortie paw. She's quite independent (in a very typical tortie way), but can be very loving on her terms. Not a lap cat, although she's a champion 'leaner'.

Good luck! And thank you for giving a wee feral a home. Smile

isseywithcats · 07/11/2018 21:31

i foster feral kittens for a rescue and you have there what we call a fake feral, lol born feral but grateful to be indoors so tamed up very quickly i currently have a ten week old madam who is pouncing on the big boys ( my cats) three weeks ago she was so scared she was climbing the bars of her pen to escape this is pom bear who is off to the vets next week then off to her new home the week after

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Noidea2114 · 07/11/2018 21:40

Ours was a feral cat hated everyone but my mum. Attacked my brother, wouldn't let grand children near her horrible thing until 2 days before she died then sat on my knee, shocked is not the word.

startingafresh1 · 07/11/2018 22:05

Ah that's a lovely name with a great story behind it.

How tame has Ivy become OP?

nextdoorscatwantstomovein · 07/11/2018 22:26

She's very tame, currently snuggled up next to dd2 on the couch. She's a complainer though, woe betide you if you don't feed her when she wants, she's certainly doing a good job of training usGrin

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VenusClapTrap · 07/11/2018 22:42

I love a thread with a happy ending. Smile

She’s gorgeous, op.

startingafresh1 · 08/11/2018 11:33

How lovely that she has become friendly so quickly and begun to train you already.

LadyR77 · 08/11/2018 13:02

Oh what a lovely thread - she's beautiful!

CuppaSarah · 08/11/2018 13:58

I tamed an entire family of geese once.

fenneltea · 08/11/2018 14:36

Sounds like she's frightened rather than truly feral, I have six cats and five of them were feral, they all tamed successfully and have made lovely pets. It can be terrifying when a huge angry tom cat launches at you, but they all calmed down in time, the longest to tame one hid for three months at first!
Good luck with your lovely kitten, she's been very lucky to have found you.

Beaverhausen · 08/11/2018 14:44

She is gorgeous OP, congrats you are now enslaved. :)

But yes ferals can at times be domesitcated, I successfully tamed a 1 year old feral male who is my pudgy, chubby little lady lover. One lady in his feral colony did not enjoy his attention and sadly he has partial sight in his one eye. Every time a female walks past him he sings to her and lawd do not let him walk past a mirror he will sit there for hours staring at himself and talking to himself.

But he is such a wonderful cat we named him Graham.

Photo is of him sitting in front of a mirror.

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Fluffycloudland77 · 08/11/2018 18:26

He’s gorgeous, look at the pose he’s doing for the camera!

TonTonMacoute · 08/11/2018 19:32

13 year old tamed feral kitten.

It takes patience, a lot of patience, but is very rewarding.

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almondsareforevermore · 08/11/2018 21:03

Op’s Kitty wasn’t really feral as she’s tame so soon. I adopted two from an isolated colony which had been feral and in-bred for generations. They love me but are terrified of everyone else. One is calmer but both are crazy. At least feral kittens seem to be always very clean indoors.

Redtartanshoes · 08/11/2018 21:09

Here’s my fake feral Grin

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Beaverhausen · 09/11/2018 06:39

@Fluffycloudland77 Oh yes he knows he is a gorgeous boy.

Beaverhausen · 09/11/2018 06:40

It took me 6 months of patience and spending little time often throughout the day talking to him and playing with him. Any kittens between the ages of 2 and 8 weeks need socialisation with people or they turn feral whether the mother is a cuddle bear or not.

Deathraystare · 09/11/2018 08:00

I brought home a feral kitty that had been injured by a dog. There was a whole colony of black cats around. She was cute and very loving (especially to the males in the family!). She and our other cat tolerated each other. Really miss them both!

Shmithecat · 09/11/2018 08:18

Yay, love this thread! We've got 5 cats that were all feral kittens. They're all totally domesticated now. One of the 5 is still incredible nervous but seriously affectionate too. She was fairly hard work (very sick when we caught her) and it took months to get her better and for her to trust us. She still totally freaks out when we get the cat carrier out. But she's wonderful in every other way.

Anybody tamed a feral kitten?
Anybody tamed a feral kitten?
Anybody tamed a feral kitten?