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I've only gone and passed my driving test on the 5th attempt!!

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MunkeeBum · 10/10/2018 23:44

I've posted on a few threads over the past few months (name changed since though) about how crap I am at tests and how I kept on failing due to nerves. But today I finally did it!! I was nervous again and the examiner could see me physically shaking (I thought he was going to end the test at one stage) but I got through it and I bloody well passed with 4 minors :)

It took me many years to attempt to learn as I've always thought I couldn't do it and was actually scared of learning. I've had soooo many lessons (probably more than 50) and failed 4 times but I knew I couldn't give up, I was so close the last 2 times and just had a feeling I would get it this time.

I am so happy so I had to start a thread, NOT for praise (honest guv!) but to show those who have failed a few times that it's worth keeping going no matter what. It's absolutely shit failing but that feeling today when he said I's passed is something I never thought I'd experience.

I don't think I'll sleep tonight! I'm now looking at cheap cars to get me through the next year or so until DP trusts me to share his and have fallen in love with a little VW beetle which is out of my price range but fuck it, I'm having it!!!

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noenergy · 10/10/2018 23:47

Well done, getting out there straight away will make u more confident so make sure u get a car.

KurriKurri · 10/10/2018 23:55

Well done - all the best people me and you pass on the fifth attempt Grin Four minors is a really good pass Smile

I passed last year (at the age of 57) and the feeling of achievement, especially when you have failed a few, is amazing. And you appreciate things so much more when you've have to work hard for them.
Enjoy looking for your car - I fell in love with alittle Nissan Micra - just perfect for me, also out of my price range, but I've never regretted buying it.

Happy Driving ! Flowers

joopy79 · 10/10/2018 23:56

Well done!

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Shortyboo · 10/10/2018 23:58

Well done! WineWineSmile

DramaAlpaca · 11/10/2018 00:00

Well done!

MunkeeBum · 11/10/2018 00:00

Thank you! I'm 36 so I feel like I should have attempted it a long time ago but honestly was too scared. Something just changed earlier this year and I didn't even over think it I just sent straight off for my provisional and then booked lessons before it even came in the post as I didn't want to put it off any longer.

I will have my car for the weekend at the latest then I'm off on my own pees a little just the thought of that made my stomach flip but I will do it.

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NickyNora · 11/10/2018 00:01

Flowers well done Op!

Took me 4 attempts. I was awful!Blush

SpoonBlender · 11/10/2018 00:05

Hurray!

If you feel low on experience or insecure in anything particular you can always get your instructor back for more lessons (crossreference to the "struggling to join motorways" thread...).

Magik1 · 11/10/2018 00:08

Congrats OP, well done!! Enjoy your new car and all the freedom it'll bring

MunkeeBum · 11/10/2018 00:08

Yes he did say I can ring him any time to go out in a new car when I get one if I feel like I need the extra help. I think it's probably a good idea actually.

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SpoonBlender · 11/10/2018 00:31

It's a really good idea! I did with mine, took three more lessons after passing - first time he drilled me through the things I had minor notes on, then two motorway and country lanes lessons. It was great! So much less stressful than doing them before the test.

BeatriceJoanna · 11/10/2018 00:37

Yay! Well done.Flowers It's a fabulous feeling, isn't it?

I took four goes to pass mine and have been happily driving for fourteen years now. The best thing I ever did apart from having kids. Grin

Happy driving!

AriaMontgom · 11/10/2018 00:44

Well done! It’s an amazing achievement - I passed this year on my fourth go and also bought a VW Beetle! I love it!!

Justlikedevon · 11/10/2018 00:53

Congratulations!!! Driving is one of my most treasured skills. Wishing you many happy years of freedom.

stationaryace · 11/10/2018 05:26

Yay Cake, fellow 5th timer here. Passed when. I was 19 and been driving safely for 14 years, no accidents (touch wood).

grannycake · 11/10/2018 05:52

It took me 4 goes (and a gap of 20 yrs). Well done

Bodear · 11/10/2018 06:01

That’s fantastic! Well done OP. Don’t put yourself down for doing it at 36. I’ve done more new things since I turned 39 than I did before. You should be really proud of yourself.

IrishMamaMia · 11/10/2018 06:08

Well done. Thanks so much for sharing. I'm not a natural driver and am currently really struggling with learning so you have given me hope to keep going :) :)

BertieBotts · 11/10/2018 06:11

Well done! I've failed 4x and have stopped for now but do hope to try again with another instructor one day.

blamethecat · 11/10/2018 06:15

Congratulations! I'm learning at 38, test booked and I'm already nervous about it.

Booksandpens · 11/10/2018 06:19

Well done! I've got my 2nd test coming up, and like you must have taken 50 odd lessons to get here!
And I think I'll be taking a few more after I pass (if I do) to learn how to get on the motorway.

Honeywort · 11/10/2018 06:37

Congratulations!! This is a lovely thread to read - thank you for posting!

BleakBetty · 11/10/2018 06:39

Congratulations OP! That’s amazing, hope you enjoy your new car 🚗!

donajimena · 11/10/2018 06:40

I'm a 5th timer too. Been happily driving for 18 years now. Congratulations

BeautyQueenFromMars · 11/10/2018 12:30

Bloody well done!! Congratulations OP 😊

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