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Housewarming Gift

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Finfintytint · 03/10/2018 16:27

My son and his girlfriend have just moved into a rented house together. DH and I will visit at their invitation in the next couple of weeks (250 miles away).
I want to bring a housewarming gift but my son is not expressing any wants or needs " Mum, we are fine, we don't need a thing".
I've offered a fridge, a lawn mower, a coffee machine, etc which is met with " no, just come" Grin.
I know I don't have to provide a gift but I really want to.

I remember when DH and I had our first home and I loved the thoughtful stuff people gave us.

The question is what sort of gift can I give them that wouldn't matter if it was duplicated?

No point in giving a slow cooker for example if they already have one.

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MaxPepsi · 03/10/2018 16:30

A lovely vase and fresh flowers to go in it.

And then a hamper of delicious foods and drinks.

And depending on how much you want to spend, a voucher of some sort?
Homesense or Argos?

Aprilislonggone · 03/10/2018 16:30

Lovely smelly set for her!
And rubber gloves for him!
And a pot plant!!

thismeansnothing · 03/10/2018 16:31

Houseplant
A subscription to Hello Fresh, Gusto, Netflix
An Ocado delivery with lots of nice bits n bobs you wouldn't normally buy yourself

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diodon · 03/10/2018 16:37

Box of nice wine to fill their wine rack if they drink?

On a more housey front one thing I wish I'd got years ago is one of these cordless screwdrivers:
amzn.eu/d/eeNcyFv
(needs a battery/charge as well)
Makes flatpack furniture assembly a doddle.

Aridane · 03/10/2018 16:38

Hamper!

Finfintytint · 03/10/2018 16:42

Like the ideas of plants and vases. He's a chef so the food themed gifts may not float his boat. He does the majority of cooking.

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gothefcktosleep · 03/10/2018 16:47

Tea towels!

Wine, wine glasses and some yummy nibbles. Oooooooh.

Some flowers and a vase for them to go in, or a luxury candle instead...

Finfintytint · 03/10/2018 16:49

I think they may possibly drink (lol) so wine is a good suggestion thanks.

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HannahHut · 03/10/2018 16:51

Pot plant and a big Yankee candle. Just get a fresh one like baby powder or something.

Pot plants are nice to have in the home, if he's a chef maybe an aloe Vera for the kitchen (incase of burns)

Yankee candles are lovely to use, known for being expensive but also not something that you wouldn't use/have in the house.

Finfintytint · 03/10/2018 17:00

Candles seem like a nice idea. The landlord also lives with them so may not be an issues. I've rented a couple of times and candles were a no no.

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serbska · 03/10/2018 17:02

Bottle or two of champagne
Case of nice wine
Orchid
A voucher for John Lewis or other approved homeware place

Finfintytint · 03/10/2018 17:07

Although my default is vouchers, his granny has given him vouchers and I've given him cash for a birthday recently so I want something concrete.

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WinnerWinnerChickenDinner0 · 03/10/2018 17:12

If he is a chef, how about something like a sous vide

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legofansmum · 03/10/2018 17:14

What about an electric Yankee wax burner and a selection of wax mets/tarts

I've bought a few for different people and they've loved them and gone on to buy others for people too x

WinnerWinnerChickenDinner0 · 03/10/2018 17:14

Or one of these egg bbq things.
Like the green egg one (but they cost ££££)

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Lauren0rder · 03/10/2018 17:15

Food and beer.

Finfintytint · 03/10/2018 17:15

Ooh, that sounds interesting, Winner.

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WooYa · 03/10/2018 17:16

What about a nice photo frame? They could put a nice pic of themselves up in their new home

Finfintytint · 03/10/2018 17:20

Yes, photo frame is good. They like looking at photos of themselves. Ha!

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AuLoinSontVontLesNuages · 03/10/2018 17:40

A set of screwdrivers - lightbulbs - those little sticky felt things you put on chair legs - anti-moth blocs

Hippychick78 · 03/10/2018 17:57

He may cook but does he bake??? I always bake something depending on the person's tastes. Framed photos are definitely a great idea.

Wine or a nice bottle of booze for the house possibly??? We would really appreciate a nice bottle of rum or whiskey but it really all depends on budget and how much they drink

Finfintytint · 03/10/2018 21:06

Not sure he bakes so a nice cake would be good. Think his girlfriend does though.
Lots of great ideas thanks.

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AnnieAnoniMouse · 03/10/2018 21:13

Do they already have two lots of most things? What’s their income like? Do they have their own space or share with the landlord? How old are they? etc. All makes a HUGE difference.

Hippychick78 · 03/10/2018 21:32

I can highly recommend this cake for an occasion

www.womansown.co.uk/food/mary-berrys-very-best-chocolate-fudge-cake-9269/

Instead of heating the jam I put it on the warm cake... And add way more than the recipe suggests

Let us know what you decide

AppleKatie · 03/10/2018 21:34

Vouchers! Everyone needs money 🤣