Was I wrong to whip my top off in the carpark?

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I'd been for a very wet run in the rain. When I got back to the car, (at a park/beauty spot) I stood by the boot, back to the public, whipped of my wet top and put a dry sweatshirt on. Not as quick as I could have been maybe as cold wet fingers weren't working properly but a few seconds.

Fwiw, Underneath, I was wearing a very robust M&S sports bra and I don't have much to see anyway!

People run in the sports bras alone...I don't see what the harm in changing your top was!

Can’t see the issue. But then again men run around with no tops on.

Don’t some people wear only sports bras for running/working out? Can’t see the difference and I will often wander around the house with sports bra on when I’m getting ready

I have done it.

As has my partner (he doesn’t wear a sports bra though!) - I wonder if the man in question would have had as much of an issue with him doing it?

I bet he’d look delightful in a sports bra though sirzy

If a stranger told me off for that he’d have got a robust fuck off and a jaunty v flick.

Really give him something to get his Y fronts in a twist over.

YANBU that was just obviously an unhinged busybody nutjob... if it wasnt that it would be something else he was ranting about, thats what those people are like!!!

CantankerousCamel you just made actually LOL!

I would have mooned him.

From what you said it sounds fine and not flasherish in the slightest.

Ranters - they get everywhere!

Maybe he thought you looked too sexy in your sports bra

Some men walk down the street in town with no top on in the hot weather. Bet he wouldn’t have glanced for a second were you a man. Even if he had, he would have kept his thoughts to himself, in case the man posed a physical threat. What did he think was going to happen, you give a 12 yo boy a boner? Or the 10 yo sister would Copy you? Or perhaps their dad would have copped off with you? Pass the smelling salts. Prick.

Hell of a lot more coverage than a bikini which is acceptable to wear out in public.

Miserable old git. YANBU!

How ridiculous. I wouldn’t have batted an eyelid!

Those crop tops/sports bras are used for running anyway aren't they? Without a top on over it?

Don't see a problem. A man would do that no problem. They also pee in public all the time. Men walk about in town in public no one says a word. But sone How you are offensive cos you changed your tip whilst breasts fully covered... nah. Piss off

It was fine. Wouldn't have bothered me even if I had seen you and had my children with me. I have teen boys they probably would have been embarrassed because they are teen boys. I would probably have teased them but it's silly how we all are about things like this but don't bat an eyelid at skimpy bikinis at the beach. Sometimes I wonder if people have any common sense at all.

Completely fine. Just ignore the dickhead.

I'm away with dh at the min and we've been for a swim in the sea every morning early on. There's an old man who's been swimming here every morning too...he whips it all out and changes on the beach from wet to dry. Sitting on a towel and fairly discreetly. The swimmers amongst us don't bat a eyelid. We've named talkywacker Joe 😂

No different from being in a bikini

He has obviously never watched the athletics on TV. The females seem to run in what look to me like their bra and pants. There are even children in the audience and no-one seems offended.

Discretely changing a top is fine. He may have had a point if you'd taken bra off but I really can't understand his problem.

I bet man in question has a furtive porn habit and can't help seeing any bare female flesh as titillating.

It's fine. You did nothing wrong.

Aussie surfers in a beach car park do a great towel change. Why should you be any different. Stupid man

AssassinatedBeauty
I agree!
Clearly has issues with women or an inflated sense of my penis makes me better than you.