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A thread to say awful things you can't say out loud.

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SaidNeighbour · 30/08/2018 23:57

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StealthPolarBear · 31/08/2018 08:16

I thought deljlah was on the wrong thread but she was just doing exactly as asked!

NotUmbongoUnchained · 31/08/2018 08:17

I don’t think there’s anything that I wouldn’t actually say out loud in real life.

Mum2OneTeen · 31/08/2018 08:20

I hate all most men and wish they go and live on another planet.

MyWorstSelf · 31/08/2018 08:28

I'm worried that my DH will cheat with someone in his new job.

I'm worried my DD won't do the work she needs to this year to get into Uni.

I am struggling with a close friendship and am both relieved and heartbroken that it seems to be breaking down.

I can't believe what a twat my Dad is being.

I have zero self esteem.

Original poster
SaidNeighbour · 31/08/2018 08:44

@MyWorstSelf.Flowers I'm sorry, you sound like you're giving yourself a really hard time! Are those things likely or just anxiety talking?

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MyWorstSelf · 31/08/2018 09:00

SaidNeighbour Maybe a bit of both. My DH had an affair in his previous job. It had a devastating impact on our lives. He was one of those men who 'would never do it'. My DD didn't do well enough this year to get an unconditional offer for Uni. She's got her heart set on going next year, but she'll have to pull something pretty special out of the bag. We are supporting her as much as we possibly can, but we can't do the work for her. My close friendship is complicated. Communicating with her makes me feel bad, but she's like my sister. It's dying a slow death and is extremely sad and painful. My Dad has let me down very badly. All in all, I trust no one now. Sad

Mum2OneTeen · 31/08/2018 09:07

MyWorstSelf I also worry that DD won't do the amount of work she needs to do to get into uni next year. Low self-esteem also a constant with me too. Thanks

Burlea · 31/08/2018 09:11

I dislike my mother

DonnaDarko · 31/08/2018 09:16

I hate my MIL for being a burden and ruining her son's life as he has a sense of obligation to care for her even though she won't help herself by engaging with mental health services.

darklady64 · 31/08/2018 10:13

MyWorstSelf and Mum2OneTeen - don't panic. I was where you are with a DS who just wouldn't work. He didn't get any of his university offers, BUT got in somewhere pretty decent on clearing, absolutely loved it, learned that he had to actually work to get results, got a 2:1 and is now gainfully employed! It's stressful, but you'll all get there!

Sorry for slight threadjack. To get back to the main topic - I'm not at all sorry that MIL is no longer in our lives.

beachcomber243 · 31/08/2018 10:31

My neighbour is a wanker. Literally. With his back doors wide open we can hear porn and the associated noises at super loud volume when we are in the garden.

It's very embarrassing and I usually go indoors for a while! It takes about 20 minutes....He's a sad idiot.

nornironrock · 31/08/2018 10:39

My neighbour smokes so much weed out the back door, I can smell it in my house. I wish they they would fuck off indoors and pollute their own house.

I absolutely hate all pets. The thought of allowing an animal of any description to touch anything in my house make me feel ill.

To be fair, I say the second thing out loud quite often. Does not make me popular with the children, but gives them something to look forward to for when they have their own house to ruin.

Namechanger1776 · 31/08/2018 11:30

I hate my ex husband and wish he was dead. The wife beating, rapist piece of shit and i am filled with dread that ds will turn out like youz

yawning801 · 31/08/2018 11:34

I like pineapple on pizza.

Flame me, I dare you! Grin

whiteroseredrose · 31/08/2018 18:40

If I died tomorrow only my family would be upset.

TeaAndBisquits · 31/08/2018 18:46

Some of my colleagues are leaving soon and I can't bloody wait! They've made my life hell for the past however long and the emotional stress I've been put through is through the roof. I'm counting down the days!

ItsJustASimpleLine · 31/08/2018 19:06

Where to start!?!?!

Sister you are an ungrateful CF. I look after your children for free at great personal expense and loss of earnings a thank you or any sign of gratitude would be nice since I am subsidising your lifestyle. (I love these kids and will not stop, but I do it for them)

Mam you are selfish and the 'help' you do give is so begrudged it's barely worth having even when desperate which is the only time you asked. Your attention seeking behaviour when your mother was dying on facebook has forever tarnished our relationship and my opinion of you something I'm not even sure you are aware of because you don't think of others. She was his wife, our grandmother, her mother aswell we all suffered.

TwllBach · 31/08/2018 19:13

I am jealous of anyone I know that is a stay at home mum.

I am jealous of anyone that is pregnant.

I love my ds more than life but he isn’t enough, I feel like I need another baby. That sounds awful and of course he’s more than enough... I mean I don’t feel my family is complete yet?

I’m so deeply angry with dp for not enabling me to stay at home until ds is in full time school. So angry. He has his own business and could bring in the big bucks but doesn’t. I feel awful for thinking this because he has enabled me to quit my career and take a part time inconsequential job, but I’m just skint and miserable. I feel even worse because in order for me to stay at home with ds and fantasy secondbaby, dp would have to work really hard... but I justify it to myself by thinking it would only be for 4/5 months a year.

Ohyesiam · 31/08/2018 19:22

MyWorstSelf that sucks, I’m sorry that you are under so much stress and feel so bad. Low self esteem is the worst. When I was being particularly vicious to myself I used to try to respond to myself as I would to a good friend.
Sending you an unmumsnetty hug
(((((((())))))))

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 31/08/2018 20:23

I don’t think Charles Dickens’ books are classics. I think they are tedious and boring.

AlpacaPicnic · 31/08/2018 20:24

BIL - why have you written a huge happy birthday message to your own daughter on Facebook and tagged all eleventymillion of your friends (including me and the dH) in it? She's your daughter and she can barely read because she's a small child who's not at school yet, she's definitely not on Facebook so who is benefiting from the message?

You just wanted to show off the obscenely huge pile of presents what a fab dad you are , didn't you?

SpeckledDot · 31/08/2018 20:34

To anon:

You have a tiny penis and that is why i didn't enjoy sleeping with you. And your voice is too high. And why on Earth do you shave your legs?? I like body hair on men and you were less hairy than me! Too weird.

BonnieF · 31/08/2018 20:47

The vast majority of Leave voters are pig ignorant, uneducated racists.

Tattoos are chavvy.

The climate is undoubtedly changing, but it has more to do with natural cyclical factors which play out over centuries than human activity.

Bouledeneige · 01/09/2018 08:48

I'm disappointed that neither of my kids worked hard enough in their A-Levels and GCSEs to get grades that reflect their aptitude. And I'm worried they are both just too lazy to put the effort in in future.

(I admit I was lazy as hell at their age too.....)

ramil45 · 01/09/2018 13:12

size not matter, have to make most of it both.

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