What is expected of your lady garden

[reyn38]

Ok I'm thinking about joining the dating pool. My question is what is expected of my down stairs. My first husband it was normal to go all natural my second husband was in a time it was expected to have a clean shave now after being on my own for quite some time I could probably Platt it. What are we meant to do with it these days ?????

I quite like that - I think I may have to change my name .

It doesn't happen till quite late on though - seventies some time I think (recalling nursing my mum).

You may name change then .
So not while the seventies then.Gosh I've got twenty odd years then yet!

And quite a few greys
Was hoping to be bald rather than grey.haha.

Ive shaved mine this afternoon and IT feels bloody weird I regret doing it now
It's already itchy so ive slathered some conditioner down there
Now ive messed with my PH balance
I'm going back to full on 70's bush
This grooming lark is too much
DH Dosent care what it like like but he DOSEN'T like full on baldness like ive done
It's because I got a new trimmer so ive been shaving everything today I look like a bastarding seal !
Luckily ive got a handheld dyson too to clear up the mess

I dread that I might get intimate with someone who runs a mile because I'm not up to date with garden grooming

Yeah, I also dread getting intimate with such a man.

I'd rather he'd run away before anything like that can happen.

Really, think about whether you want to be with a man who'd run away because your pubic hair is just as untrimmed as his.

My partner likes it shaved but if I cba he doesn't complain

Some men are bothered by a natural look, and some men will not go down if it is not trimmed or waxed. Some men don't care. I like trim and tidy so that is what it is.

I would say go with what you are comfortable with. It's your body and your choice.
After the menopause it does tend to thin and go grey.