Husband and i have opportunity to go to New York for 5 days/4 nights...
Never taken a holiday without our kids, best friend has offered to have kids, almost 5 and 14. They are very at home there and would be happy to stay with her & have fun with their pals (BF's kids).
A family member says it's too far away in case anything happens and suggested is selfish... Now can't device if doing the right thing!?
WWYD?