Three years on marriage and three kids in two years later my husband received a texts "hi thanks baby xxx". Since he's asleep I wake him and ask who's that, he says it's not for him, surely wrong number, goes back to bed. I take his phone and research all night what's going on, gut feeling! I ask him that night if there's anything I need to know a couple of times but he assures me, goes back to bed (his face didn't look the same). I find out he's been looking at escorts, texting them, received even another text from different number with escorts address and charge that night, he's been viewing that same address earlier on on his maps I found. I asked him in the morning to tell me what's happening and after long wait he admitted to be browsing thought escort webs for 20 years, texting, calling them but never actually going through with it. He just gets the rush from texting and calling but finds them too filthy to sleep with. For some reason I believe he's not slept with them but I haven't told him that. Regardless, how would you feel and what would you do if your husband firstly lied about anything going on but once confronted admits being an addict for browsing through and texting escorts. He was pretty open with me in the end, I was to ask him anything. Apparently he says its like his secret sickness, he even knows where they are, who's new in town, what they do etc. But it's not something he finds sexual.
My head is messed up atm. Opinions please...