My mother and father haven't been together since I was 5ish, we went without see my father till I was 13ish. He didn't stay in contact for long maybe a year if that, then I saw him once when I was out on my 18th birthday but haven't seen him since (now 24).
He has been in contact with my younger brother for the last 3 years but I've never really bothered to get contact.
But recently I wanted to get to know him a little more, so I asked my brother for his contact details, but he refused to give them to me. So I found my father in Facebook (I know I know that thing again) and messages him. Asking if he would like to have some kind of relationship.
His reply was that with him having a relationship with my brother it takes up a lot of his time and effort to do that so he doesn't have time to have one with me.
He has 5 children with my mother and 1 other and he only sees my brother.
WWYD do I leave it? Or do I tell him that he is out of order?