WWYD if OW was moved in?

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DH has been cheating on you. You catch him out, tell him to move out as this is the DCs home and you're not prepared to move them into a motel, whatever.
DH refuses as it's his house, and he wants to move OW in.

So do you give in and move out or join the cast of Big Love?

I do too

This man sounds the lowest of the low

All I can think of is....what a selfish (insert blasphemous words here)

If he moved the OW into your family home, that would really disrupt your children's wellbeing. If he forced you and the children to move out would that make you homeless?! if so he CAN NOT do that.

If it were me, i would take him to cleaners. Get you're share of the house. Ensuring that the OW doesnt have ANY contact with the kids. And generally make life pretty difficult for him. Get CSA involved etc.

Do you know what I would call EVERYONE, your family, his family, her family, the health visitors, the gps stating that he is having a breakdown as no one in their right minds would do this to their children and can they help him.
Sow the seed that he is not to be trusted which of course he isn't is he?
Get EVERYONE on your side and get them to bear pressure on him to be a man and to sort this out as amicably as possible.