Tricky work situation

[Rachx73]

Hi, looking for a bit of advice. I was out on an office night out last weekend and things got a bit heated with me and another colleague, we ended up in a hotel having passionate sex (it was great btw!!) but the problem is I have had a partner for 4 years and the feeling of guilt is killing me. Since being back in work this week my colleague has been all over me but I have tried to play it down until today when I ended up in the toilets and I gave him oral. I don?t want to leave my partner but I can?t knock back this sex. Can I continue just sleeping with my colleague as he has said there is no strings attached, just sex.

I am watching him just now and want to ride him again

that would explain how they were both in the same toilet
But the OP is a woman , she has a kiss in her name :)

could be Times 73 rather than a kiss.

Rach times 73 = blow job in toilet

very good point
or a name in itself
pronounced rak-hz

Really SPB? Pizza Hut? I'm seeing you in a whole new light

I think text is a perfectly sensible option. Nice and clean, no drama, no need to deal with tears and explanations. What's not to love?

Now you go find a nice quiet corner of the office love. You tried the photocopy room yet? Time for another cliche I feel.

What other forum are all these shit Trolls invading from? Just so I can give it a wide birth, it must be an incredibly rubbish one. They are all so lame...

Do what you like if you are not married and don't have children with your partner, but don't do it in the office loo during working hours - that's tacky.

And you will get caught - and probably sacked.

If you really can't leave this man alone and you have only been with your partner for four years then you need to think very carefully about whether he is the right man for you. Your relationship should be in its prime after 4 years, not dull enough for you to crave the sexual attention of someone else.

RakHUX - born in 1973 and is therefore 37 and a bit too blinking well old to be playing the pink oboe in working hours.

Yes, I'm waiting for the mention of spanking and comments about the filthy irish - don't disappoint, OP

Oh, I see. Sorry, didn't read whole thread!

I?m at work so couldn?t phone him and I?m going to a colleagues after work so I thought it would be best to get it over and done with.

Btw its rach x (kiss), I am a girl for all the doubters, I suppose all your lifes are perfect

You only live once if a good ride comes along you can?t knock it back!!!

doubters in da house!

Seriously, if you're 37 you are HAYMAZING!

that was only 11 minutes - are you sure he's worth it?

you need to fill your hole! ;)

I think OP's been reading the recently-bumped thread in relationships where the OP had us all believing she'd found accidental footage of sandpaper frottage on her hedgehog camera.

OP, own up, is that you?

I've had my hole filled plenty of time thanks

Mills & Loon more like.

Carry on. We're listening.