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Tricky work situation

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Rachx73 · 21/10/2010 13:18

Hi, looking for a bit of advice. I was out on an office night out last weekend and things got a bit heated with me and another colleague, we ended up in a hotel having passionate sex (it was great btw!!) but the problem is I have had a partner for 4 years and the feeling of guilt is killing me. Since being back in work this week my colleague has been all over me but I have tried to play it down until today when I ended up in the toilets and I gave him oral. I don?t want to leave my partner but I can?t knock back this sex. Can I continue just sleeping with my colleague as he has said there is no strings attached, just sex.

I am watching him just now and want to ride him again

OP posts:
SHRIIIEEEKPoolingBearBlood · 21/10/2010 13:19

I think it's discrimination and you should sue

SHRIIIEEEKPoolingBearBlood · 21/10/2010 13:19

hod on, who is sue?

MaudOHara · 21/10/2010 13:20

[bisuit]

Lauriefairycake · 21/10/2010 13:20

Are you in a monogomous relationship?

Would you partner be bothered?

If he would be then you really shouldn't string him along - it just makes you a bit of a cow bag tbh.

MaudOHara · 21/10/2010 13:20

gah can't even do Biscuit properly today

Lauriefairycake · 21/10/2010 13:22

BTW - you just 'end up' giving someone oral Hmm

It's kind of one of those things where you notice yourself dropping to your knees, opening your mouth and unzipping his flies Hmm

llareggub · 21/10/2010 13:22

I hope you put the hotel on expenses.

SHRIIIEEEKPoolingBearBlood · 21/10/2010 13:22

EXACTLY the same thing happened to me OP, let me tell you all the details.

Lauriefairycake · 21/10/2010 13:25

me too, I can barely leave the house without accidentally falling on someone's cock.

Indith · 21/10/2010 13:26
Rachx73 · 21/10/2010 13:26

My partner would be bothered i think you think i should ask him Confused that wouldn't help i dont think??? He paid for the hotel, i will pay next itme well worht it Grin

OP posts:
SHRIIIEEEKPoolingBearBlood · 21/10/2010 13:27

i bet we live in the same area!

SHRIIIEEEKPoolingBearBlood · 21/10/2010 13:28

OK OP if this is even in the slightest bit serious, you should leave your partner. Why wouldn't you?

Lauriefairycake · 21/10/2010 13:28

If you're partner would be bothered then it's shit to carry on deceiving him.

Leave a relationship before fucking someone else - it makes you less of a dirty mare.

Lauriefairycake · 21/10/2010 13:28

your not you're

EvilAntsAndMiasmas · 21/10/2010 13:29

Not sure how giving someone a blowjob can be construed as "great sex". Especially in a toilet. It's a cock, it's in your mouth, you're probably kneeling in pools of pee - it's every girl's dream isn't it.

SHRIIIEEEKPoolingBearBlood · 21/10/2010 13:29

Well Indith
It was a dark and stormy night....lighthouse..crashing waves...ringing telephone...sound of an owl...and I could never show my face in Pizza Hut again
Blush

LittleRedPumpkin · 21/10/2010 13:31

Thanks for brightening up my day.

Every girl's dream, indeed.

Rachx73 · 21/10/2010 13:32

I have took your advice and texted him were finished?now wheres that colleague of mine [hornyface]

OP posts:
SHRIIIEEEKPoolingBearBlood · 21/10/2010 13:32

this is just like a mills and boon

SHRIIIEEEKPoolingBearBlood · 21/10/2010 13:33

oh come on, who are you?
Oh hang on, she won't be back for 8 minutes and 24 seconds

ShirleyGarrote · 21/10/2010 13:33

SO sexist, how do you know the OP isn't a man?

Lauriefairycake · 21/10/2010 13:33

You texted someone to dump them after 4 years Shock

what a catch you are Hmm

He didn't deserve a conversation?

DuelingFanjo · 21/10/2010 13:34

trip trap!

Lauriefairycake · 21/10/2010 13:34

Well I was assuming that 'Rach' stood for rachel

but it could be 'Rachmaninoff' Grin

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