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Amaretire40 · 07/10/2026 17:41

As the title says, I’ve decided to retire at 40, so AMA!

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Granddesigncomingup · Yesterday 13:56

Lettersearch · Yesterday 13:55

AMA! 😆

True, but your tone seems quite unpleasant.

Lettersearch · Yesterday 13:57

Granddesigncomingup · Yesterday 13:56

True, but your tone seems quite unpleasant.

Nosy

Caterina99 · Yesterday 14:23

Good for you OP!

I think I’d look at retraining into something I enjoyed but doesn’t pay well. Like being a part time teaching assistant or something for example.

I know you talked about voluntary work, but your figures are actually a bit tight, especially given the husband with the not so flourishing business (could you assist him in his business?)

We have no mortgage and take home just over 3k a month in income. It’s certainly reasonable money and we’re comfortable but it’s not a particularly luxurious lifestyle. We do have 2 kids so they cost us money, but then they mean we can’t go out much either!

Wildgoat · Yesterday 14:57

Amaretire40 · Yesterday 12:36

My outgoings whilst working were not negligible - daily tube, lunch, and slightly too often pub/meals out and being able to axe the office gym for my own home kit mean I’ll probably instantly ‘save’ £700-800 per month.

The budget trackers tell us that essential/normal household bills (utilities insurance phones and car/transport) are £750-900 per month which are shared.

On the discretionary side, I am good with cheaper pursuits and there are many locally - parks, museums, cooking - though I have a weakness for trying new restaurants (mostly local authentic places, occasional set lunch deals). Even accounting for holiday pot and extraordinary expenses, I don’t really see the remaining £1.5k being fully spent every month.

That’s really low, I guess it excludes food but Includes council tax?

so water, elective/gas, streaming services, sky, insurance, WiFi, cell phones etc ? Then you must have food on top?

Squirrel437 · Yesterday 16:17

Amaretire40 · 07/10/2026 19:52

Ive got £500k in investments, pension of £400k (so will hopefully grow over the next 25-30 years), and own the £1.2m house outright which also forms part of a future downsize plan.

Retired at 54 with £1.2m in my pension and £100k in savings. Not touched the pension yet other than to take £12,570 this tax year. I describe myself as retired.

DoubleShotEspressox · Yesterday 16:50

@Devilla The bitterness just exudes off you 😂

Granddesigncomingup · Yesterday 17:44

Squirrel437 · Yesterday 16:17

Retired at 54 with £1.2m in my pension and £100k in savings. Not touched the pension yet other than to take £12,570 this tax year. I describe myself as retired.

How are you going to make use of all that pension before you die without paying huge amounts of tax on it?

TheAquaTraybake · Yesterday 19:29

wow. I've seen your follow-up comments. I'm not bragging (because it's due to a bereavement, in addition to a portion of it being savings) but I have the same or a bit more in investments, ISAs, house etc, and I would not dream of retiring on that amount.

I'm not saying you need to carry on with the high-stress finance sector role, but there's other, more enjoyable jobs out there. I work in my son's old school and it's a lovely community. I need to get out and interact; I can see what isolation has done with my mum and it's not great for your mental health.

Anyway, well done, OP.

Squirrel437 · Yesterday 22:52

Granddesigncomingup · Yesterday 17:44

How are you going to make use of all that pension before you die without paying huge amounts of tax on it?

Please don’t worry I’m doing very well at it. Here for a good time not a long time! Spend it. Ps It won’t be me paying the IHT.

Granddesigncomingup · Today 00:31

Squirrel437 · Yesterday 22:52

Please don’t worry I’m doing very well at it. Here for a good time not a long time! Spend it. Ps It won’t be me paying the IHT.

Edited

I’m talking about income tax not IHT

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