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AMA - Retired at 40

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Amaretire40 · 07/10/2026 17:41

As the title says, I’ve decided to retire at 40, so AMA!

OP posts:
WhatNextImScared · 07/10/2026 20:22

fumingrightnow1 · 07/10/2026 19:37

Whats the difference between being retired and unemployed?

Well simply that you can afford to never work again. You are financially independent.

Amaretire40 · 07/10/2026 20:24

FrogAndToadTogether · 07/10/2026 20:22

Congratulations OP! I’d love to go at 40 - living the dream!

Are any of your friends early retiring as well? Are you telling them all you’re FIREd?

Thanks!
Yes, have told friends - most knew it was part of the plan as have always been quite open about it. None are quite there themselves yet but a number have certainly made a few changes particularly around pensions.

OP posts:
itsmeagainagain · 07/10/2026 20:26

Devilla · 07/10/2026 20:13

Well it’s not a great fantasy

not able to have children
married to man who has been trying to build a business for years but not made a bean
and no idea how she’s going to feel her time but might dabble in a bit of voluntary work

sounds boring really.

What a petty and nasty comment @Devilla

BoogieTuTu · 07/10/2026 20:27

Well done OP. I so wish I had the financial knowledge in my early 20’s starting out in my career. Getting to your 40’s in a really demanding career and thinking, I have to do this for another 20 years. It must be such a wonderful feeling to have the option of deciding not to carry on or working less.

Devilla · 07/10/2026 20:28

itsmeagainagain · 07/10/2026 20:26

What a petty and nasty comment @Devilla

That poster was saying it was all made up and a fantasy

skivitis · 07/10/2026 20:32

I think it would be fun to choose what to do next.
I love my job so would probably do it for free if I retired BlushGrin . In fact I already do it in a voluntary capacity on top of my day job Blush

I have friends who have worked in finance then retired young and they have built happy and rich lives for themselves afterwards . I couldn't have done the intense stretch they went through but I can see it's a different way to a work life balance

MaggieBsBoat · 07/10/2026 20:33

I think this is bloody marvellous OP. Well done on a disciplined and successful life. I am on a high salary but didn’t make similar decisions and I regret that. But good for you!!

gravitarse · 07/10/2026 20:34

People who say Russell group boil my piss

AMA - Retired at 40
BatchCookBabe · 07/10/2026 20:34

You are 40! You must know that you can't stay 'retired' @Amaretire40

You could live another 50 years, 60 even. All your cash from your 'stocks and shares' and 'investments' are not going to last. Unless you're a multi millionaire, no-one is retired at 40.

Why would anyone want to be anyway? Yeah, working for 'the man' is shit for many people, but most people (if they came into some money) at just 40, would invest it into a small business venture/going self employed. No-one is going to 'retire' at 40 and never do anything again, except their hobbies. And as I said, most people wouldn't be able to do it financially.

I am definitely not jealous, and would find this life fruitless and boring.

Yogafiend · 07/10/2026 20:34

@Amaretire40 - This was my husband’s goal too. Then he met me and had 3 kids 😂😂😂. So he has changed his goal to 50.

Well done OP. I’m happy for you. I’m sure you have plenty of other interests that can/will keep you occupied. My husband also did very long hours (still does albeit not as much) and it’s hard work so happy for you!

Yogafiend · 07/10/2026 20:38

skivitis · 07/10/2026 20:32

I think it would be fun to choose what to do next.
I love my job so would probably do it for free if I retired BlushGrin . In fact I already do it in a voluntary capacity on top of my day job Blush

I have friends who have worked in finance then retired young and they have built happy and rich lives for themselves afterwards . I couldn't have done the intense stretch they went through but I can see it's a different way to a work life balance

Same! I work with charities and do some “work” but don’t charge them. I’m lucky enough that I can do that.

And also agree I don’t think I could have ever done the same long hours for years and years! My husband has been doing them since he graduated and still does (he’s 40 now).

BatchCookBabe · 07/10/2026 20:39

Amaretire40 · 07/10/2026 19:46

I hadn’t hit follow the thread… oops … so thanks for the nudge!

When you start a thread, or post on a thread, it automatically goes onto your Threads I'm Watching.

Amaretire40 · 07/10/2026 20:39

skivitis · 07/10/2026 20:32

I think it would be fun to choose what to do next.
I love my job so would probably do it for free if I retired BlushGrin . In fact I already do it in a voluntary capacity on top of my day job Blush

I have friends who have worked in finance then retired young and they have built happy and rich lives for themselves afterwards . I couldn't have done the intense stretch they went through but I can see it's a different way to a work life balance

I think that’s where I’m up to.. I wanted to stop but I’m not too sure what I’ll do next. I already do some community stuff, so expect to continue / increase that. I’ve found it very hard to think about what I could do as the day job was so intense, so I’m giving myself the time to reset.
Ive always been jealous of people who love their job - good for you!

OP posts:
BatchCookBabe · 07/10/2026 20:40

gravitarse · 07/10/2026 20:34

People who say Russell group boil my piss

Why?

roycroppersshopper · 07/10/2026 20:40

@Amaretire40 fantastic, good for you and kudos that you managed to save so much so quickly. I can imagine that sort of work leads to burn out. Also think it's great that you're not just head long trying to make as much as possible and living a crazy lavish lifestyle. I think a working class upbringing never leaves you!

I've got a similar pension amount to you and am mortgage free. I won't be able to downsize as recently divorced so the downsize has happened already! Thinking I might be able to retire earlier than I imagined but only by a few years.

I hope you find something fulfilling to occupy you. If you're good at gardening and growing veg, why not start a charity or CIC to help those on low incomes grow their own and maybe learn to cook with it?

skivitis · 07/10/2026 20:40

I am not sure I would be comfortable to retire on £500k of investments though. The people I know who did it had a lot more.
And my pension pot is £450k now and I don't see that as enough to retire on, I am planning to keep paying in steadily with the goal of retiring at 60

itsgettingweird · 07/10/2026 20:41

Lanananabanana · 07/10/2026 20:02

Hahaha I love these fantasist stories

op, I have a question have you always been a good storyteller?

Why do you think it’s fantasy?

i know a couple who were investment bankers in their 20’s. Made millions.

had kids kid 20’s and now their work and all 3 go to private school (3 different schools that suit each child).

They literally work for themselves managing their investments now.

If you’re savvy enough it’s doable.

OP o would enjoy your retirement by looking into hobbies, can you travel with your hobby? Maybe attend craft fairs if you like making stuff you could sell etc.

what about listening to readers at local schools or the library?

BermudaRhombus · 07/10/2026 20:41

Amaretire40 · 07/10/2026 19:52

Ive got £500k in investments, pension of £400k (so will hopefully grow over the next 25-30 years), and own the £1.2m house outright which also forms part of a future downsize plan.

This just doesn’t seem that much to retire at 40! But I guess it depends on lifestyle.

skivitis · 07/10/2026 20:42

Amaretire40 · 07/10/2026 20:39

I think that’s where I’m up to.. I wanted to stop but I’m not too sure what I’ll do next. I already do some community stuff, so expect to continue / increase that. I’ve found it very hard to think about what I could do as the day job was so intense, so I’m giving myself the time to reset.
Ive always been jealous of people who love their job - good for you!

Yes I don't think you should try and rush into anything. Taking some time out first sounds sensible. And opportunities/ideas might come up that you can't even imagine right now
I had no idea the amazing charity I work with even existed until one day I spotted a tiny advert on FB!

Amaretire40 · 07/10/2026 20:42

roycroppersshopper · 07/10/2026 20:40

@Amaretire40 fantastic, good for you and kudos that you managed to save so much so quickly. I can imagine that sort of work leads to burn out. Also think it's great that you're not just head long trying to make as much as possible and living a crazy lavish lifestyle. I think a working class upbringing never leaves you!

I've got a similar pension amount to you and am mortgage free. I won't be able to downsize as recently divorced so the downsize has happened already! Thinking I might be able to retire earlier than I imagined but only by a few years.

I hope you find something fulfilling to occupy you. If you're good at gardening and growing veg, why not start a charity or CIC to help those on low incomes grow their own and maybe learn to cook with it?

Thank you!
Indeed - Some of the community stuff I support (albeit on the admin side) is in this sort of field, and I can certainly imagine ramping that up.

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Lanananabanana · 07/10/2026 20:43

itsgettingweird · 07/10/2026 20:41

Why do you think it’s fantasy?

i know a couple who were investment bankers in their 20’s. Made millions.

had kids kid 20’s and now their work and all 3 go to private school (3 different schools that suit each child).

They literally work for themselves managing their investments now.

If you’re savvy enough it’s doable.

OP o would enjoy your retirement by looking into hobbies, can you travel with your hobby? Maybe attend craft fairs if you like making stuff you could sell etc.

what about listening to readers at local schools or the library?

But she hasn’t made millions has she?

RandomUsernameHere · 07/10/2026 20:45

Good for you! I’m also 40 and would love to do this if I could. If people ask you what you do for a living, will you use the term “retired”? I expect people would be quite surprised by it, given your age, not that it matters. Like you said, “unemployed” implies it’s not by choice, so I can’t really think of a better term to use.

BermudaRhombus · 07/10/2026 20:46

Lanananabanana · 07/10/2026 20:43

But she hasn’t made millions has she?

If she’s in finance then she must have run the numbers and I reckon it could work on a very modest lifestyle. But she could have another 50 years to cover.

Lanananabanana · 07/10/2026 20:51

BermudaRhombus · 07/10/2026 20:46

If she’s in finance then she must have run the numbers and I reckon it could work on a very modest lifestyle. But she could have another 50 years to cover.

Funny because even chatGPT says it’s crazy 😆

If we entirely remove the property lever,
your liquid bridge fund is strictly £500,000.
Because you cannot touch your £400,000 pension for 17 years, relying purely on this £500,000 portfolio makes a full retirement at age 40 highly vulnerable to failure.

BermudaRhombus · 07/10/2026 20:57

Lanananabanana · 07/10/2026 20:51

Funny because even chatGPT says it’s crazy 😆

If we entirely remove the property lever,
your liquid bridge fund is strictly £500,000.
Because you cannot touch your £400,000 pension for 17 years, relying purely on this £500,000 portfolio makes a full retirement at age 40 highly vulnerable to failure.

I still think it’s doable. There’s a whole FIRE movement built around this kind of strategy and people do ‘retire’ and live very frugally. She could of course always go back to work if it doesn’t work out, but that becomes harder the older one gets. I would probably go part time if it was me, but that’s also because I’d miss aspects of work and actually succeeding at retirement can be quite challenging - lots of people lose their way and go downhill when they stop work.