I can’t speak for A cat but I can speak for other prisons and yes I was shocked by how normal and ‘nice’ many offenders were, especially sex offenders.
Some you aren’t surprised about at all but some are well to do, professional men.
Some are young, good looking, charismatic men.
I went into the work with my eyes wide open and knowing what many men are like but honestly if I had young DCs I would never let any man near them.
It probably has affected my trust with men but I’m not sure if that’s a bad thing.
I often wonder how young single women find working there and if it puts them off being in a relationship with a man (obviously not all of them if you read the news).
I also work quite centrally to multiple prisons and I’ve only saw ex prisoners a handful of times and luckily they’ve been decent ones, so it was nice to see them.
I have had prisoners become obsessed with me and that sometimes scares me for when they get out.
It only takes 1 person to say the rough area you live or what car you drive and you’re screwed.
They get let out and they’re free.
So depending on what time their probation meeting is, they could hang around or come back at the time they know you finish and see what car you drive or follow you home.