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I am highly intelligent, ask me anything

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nolinkname · 22/02/2026 09:01

Using standard IQ scales/assessments I am highly intelligent. I have also done some research into high intelligence. Being highly intelligent has advantages and drawbacks. Ask me anything :-)

(Just to preempt some comments: No, I don’t think intelligent people are better human beings than other people. I think qualities such as being kind are more important for example. No, intelligent people are not always ‘better for society’, there is some evidence, for example, that really highly intelligent people carry out proportionally somewhat more crimes (white collar). No, I don’t look down on less intelligent people (sometimes I envy them), but it can obviously be a bit difficult to connect if you have very different frames of reference. No, intelligence does not have any direct links to social skills (positive or negative).)

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ChattyCatty25 · 22/02/2026 11:04

TaffetaPhrases · 22/02/2026 10:46

How do you find having a partner? Do you get bored and have to grade the intellectual content of your conversations towards them or do you get frustrated.

My husband is incredibly intelligent and I’d say he hasn’t got a massive ego but I do wonder if he is constrained by me and my comparatively weaker inner world. I am intelligent myself but really
no match for him intellectually and we both know it.

Why do you think you have a “weaker” inner world? That’s not related to intelligence.

I was a highly intelligent child and young adult, but after a few seizures (which affected my memory) and a head injury, I’m pretty sure if I had to take an IQ test again it wouldn’t be in the genius level any more. I find it effortful to learn things now and have poor attention to detail. Yet my inner world is just is vibrant and my thoughts and feelings just as valid as before.

whymadam · 22/02/2026 11:04

Many years ago I knew a real cleverclogs. He belonged to MENSA, had a high IQ (I forget exactly how high, odd because he never missed an opportunity to mention it). He was bright, for sure - yet also extraordinarily thick in so many ways. He had no emotional intelligence whatsoever, and there were undoubtedly shades of narcissism. Also, sat on his ar*e and went nowhere with formal education, or a steady career.

Hellohelga · 22/02/2026 11:04

Gloriia · 22/02/2026 11:01

Ok no answer to ghosts. What about aliens op, as a highly intelligent person able to interpret data and evidence what do you think?

OP only wants to debate intelligence, society, human interactions. Won’t say her academic area but it’s clearly not STEM.

gtamum · 22/02/2026 11:05

What are the “standard IQ tests/assessments” that you reference in your original
post, and is there a reason why you won’t answer the posters wanting to know your IQ score or if you are a member of Mensa?

IfThen · 22/02/2026 11:05

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 22/02/2026 10:39

Do you have at least your fair share of common sense, too? Because the cleverest people I know, academically speaking (PhDs) often seem decidedly short of it!

This is a myth that shows up a lot on here. I’m an academic, so everyone I work with has a PhD, and across all the institutions I’ve worked at in three countries, there’s as much variation in common sense among those who have PhDs as there is in any other set of people. The ivory tower thing is long gone. These days to function as an academic you don’t float about tweedily, occasionally dropping off the illegible MS of your new book to OUP, you have a lot of admin responsibility as well as teaching and research, and are often managing postdocs and researchers and administering large grants as PI, so you need management skills, plus the ability to do outreach and disseminate your research outside academia.

nolinkname · 22/02/2026 11:05

dragonfruit8 · 22/02/2026 10:18

It's quite possible they don't have potential in one area, but they might have a lot in another. I mean - I have no potential to be a professional athlete. I'm great at swimming, but no chance elsewhere. Academically, and as an academic, I can give you a great performance. I also have other talents which are far more practical.

I know as a young person my IQ was important to me because of how other other people valued it, applauded me for it, were proud of me. Kind of sad really.

These days, I value someone I can have coffee and chat with, nature, my pets, cooking, my book club and hiking way more. What brings me most satisfaction is when I have done some good towards someone else. The whole intelligence thing I never bring up and don't care about. There's so much more to life. I think we're limited due to the value put on children's academic achievement at the expense of everything else.

I'm probably autistic too. I find the people I click with are also almost certainly autistic.

Edited

Yes, everyone would have the ability to create an ok life for themselves if our school system was less focused on passing specific exams at specific times. Also agree on valuing friendship most.

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Daygloboo · 22/02/2026 11:05

Gloriia · 22/02/2026 10:52

As you aren't up on the very widely discussed and contentious trans issues let's try a simpler one. Do you believe in ghosts?

🤣 wooooooo

Pineneedlesincarpet · 22/02/2026 11:05

Emelene · 22/02/2026 11:03

Hello! I also have a Mensa IQ. I work in an academic field but also with people. I relate to a few things you have said.

I’m thinking from your posts you are female - has this caused people to underestimate you? Do you have any role models?

I ask as in my University department I am one of very few women to have made it to my postdoctoral level. And I am the only one with children. I feel I have no role model and am quite tired of being a “pioneer”.

I think he's male. Females don't often refer to themselves as "dicks". I may be wrong of course.

SomethingFun · 22/02/2026 11:06

I’m fairly clever and it’s nice to meet people who are more intelligent than I am as I appreciate a different perspective that I wouldn’t come up with myself. Do you feel obliged to do something to make a difference in the world with your intelligence?

HangryMoose · 22/02/2026 11:07

Would you rather fight one massive duck or 1000 tiny ducks?

dragonfruit8 · 22/02/2026 11:07

nolinkname · 22/02/2026 11:05

Yes, everyone would have the ability to create an ok life for themselves if our school system was less focused on passing specific exams at specific times. Also agree on valuing friendship most.

I think you are out of date with the school system. Most schools use a range of assessment types to be fairer, not just exams.

scottishgirl69 · 22/02/2026 11:08

This isn't really an ask me anything thread though is it. It's actually quite narrow in the discussion.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 22/02/2026 11:08

HangryMoose · 22/02/2026 11:07

Would you rather fight one massive duck or 1000 tiny ducks?

I'm going to be pondering this question all day now!Grin

nolinkname · 22/02/2026 11:08

OliviaWhatshername · 22/02/2026 10:18

You still aren't behaving here like an intelligent person.

I was involved with Mensa for years and met many friends through Mensa . I don't consider myself 'special' in any way.

I don't think it's a great idea to take to the internet and set yourself up as someone super-special.

It comes over as boastful.

Not a good way to behave and maybe your emotional intelligence isn't as high as it could be.

I am ok that you think that. I don't think I am more special than anyone else. An AMA focusing on yourself in this way will obviously be a strange 'conversation' and, perhaps by necessity, come across as boastful. That is one reason why such conversations won't happen in real life.

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MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 22/02/2026 11:09

scottishgirl69 · 22/02/2026 11:08

This isn't really an ask me anything thread though is it. It's actually quite narrow in the discussion.

It's an "ask me anything" and "I might answer if I feel like it".

MonstrousRegimentRocks · 22/02/2026 11:09

nolinkname · 22/02/2026 11:05

Yes, everyone would have the ability to create an ok life for themselves if our school system was less focused on passing specific exams at specific times. Also agree on valuing friendship most.

Perhaps you could get a job in the school system and improve it?

Anewuser · 22/02/2026 11:09

Is this ‘Ask me anything’, or Ask me something I may answer ?

Would people say you have a good sense of humour or are quick witted?

MonstrousRegimentRocks · 22/02/2026 11:10

dragonfruit8 · 22/02/2026 11:07

I think you are out of date with the school system. Most schools use a range of assessment types to be fairer, not just exams.

Yes, it's very obvious. I'm surprised they continue to make such sweeping and ill informed comments.

Daygloboo · 22/02/2026 11:10

MonstrousRegimentRocks · 22/02/2026 10:52

I once read that intelligent people not only read widely, but tried to exercise their grey matter by trying to get out of their comfort zone
I found that interesting.

I've just had a fleeting image of the OP rolling around the floor inside a giant paper bag trying to tear a hole in it.

tramtracks · 22/02/2026 11:10

nolinkname · 22/02/2026 09:01

Using standard IQ scales/assessments I am highly intelligent. I have also done some research into high intelligence. Being highly intelligent has advantages and drawbacks. Ask me anything :-)

(Just to preempt some comments: No, I don’t think intelligent people are better human beings than other people. I think qualities such as being kind are more important for example. No, intelligent people are not always ‘better for society’, there is some evidence, for example, that really highly intelligent people carry out proportionally somewhat more crimes (white collar). No, I don’t look down on less intelligent people (sometimes I envy them), but it can obviously be a bit difficult to connect if you have very different frames of reference. No, intelligence does not have any direct links to social skills (positive or negative).)

do you consider emotional intelligence an important factor in defining and measuring intelligence? The ability to read situations and people quickly and offer solutions to problems.

Some of the brightest people I know can do this. Some who have taken IQ tests and scored highly are not the brightest. Some can do both - and these people are rare. I just think it’s impossible to define intelligence - it means something to one person and something entirely different to others.

nolinkname · 22/02/2026 11:10

Jmaho · 22/02/2026 10:21

In my opinion, genuinely highly intelligent people dont keep telling people about it

Absolutely. That is why conversations like these won't happen in real life. Sometimes anonymous discussion online can provide good perspectives on things that you wouldn't discuss in real life though.

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Anewuser · 22/02/2026 11:11

@MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack snap!

MonstrousRegimentRocks · 22/02/2026 11:11

HangryMoose · 22/02/2026 11:07

Would you rather fight one massive duck or 1000 tiny ducks?

One massive one. You could keep an eye on her better and use a weapon to good effect.

MonstrousRegimentRocks · 22/02/2026 11:11

Daygloboo · 22/02/2026 11:10

I've just had a fleeting image of the OP rolling around the floor inside a giant paper bag trying to tear a hole in it.

That sounds like fun!

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 22/02/2026 11:12

So, OP, you said that you started this thread to get insights into how others think of you. So, what insights have you gathered from the thread so far?

And how would you rate your level of self awareness in general?

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