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I'm a SENCo....AMA

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SurvivingSenco · 20/01/2026 22:05

With the news and social media being full of SEND news, I thought it might be insightful to do one of these.

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Fulmine · 21/01/2026 07:58

How much training have you had on SEND law, over and above anything the local authority does?

Fulmine · 21/01/2026 07:59

If you have entered an application for an EHC needs assessment and it is refused, do you help parents to appeal and/or refer them to SENDIASS, IPSEA or SOS SEN for help with an appeal?

ChiefCakeTestertoMaryBerry · 21/01/2026 08:35

What percentage of the children at your school have SEND roughly and has it increased a lot in recent years?

Do you have any children with selective mutism?

Needlenardlenoo · 21/01/2026 08:44

LottieMary · 21/01/2026 07:26

@Yope as a secondary teacher I’ll try answer some of that. We do tons of training on ND and have a fairly good understanding but it presents in so so many different ways we have to get to know the students to be able to tell things like this
I’ll often say for example you’re very quiet - here’s the ways you can draw my attention, get in touch with me etc if you’re finding it hard but they have to then try use these strategies. Before diagnosis this ‘quiet behaving’ would describe 95% of my students. I can see the surface but not inside. the more I get to know students the more I understand them. Unfortunately barriers to this is time (as ever!). In an hours lesson with thirty kids…
I’m lucky as in my core subject I see kids more often too - if you only have them an hour a week or fortnight for say RS or DT is must be so difficult.

right those are the explanations! I’m not trying to make excuses as I think we do ND send pretty well but it’s challenging

what we’ve found useful is student passports where kids sit with a trusted adult eg pastoral team or form tutor in designated time. They explore their particular presentations, anxieties and preferences as well as personal things like hobbies likes etc to try shortcut a little of the info needed to build relationships. Those passports are written up and attached to their register profile. Kids with send are flagged so we know to read it usually before we start teaching them in September. They get updated Annually or more by request.
it doesn’t mean every lesson is changed for them because again, 30, but it does really help us be more individual with them even if it’s checking in, offering support etc

appreciate it sounds like you’ve had a tricky time but that’s my school experience. We also have tutor systems where the tutor follows through the whole school which I think works really well

This sounds really good - we can access profiles on our SEND students but we don't get this personal/hobby stuff and it's so important to building a relationship.

I'm afraid I make a "What I did on my holidays" PPT for my AuDHD child who has an EHCP and send it to anybody I think will use it appropriately (child is now teen and would.be mega mortified if she knew - but she can be hard to bond with initially).

ScoobyBooby · 21/01/2026 08:49

MissingSockDetective · 21/01/2026 07:27

Do you feel that the current system let's down both those children with SEND and those without? I sometimes feel that those without almost get forgotten about as there is neither the time nor the resources to help them. It seems an impossible task for teachers.

Also, do you feel that the proposed training is the right approach to supporting teachers to meet need? Or, are there other ways you feel that budget could be spent in order to help?

I was going to ask the same thing as mum of 4 , my sons is autistic my other children are not . I see all their struggles in school.

whereonthestair · 21/01/2026 08:58

AwoogaAwooga · 21/01/2026 07:25

What do you think has caused the huge rise in Sen diagnosed? I think if the curriculum was more reasonable/realistic for all kids then we’d see fewer kids needing additional support. So if we had more play based learning, more outdoor time, less stress about learning fronted adverbials etc then more kids would be coping fine as that’s the development stage they’re at, interested to know what you think.

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While I agree that play based learning, outdoor time etc may suit some children but it would be a disaster for my child, who has an ECHP. He really really struggled with that, he is physically disabled, play based learning never worked and it made primary school a battle every day, he was left out of many things despite best efforts, but children don’t know how to include a wheelchair user. Which leads to my question do you have any training in less common conditions, and do you feel they get lost in the gaps. Also do you find it easier when the child has an immediately obvious disability, my son uses a wheelchair and I often thought well no-one is going to tell him to get up and walk, when they might tell a ND child to do things they equally cannot do.

WWLD · 21/01/2026 09:02

Former SENCO & DSL here, now C&I and SEMH advisor. So no questions, just solidarity.

mytotslovebluey · 21/01/2026 09:03

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We're taking a look behind the scenes.

Geneticsbunny · 21/01/2026 09:11

What percentage of kids in your school are ehcp or on the sen register?
Is it secondary or primary?

TreatedAsOptional · 21/01/2026 09:52

Does your school have a service model?

SurvivingSenco · 21/01/2026 18:03

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We're taking a look behind the scenes.

Very, very often
Mostly of frustration that I feel I can't do enough because of red tape
A few because I've spent time advocating and navigating v complex safeguarding situations and kept my mask on for the day as I've sat with a child who is being put in care or been the appropriate adult in a police interview.

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SurvivingSenco · 21/01/2026 18:08

ChiefCakeTestertoMaryBerry · 21/01/2026 08:35

What percentage of the children at your school have SEND roughly and has it increased a lot in recent years?

Do you have any children with selective mutism?

More than 3 times the national average for ehcps, and in line with national average for sen support

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SurvivingSenco · 21/01/2026 18:10

Fleetheart · 21/01/2026 07:10

What do you think about the proposed changes to the EHCP system?

I'm still reflecting a lot to understand the true impact of rumours.

Bottom line, there's not going to be any more money for ehcps to be sustained as they are. Something does need to change. There's a lot of fear amongst parents which is understandable. Its not helpful that nothing has been clarified or confirmed and rumours are left to snowball.

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Zippidydoodah · 21/01/2026 18:11

Hightideattheseaside · 21/01/2026 07:12

If you had a year 3 child that refused to engage in school work on and off (since year 2) and hid under tables and shouted when upset what would you be doing in terms of strategies: referrals? Seeing teacher later today!

First off, the child needs a safe space they can go to when overwhelmed. Sorry, I’m not the op!

SurvivingSenco · 21/01/2026 18:14

Fulmine · 21/01/2026 07:58

How much training have you had on SEND law, over and above anything the local authority does?

A fair bit, I've identified my knowledge gaps and sought it off my own back.

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SurvivingSenco · 21/01/2026 18:16

Fulmine · 21/01/2026 07:59

If you have entered an application for an EHC needs assessment and it is refused, do you help parents to appeal and/or refer them to SENDIASS, IPSEA or SOS SEN for help with an appeal?

Yes as standard practice. Parents have a right to appeal even if I disagree that the child needs one. I see a snapshot of their presentation. I signpost to sendiass and ipsea. If parents are unable to access that information I'll aim to meet with them to talk it through.

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SurvivingSenco · 21/01/2026 18:19

Saltedcaramelchocolateteaspoon · 21/01/2026 07:43

Do you think HLP should be regarded as a form of SEN?

Not broadly, I think it needs to be child focused. If they aren't making progress in line with potential there is an issue. If hlp also comes hand in hand with other needs that builds a picture. It's the child I'm looking at, not the diagnosis.

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SurvivingSenco · 21/01/2026 18:21

firstofallimadelight · 21/01/2026 07:37

How do you find balancing the limitations from your LA, the expectations of your slt, the expectations of the parent and the needs of the child. Are they ever all in sync?

This is a great question.
This is basically the challenge of the job in a nutshell. They rarely align and I never make everyone happy. I went into the job because I care but it was a sharp learning curve knowing I can't "fix" everything for everyone all the time

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SurvivingSenco · 21/01/2026 18:30

MissingSockDetective · 21/01/2026 07:27

Do you feel that the current system let's down both those children with SEND and those without? I sometimes feel that those without almost get forgotten about as there is neither the time nor the resources to help them. It seems an impossible task for teachers.

Also, do you feel that the proposed training is the right approach to supporting teachers to meet need? Or, are there other ways you feel that budget could be spent in order to help?

I think the training sounds, on paper, great.
However
It equates to about 8k per school, about £400 per teacher.
There's no clarity on when staff are meant to do the training and no certainty that it'll be face to face with time for it to be embedded, reflected on and reviewed.
I want my teachers to have time to reflect on practice, review it, improve it with coaching and to have specialist support for the first year of this new model of teachers being more specialist. I'd want them to have accountability and to read, research and reflect.

It needs a culture shift, a PowerPoint that teachers watch to tick a box is not going to change culture.

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SurvivingSenco · 21/01/2026 18:52

TreatedAsOptional · 21/01/2026 09:52

Does your school have a service model?

Sorry, I'm not sure what this is. Different LAs have different language but it's not a term I've come across before

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TheJadeDeer · 21/01/2026 19:01

How do you deal with attendance issues for SEN children who mask at school and melt down at home? I am currently considering requesting a reduced timetable/flexi schooling for my 8 yo DS. He is at the gifted end of the spectrum but burns out very quickly and needs days off every now and then to recharge. Is it worth having a conversation with the attendance officer?

Edited to add he is on the waiting list for Autism
assessment and is also likely AdHD. I (mum) am NHS diagnosed AuDHD and his dad is awaiting adult ADHD assessment and we have other diagnosed immediate family members.

SurvivingSenco · 21/01/2026 19:04

TheJadeDeer · 21/01/2026 19:01

How do you deal with attendance issues for SEN children who mask at school and melt down at home? I am currently considering requesting a reduced timetable/flexi schooling for my 8 yo DS. He is at the gifted end of the spectrum but burns out very quickly and needs days off every now and then to recharge. Is it worth having a conversation with the attendance officer?

Edited to add he is on the waiting list for Autism
assessment and is also likely AdHD. I (mum) am NHS diagnosed AuDHD and his dad is awaiting adult ADHD assessment and we have other diagnosed immediate family members.

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Yes, and the senco. I'd wonder about timetabled rest breaks from learning such as a sensory room or break out room as an internal reduced timetable first. Although a reduced timetable probably would work how would it increase from there? I'd be wondering about what aspects are causing burnout and how skills can be taught to support a long term plan.

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Londonmummy66 · 21/01/2026 19:10

Why is dyspraxia the Cinderella of SEN with so little research into the way it impacts cognitive function (eg a dyspraxic child may well be a ble to do a science experiment but then won't be able to tell you what they did as they were focussing on the mechanics).

Polishmamaa · 21/01/2026 19:16

Are you actually trained and knowledgeable in sen needs or is it more about managing the school budgets?

SurvivingSenco · 21/01/2026 19:17

Londonmummy66 · 21/01/2026 19:10

Why is dyspraxia the Cinderella of SEN with so little research into the way it impacts cognitive function (eg a dyspraxic child may well be a ble to do a science experiment but then won't be able to tell you what they did as they were focussing on the mechanics).

Probably because other areas of need have had more research or what is "seen" is more obvious. I suspect this will change and there will be greater understanding of things such as dyspraxia, dyscalculia and dysgraphia.

Research depends on funding, if there isn't the appetite or funding to research it won't get done. I do think the tide may turn on this though in years to come.

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