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I'm Chief of Staff for a Member of Parliament - AMA

123 replies

Mytinhatison · 01/12/2025 19:07

So, name change for this one obviously. I won't declare which party. It doesn't matter. I've been based in Westminster for years and have seen many come and go... Ask away

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Mytinhatison · 01/12/2025 21:15

AnneKipankitoo · 01/12/2025 21:06

You should become one yourself with that response!

Nope. It's not for me. I don't fit comfortably into any political party and unfortunately our system does not encourage independents.

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AllWrong · 01/12/2025 21:16

Alicorn1707 · 01/12/2025 21:10

@AllWrong

"I honestly don’t think that’s true" (in response to my "our current crop of politicians are totally unscrupulous" )

We can agree to disagree with that one then.

Yeah I don’t mind disagreeing - I just think sometimes it easier to think oh they’re ALL just a massive bunch of bastards than to have to analyse which are half decent and which are just out for themselves. It’s not like there’s a list anywhere unfortunately.

But I genuinely think some of those I met while working there were worthy of huge respect for how hard they worked for their constituents. And I’ve got no skin in this game, it was ages ago and I’m not in the same sort of job at all any more/not friends with any MPs etc.

GlasgowGal2014 · 01/12/2025 21:17

IcySwan · 01/12/2025 19:09

Would you share your career path that lead to this role? Im currently at university and really interested in the parliamentary stream of the civil service- would love to hear more about your experiences

I see OP has answered your question, but I'd like to add that the role they are in is quite different to the parliamentary stream of the civil service which you are interested in. An MP's chief of staff is a party political role where the individual is employed by the MP (or their party) and is likely to be a supporter of that party.

Civil servants within the parliament on the other hand are employed in non-political roles by the parliamentary body (which is separate from the government) and support the parliament in its functioning by drafting legislation and supporting its passage through the houses, and supporting committees in their business. It is quite a distinct role to other civil servants who are responsible for implementing government policy.

The parliamentary civil service is a more secure job than working for an MP (if they lose their seat, then you may well lose your job, although good political staff may be employed to support a different MP or campaign). The pension for a civil servant is also a lot more generous. In the civil service you need to remain politically neutral, whereas someone working for an MP is generally affiliated with the same party (which is why getting involved in a political party is a good suggestion if you want to go down that route, but not so helpful if you want to join the civil service).

Mytinhatison · 01/12/2025 21:17

AllWrong · 01/12/2025 20:59

I honestly don’t think that’s true. Some of them work their absolute arses off trying to solve problems for their constituents, I’ve seen it. And lots stand up for really important causes and work really very hard to advance them - not all glam stuff but things like rare disease research or better sex education in schools.

I think quite a lot are unscrupulous but that’s going to happen isn’t it where the job can give power and money. It’s awful but I wouldn’t say it was the majority though. Most people are just completely unaware of what their local lower profile MPs are up to.

But the two main parties don't allow that. You are not allowed to step outside of the lines..... Party rules at all times. Very few MPs manage anything meaningful and lasting.

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Mytinhatison · 01/12/2025 21:19

AllWrong · 01/12/2025 21:16

Yeah I don’t mind disagreeing - I just think sometimes it easier to think oh they’re ALL just a massive bunch of bastards than to have to analyse which are half decent and which are just out for themselves. It’s not like there’s a list anywhere unfortunately.

But I genuinely think some of those I met while working there were worthy of huge respect for how hard they worked for their constituents. And I’ve got no skin in this game, it was ages ago and I’m not in the same sort of job at all any more/not friends with any MPs etc.

You are right. Some genuinely are in to make a difference.

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FlyingApple · 01/12/2025 21:20

Are MPs genuinely worried about Reform or are they just pretending to be?

Mytinhatison · 01/12/2025 21:21

FlyingApple · 01/12/2025 21:20

Are MPs genuinely worried about Reform or are they just pretending to be?

Worried. Really worried. On all sides.

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Alicorn1707 · 01/12/2025 21:34

Mytinhatison · 01/12/2025 21:21

Worried. Really worried. On all sides.

seriously, @Mytinhatison don't they even have the nous to analyse why a fairly large majority of our population are even drawn to someone like Farage and his policies, god help us!!

mellongoose · 01/12/2025 21:39

I’m surprised you say that you don’t fit into any of the parties. I feel sorry for your MP. One of the top requirements for a chief of staff, or similar, is trust. You should at least be on the same team.

tinytemper66 · 01/12/2025 21:43

I think this is untrue.

Mytinhatison · 01/12/2025 21:43

mellongoose · 01/12/2025 21:39

I’m surprised you say that you don’t fit into any of the parties. I feel sorry for your MP. One of the top requirements for a chief of staff, or similar, is trust. You should at least be on the same team.

my MP knows they can trust my judgement and rely on me at all times. I often get a WhatsApp late at night or early hours asking for something. I am known to give honest answers when asked for my opinion and my MP values this rather than just hearing what the party offer.

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Franklyannoyed · 01/12/2025 21:57

Do you beleive reeves and starmer misled and lied over fhe countries finances?

BillieWiper · 01/12/2025 22:22

Mytinhatison · 01/12/2025 19:27

Infidelity is commonplace. Apparently wealth and supposed influence are attractive qualities to some people 😂

There is no drug testing here among MPs or staff. I would say that stimulant use is common place. There are strong "rumors" about a current minister always being bright eyed and ready to go.

Thank you! So it seems coke isn't even really frowned upon if it gets the job done?! They do call it Hollywood for uglies don't they? Haha. X

camelfinger · 01/12/2025 22:29

How many staff are you chief of? How many MPs have chiefs?

EmeraldRoulette · 01/12/2025 22:30

@Mytinhatison what sort of hours do you work? And is your work fairly consistent when Parliament isn't sitting?

TheAutumnCrow · 01/12/2025 22:31

AllWrong · 01/12/2025 21:02

Mm yes but chief of staff isn’t one of them. https://www.ipsaonline.org.uk/guidance/pay-and-benefits

I did check it hadn’t changed before posting! But I’ll take your word from it that your MP decided to use that term when they recruited you. It’s just my experience that staff members who call themselves that are usually blokes who’ve watched The West Wing too many times!

Or the Global Chief of Staff who liaises with the International Director of Legal Affairs and the Executive Head of Universal Communications & Media for Prince Harry?

Bigly important team.

Pavementworrier · 01/12/2025 22:35

I've never met anyone weirder than parliamentary staffers (the new chief of staff moniker is mega cringe).

Anyway to my question - what is your plan for after your team gets booted? Obviously the mandatory corporate public affairs for a couple of years but nobody can stick at that forever.

Friendlyfart · 01/12/2025 22:36

Do you think we live in ‘ an elective dictatorship’ - cf. my Politics A level syllabus.

coffeecupmorning · 01/12/2025 22:49

what is your salary and YOE?

Needingtoanewjob · 01/12/2025 22:58

Does it not matter what party they are?

I'm reading Rory Stewart's autobiography currently.

Mytinhatison · 01/12/2025 23:27

camelfinger · 01/12/2025 22:29

How many staff are you chief of? How many MPs have chiefs?

We are a team of six plus the MP. I've met many Chiefs of Staff so I didn't know it was that unusual.

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Mytinhatison · 01/12/2025 23:28

EmeraldRoulette · 01/12/2025 22:30

@Mytinhatison what sort of hours do you work? And is your work fairly consistent when Parliament isn't sitting?

Monday afternoon to Thursday afternoon are as and when needed. Sometimes I finish at 4 and sometimes I finish at 11. Fridays I work from home at my own pace.

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Mytinhatison · 01/12/2025 23:30

Pavementworrier · 01/12/2025 22:35

I've never met anyone weirder than parliamentary staffers (the new chief of staff moniker is mega cringe).

Anyway to my question - what is your plan for after your team gets booted? Obviously the mandatory corporate public affairs for a couple of years but nobody can stick at that forever.

Im on my last tour. A charity role probably. I'd like to do something worthwhile.

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Mytinhatison · 01/12/2025 23:32

Needingtoanewjob · 01/12/2025 22:58

Does it not matter what party they are?

I'm reading Rory Stewart's autobiography currently.

Rory is amazing. His life reads like a film script.

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Mytinhatison · 01/12/2025 23:34

Friendlyfart · 01/12/2025 22:36

Do you think we live in ‘ an elective dictatorship’ - cf. my Politics A level syllabus.

No I dont. The public are too fickle for a dictatorship. I think we are in a cult of personality right now. The right image seems to be more important than the right skill set.

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