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I'm Chief of Staff for a Member of Parliament - AMA

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Mytinhatison · 01/12/2025 19:07

So, name change for this one obviously. I won't declare which party. It doesn't matter. I've been based in Westminster for years and have seen many come and go... Ask away

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Longtalljosie · 01/12/2025 20:26

RobustPastry · 01/12/2025 20:19

MPs on all sides command respect. Particularly those who have served long terms, or have an impressive background such as the military.

This isn’t true at all

Well, it can be in the chamber. Especially when, for example, there’s a debate on a particular conflict and someone stands up with military experience.

Free votes are on issues that are “important”, are they, OP? There’s not another shorthand for those votes that springs to mind? One that gets used pretty much every time there is one? Go on, have a Google…

Alicorn1707 · 01/12/2025 20:29

Do they realise that us plebs are disengaged from politics because by and large they are an homogenous cabal of miscreants who have zero clue what life is like for the general populace.

It "appears" that the majority are from middle class backgrounds/have landed at Westminster through the PPE route or have daddy/mummy contacts.

and please don't get me started on second jobs and the fact they don't even have to declare their wealth

There is no altruism in politics, they certainly don't have our best interests at heart.

Would you consider yourself a moral person @Mytinhatison 🤣

TheAutumnCrow · 01/12/2025 20:29

Mytinhatison · 01/12/2025 20:25

I have nothing to gain.. obviously I am not going to give my name or MP.

Well, obviously it’s Tinkerbell and Peter Pan for the festive season.

Mytinhatison · 01/12/2025 20:29

Longtalljosie · 01/12/2025 20:26

Well, it can be in the chamber. Especially when, for example, there’s a debate on a particular conflict and someone stands up with military experience.

Free votes are on issues that are “important”, are they, OP? There’s not another shorthand for those votes that springs to mind? One that gets used pretty much every time there is one? Go on, have a Google…

Well, they are not a one line whip if that's what you mean? And no I don't think all free votes are important. I think they give an illusion of an MP being able to represent the desire of their constituents. But ultimately, the MP will vote with their own conscience. In my experience.

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MaidOfSteel · 01/12/2025 20:30

Do you think that power corrupts?

With all the cover-ups that have been exposed over the last few years, by politicians, councillors, local government offficers, police etc, I’m really beginning to believe that it does.

RobustPastry · 01/12/2025 20:32

OK yes sure perhaps in debate on a specific relevant issue (a scientist on a scientific issue) but not purely because they’ve been re-elected to a very very safe seat a few times.

My comment not true at all was meant quite widely

TheAutumnCrow · 01/12/2025 20:33

Mytinhatison · 01/12/2025 20:29

Well, they are not a one line whip if that's what you mean? And no I don't think all free votes are important. I think they give an illusion of an MP being able to represent the desire of their constituents. But ultimately, the MP will vote with their own conscience. In my experience.

This is pathetic.

Longtalljosie · 01/12/2025 20:33

Mytinhatison · 01/12/2025 20:29

Well, they are not a one line whip if that's what you mean? And no I don't think all free votes are important. I think they give an illusion of an MP being able to represent the desire of their constituents. But ultimately, the MP will vote with their own conscience. In my experience.

You got there in the end, free votes are on issues of conscience. What’s the important book with the initials EM?

TheFrendo · 01/12/2025 20:33

Is your MP likely to retain their seat come the next election?

Mytinhatison · 01/12/2025 20:34

Alicorn1707 · 01/12/2025 20:29

Do they realise that us plebs are disengaged from politics because by and large they are an homogenous cabal of miscreants who have zero clue what life is like for the general populace.

It "appears" that the majority are from middle class backgrounds/have landed at Westminster through the PPE route or have daddy/mummy contacts.

and please don't get me started on second jobs and the fact they don't even have to declare their wealth

There is no altruism in politics, they certainly don't have our best interests at heart.

Would you consider yourself a moral person @Mytinhatison 🤣

No I don't believe they do. Most in Westminster live in a bubble. MPs and staff. They only talk politics with people who are interested in politics.

Political ambivalence will be the biggest issue going forward. Fighting over fewer and fewer votes. But the risk of that is that if you don't vote, you risk being represented by an organised and vocal minority.

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Mytinhatison · 01/12/2025 20:36

TheFrendo · 01/12/2025 20:33

Is your MP likely to retain their seat come the next election?

No. Absolutely not.

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Mytinhatison · 01/12/2025 20:37

Longtalljosie · 01/12/2025 20:33

You got there in the end, free votes are on issues of conscience. What’s the important book with the initials EM?

Erskin something but I may be wrong 😂or is that too subtle?

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Mytinhatison · 01/12/2025 20:38

Mytinhatison · 01/12/2025 20:37

Erskin something but I may be wrong 😂or is that too subtle?

I even know where they are in the library!

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Mytinhatison · 01/12/2025 20:39

MaidOfSteel · 01/12/2025 20:30

Do you think that power corrupts?

With all the cover-ups that have been exposed over the last few years, by politicians, councillors, local government offficers, police etc, I’m really beginning to believe that it does.

I don't think it corrupts any more than any other profession. But it does attract an arrogant type.

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AllWrong · 01/12/2025 20:46

I very much believe that OP could be a parliamentary staffer - IMO the ones who called themselves Chief of Staff with a straight face were almost always either pompous beyond words or worked for an MP who was - or both. As previously stated most MPs have a handful of staff and the one who’s the top dog is usually the one who’s been there longest so has trained everyone else up. And of course the MP is the boss anyway so very little requirement for HR roles for the “chief”.

I agree there’s some handsiness about - most of the culprits I knew were men who also targeted men.

Alicorn1707 · 01/12/2025 20:51

Mytinhatison · 01/12/2025 20:34

No I don't believe they do. Most in Westminster live in a bubble. MPs and staff. They only talk politics with people who are interested in politics.

Political ambivalence will be the biggest issue going forward. Fighting over fewer and fewer votes. But the risk of that is that if you don't vote, you risk being represented by an organised and vocal minority.

I will always vote, with a heavy heart though because our current crop of politicians are totally unscrupulous whichever side of the house they sit on 😞

Mytinhatison · 01/12/2025 20:55

AllWrong · 01/12/2025 20:46

I very much believe that OP could be a parliamentary staffer - IMO the ones who called themselves Chief of Staff with a straight face were almost always either pompous beyond words or worked for an MP who was - or both. As previously stated most MPs have a handful of staff and the one who’s the top dog is usually the one who’s been there longest so has trained everyone else up. And of course the MP is the boss anyway so very little requirement for HR roles for the “chief”.

I agree there’s some handsiness about - most of the culprits I knew were men who also targeted men.

As you will know, there are a handful of job titles that go with a pay grade. There is nothing more to it than that.

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AllWrong · 01/12/2025 20:59

Alicorn1707 · 01/12/2025 20:51

I will always vote, with a heavy heart though because our current crop of politicians are totally unscrupulous whichever side of the house they sit on 😞

I honestly don’t think that’s true. Some of them work their absolute arses off trying to solve problems for their constituents, I’ve seen it. And lots stand up for really important causes and work really very hard to advance them - not all glam stuff but things like rare disease research or better sex education in schools.

I think quite a lot are unscrupulous but that’s going to happen isn’t it where the job can give power and money. It’s awful but I wouldn’t say it was the majority though. Most people are just completely unaware of what their local lower profile MPs are up to.

AllWrong · 01/12/2025 21:02

Mytinhatison · 01/12/2025 20:55

As you will know, there are a handful of job titles that go with a pay grade. There is nothing more to it than that.

Mm yes but chief of staff isn’t one of them. https://www.ipsaonline.org.uk/guidance/pay-and-benefits

I did check it hadn’t changed before posting! But I’ll take your word from it that your MP decided to use that term when they recruited you. It’s just my experience that staff members who call themselves that are usually blokes who’ve watched The West Wing too many times!

Alicorn1707 · 01/12/2025 21:03

ooh! just thought of another couple,

what was the general perception of Dominic Cummings within the Westminster system?

How useful do you consider this AMA and is it something you would highlight with your MP?

AnneKipankitoo · 01/12/2025 21:06

Mytinhatison · 01/12/2025 20:16

I would encourage anyone with a passion for politics to get involved. Nothing changes unless we make it change. It is the foundation of democracy.

You should become one yourself with that response!

Happyjoe · 01/12/2025 21:06

Are the Labour MP's as bad at dodgy deals as the tories? Using their influence to be greedy. I always think Labour should be better but I presume they are all the same?

IdaGlossop · 01/12/2025 21:08

Mytinhatison · 01/12/2025 19:49

Absolutely. And a few women that are known to be quite "handsy"

The answer I expected but not the one I hoped for. Interesting about the women.

Alicorn1707 · 01/12/2025 21:10

@AllWrong

"I honestly don’t think that’s true" (in response to my "our current crop of politicians are totally unscrupulous" )

We can agree to disagree with that one then.

Mytinhatison · 01/12/2025 21:13

Alicorn1707 · 01/12/2025 21:03

ooh! just thought of another couple,

what was the general perception of Dominic Cummings within the Westminster system?

How useful do you consider this AMA and is it something you would highlight with your MP?

I understand that DC was thought of quite poorly and did absolutely nothing to change that view.

I wouldn't share this with my MP, but I do often share things from here. It is a great pool of wide opinions and it is helpful to see a range of thoughts on a particular topic.

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