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I’m a single mum claiming a UC top up AMA

543 replies

cadburyegg · 20/10/2025 18:35

There’s a lot of negative press and misinformation about benefit claimants so thought I’d start a thread. I work nearly full time and have 2 children. Ask away.

OP posts:
Lullabycrickets23 · 21/10/2025 22:02

AgathaMayhem · 20/10/2025 19:43

  1. What is the maximum household income you can receive to still be entitled to claim UC?
  1. Is it true one can choose to work part time, therefore earn less, and then claim UC to top up income?
I saw this on another thread recently, where the OP said she and husband both worked PT then claimed UC to top up their income. I couldn't believe this was true. But is it true? Can people do this?? Could I drop from full time to part time then simply claim UC?!?

You cannot unless you fall in particular circumstances. For example having children under 3 I think. After you need to either work 30 hours or prove you are looking for a job.
You are however exempt from working 30hrs a week if you are a carer.

DrCoconut · 21/10/2025 22:16

I think people are getting confused over work requirements. If you are quite well paid you can reduce hours as long as you don't fall below the earnings threshold. It's done on income not hours. Which is why you get lone parents hounded to work more while people with partners can claim the same amount of benefit while not working based on their partner's income and are left alone. It's an unfair system.

Blondeshavemorefun · 21/10/2025 22:19

liveforsummer · 21/10/2025 21:48

Why do you think yours would be different? it’s the same amount for everyone!

It is different. I have to earn the minimum floor which is around £1600 a month which is 30hrs at nmw

maybe as I’m self employed it’s different ?

if I don’t earn that I get harassed and get 2 week video calls

as sometimes have the odd week or two inbetween jobs

if single and no kids then only having to earn £952 which is just under half what I have to - how can that make sense ?

Sux2buthen · 21/10/2025 22:35

Sweetbubblegum · 20/10/2025 19:21

Previously if you had a low wage, you needed to work overtime, get a second job or get a better paid job.

Is it true to say people now want to earn a low wage because of the additional freebies?

I have two jobs, 3 kids, no father support and still receive UC top up. Can’t do any more than that

PractisingMyTelekenipsis · 21/10/2025 22:50

everychildmatters · 21/10/2025 20:10

@PractisingMyTelekenipsis Unsure re threshold as we both earn?

You should look into it. As a PP said check on entitledto. My brother and his wife both work and get UC. They do have 3 children, but UC credit only pay for 2 currently.

NotEnoughKnittingTime · 21/10/2025 23:09

notreallywhynot · 21/10/2025 21:57

You don't see that your UC is letting you pay hundreds of pounds for swimming lessons?

That doesn't make sense or does that part come out of your wages and the UC pays for your food which is a necessity?

I can tell you're not daft and you have a handle on all of this but surely you can see why your situation where you can SAVE for your children every month plus the above is NOT what people see as necessary. You must see this?

Your children aren't going to drown between home and school. It's not a necessity.

I can well imagine there are others here with less than you thinking WTF.

Imagine arguing that learning to swim isn't a necessity when we live on an island.

NotEnoughKnittingTime · 21/10/2025 23:10

Blondeshavemorefun · 21/10/2025 22:19

It is different. I have to earn the minimum floor which is around £1600 a month which is 30hrs at nmw

maybe as I’m self employed it’s different ?

if I don’t earn that I get harassed and get 2 week video calls

as sometimes have the odd week or two inbetween jobs

if single and no kids then only having to earn £952 which is just under half what I have to - how can that make sense ?

Yes SE is different.

Blondeshavemorefun · 21/10/2025 23:17

NotEnoughKnittingTime · 21/10/2025 23:10

Yes SE is different.

I wonder why

so as se single mum of primary age child - and I don’t claim for childcare

I have to earn almost double what a single no kids employed person need to earn

how on earth can that be fair

NotEnoughKnittingTime · 21/10/2025 23:19

Blondeshavemorefun · 21/10/2025 23:17

I wonder why

so as se single mum of primary age child - and I don’t claim for childcare

I have to earn almost double what a single no kids employed person need to earn

how on earth can that be fair

Edited

Guess it is to make sure your business is viable whereas it was a bit lax under tax credits?

Wynter25 · 21/10/2025 23:28

zipadeedodah · 21/10/2025 09:17

Does it upset you to think that you will never be able to have more than £6k in savings? Never be able to help your adult kids out with cars, mortgage deposits, gap years, uni fees? Inheritence?

What are your plans for when your youngest turns 18 and all the child related money stops?

I have 10 grand in savings and on uc

LupaMoonhowl · 22/10/2025 01:36

limescale · 21/10/2025 14:42

OP does not get her housing costs paid for.
Where do you propose people with children who find themselves on hard times live?

They work longer hours, rather than expecting other people to pick up the tab.

Blondeshavemorefun · 22/10/2025 01:55

NotEnoughKnittingTime · 21/10/2025 23:19

Guess it is to make sure your business is viable whereas it was a bit lax under tax credits?

I was never on tax credits

went on uc after splitting with dh

notreallywhynot · 22/10/2025 03:21

NotEnoughKnittingTime · 21/10/2025 23:09

Imagine arguing that learning to swim isn't a necessity when we live on an island.

You must be joking 😂😂😂😂

NotEnoughKnittingTime · 22/10/2025 06:22

Blondeshavemorefun · 22/10/2025 01:55

I was never on tax credits

went on uc after splitting with dh

I speaking generally. It did happen. You would be better off being employed.

NotEnoughKnittingTime · 22/10/2025 06:24

notreallywhynot · 22/10/2025 03:21

You must be joking 😂😂😂😂

No I am. Swimming is important.

Blondeshavemorefun · 22/10/2025 06:28

NotEnoughKnittingTime · 22/10/2025 06:22

I speaking generally. It did happen. You would be better off being employed.

No I wouldn’t. I earn more se and my work , works around dd

if I was in employed I would have to find and pay for childcare (yes 85% is paid) but not if you can’t find anyone for childcare as before /after school club fully booked and waiting lists and all the cm are full who pick up from my school

and never spent anytime with my child

it’s why I went into nights 15yrs ago

for some yes maybe

I just think it’s really strange I have to earn almost double what a single employed person does

NotEnoughKnittingTime · 22/10/2025 06:37

NotEnoughKnittingTime · 22/10/2025 06:24

No I am. Swimming is important.

Not joking I mean.

sunshinestar1986 · 22/10/2025 07:28

everychildmatters · 21/10/2025 20:04

All I can say is this...my husband and I both work (both ft hours on low wages although I am not paid over school hols). We pay almost £1.5k private rent per month and Council Tax is £250 (can't afford to buy). We share a 5 yo daughter and get no support whatsoever in terms of benefits. No way could we afford swimming lessons or Netflix, and we definitely cannot afford to save!
So, from my pov, it doesn't seem quite fair but that's just my opinion.

I'm always surprised when people say I can't afford netflix.
You do realise the cheapest netflix plan is £5.99 a month?
Maybe you need to budget better?
I mean most people have 1 or 2 coffees a month
There's ur netflix plan 😊

limescale · 22/10/2025 07:38

LupaMoonhowl · 22/10/2025 01:36

They work longer hours, rather than expecting other people to pick up the tab.

one of the issues this thread has highlighted is that minimum wage (the living wage they call it if you’re over 21…ha ha ha) often does not enable you to pay housing costs. Hence UC.

Chewbecca · 22/10/2025 10:15

I think the crux of the issue is that it is extremely difficult to run a household with DC on a single (especially female, part time) wage.

But this isn't actually new, it's always been hard. The kids from 'broken homes' (as we called them when I grew up in the 70s) were mostly very poor and had zero luxuries, especially where the father didn't pay maintenance.

The difference now is the volume of single adult households. Only one child in my class in primary school didn't live with her mum and dad, it really was unusual.

If UC is the substitute for the second adult's income and the number of parents living separately increases massively, it's inevitable that there will be a strain on the public purse.

Sweetbubblegum · 22/10/2025 10:57

sunshinestar1986 · 22/10/2025 07:28

I'm always surprised when people say I can't afford netflix.
You do realise the cheapest netflix plan is £5.99 a month?
Maybe you need to budget better?
I mean most people have 1 or 2 coffees a month
There's ur netflix plan 😊

Benefits should be the absolute minimum only. No coffees or netflix.

NotEnoughKnittingTime · 22/10/2025 11:09

Sweetbubblegum · 22/10/2025 10:57

Benefits should be the absolute minimum only. No coffees or netflix.

Are you joking?

drspouse · 22/10/2025 11:13

Are you allowed Netflix if you're on benefits but don't buy yourself any new clothes for a year?

everychildmatters · 22/10/2025 12:04

@sunshinestar1986 I don't have Neflix as it is a "luxury" and I use that to prioritise other more important things. We could say "It's only..." to so many things.

gamerchick · 22/10/2025 12:05

everychildmatters · 21/10/2025 20:04

All I can say is this...my husband and I both work (both ft hours on low wages although I am not paid over school hols). We pay almost £1.5k private rent per month and Council Tax is £250 (can't afford to buy). We share a 5 yo daughter and get no support whatsoever in terms of benefits. No way could we afford swimming lessons or Netflix, and we definitely cannot afford to save!
So, from my pov, it doesn't seem quite fair but that's just my opinion.

Have you actually tried claiming?