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I work in a mens prison AMA

339 replies

CrispAura · 16/08/2025 16:28

Send me a question, and I will try to answer as honestly as possible

OP posts:
KaitlynnFairchild · 17/08/2025 08:19

Working in such an intense environment you have to have a lot of trust in your oppo. Have you noticed a lot of relationships between staff in your prison?

crumpet · 17/08/2025 08:21

Jennalong · 17/08/2025 07:08

Do you think it's mainly civilians ( non uniform staff , aside from those coming in on a V.O ) that bring in drugs then ?

I worked many years ( as a civilian ) in prison and take an objection to you saying that
although it is 10 years since I worked in one.

I imagine drones now play a part in getting drugs in and in my day it was mainly visitors and the prisoners themselves at reception.

My prison was/is also a B cat Male & Young Offenders Institute in the South East .

Why on earth would you be offended? OP didn’t say all civilians. Just listed the different ways drugs have been brought in by civilians.

anyolddinosaur · 17/08/2025 08:23

Prison staff I once knew told me porridge was reasonably accurate and based on stories from prison officers. Was that true and if so what has changed?

If you have children have any prisoners ever threatened them - or threatened to harm you once they get out?

Do you work in a private prison and what do you think of them?

CuriousKiteFlyer · 17/08/2025 08:26

What advice would you give to someone being sent to prison for the first time in terms of surviving and avoiding trouble?

PersephoneSeethes · 17/08/2025 08:31

GarlicLitre · 17/08/2025 07:38

@SoniccBoom, that part of the thread was about a woman who joined the prison service to generate content for her porn channel. There are a lot of possible descriptors for such a woman, none of them complimentary.

Her actions also endangered the lives of all the other female POs exponentially. The dangerous and manipulative prisoners now have extra leverage on them all, all so she could get extra publicity for her OF? That level of wilful recklessness is worthy of our distain.

Jennalong · 17/08/2025 08:40

alderleywedge · 17/08/2025 08:18

Please tell us more about prison libraries. If I ever have to go to prison I want my own books (in my cell, neatly on shelving), I don't want to be restricted to the library's stock. What titles are banned in the library?

Hi - I will answer this but am aware this is another person's thread so don't want to derail it as it's not about prison libraries per se .

You could apply to have some of your own books , they would come into the prison via security to be looked at to ensure they are just books and don't contain any contraband items.

You wouldn't be allowed to have shelves of books in your cell as it would be seen as a security risk ( you could hide things there , or be forced by other prisoners to hide their stuff ) and also cells are regularly checked by staff and it would take to long to check them ) they would be stolen , plus you are just one of many hundreds of inmate in jail , if they allow you your own personal library what else do they allow for others . You'd just be expected to use the prison library and order a book if it's not already available .
Banned books would be a controversial author / subject with might encourage hatred or violence .
Any title about drugs , home brewing , and believe it or not ( in the jail I worked in ) any title on babycare / childcare / pregnancy as the likelihood of seeing photos / images of naked or undressed children as we had a large wing of Vp's ( vulnerable prisoners which mainly means paedophiles )

EdisinBurgh · 17/08/2025 08:40

Thanks OP for sharing your fascinating insight!

You mentioned the Sean Bean TV series Time as being true to life. A very different proposition but do you like The Shawshank Redemption?

And outside of films do you think the UK prisons are very different to the US ones?

saxonyv · 17/08/2025 08:43

Great thread OP, thanks for sharing

Redburnett · 17/08/2025 08:43

Is it a Victorian prison or a newer building?

Pedallleur · 17/08/2025 08:44

Story on the news today about a former Governor of Wandsworth having to retire due to links with inmates and the case recently of a former Governor at Preston (woman) being in a relationship with an inmate. Is there a creep upward to entice senior people and are they not vetted regularly?

Tradescanti · 17/08/2025 08:51

lozengeoflove · 17/08/2025 07:38

I’m a secondary school English teacher. In my experience, students who have poor literacy rates are the ones who are most likely getting into a lot of trouble. They often misbehave to cover up how much they struggle to access the curriculum and learning. These are also my favourite students to work with because I feel like I can make the most impact when helping them.

I’ve often thought about teaching in prisons. OP, do you have any insight into what this experience is like for teachers who come into prisons from schools? I’ve worked in inner city London schools and am good at behaviour management as well as teaching and learning side of the job (don’t want to blow own trumpet, just want to highlight I am not put off by challenging behaviour).

A neighbour taught in a prison for a while. She had been in FE previously.

She enjoyed it. There were no behaviour problems as the groups were small and any prisoner who didn't co-operate was removed, so from that point of view it was far easier than school or college.

It was less well paid than school teaching though.

Autumnmouse3 · 17/08/2025 08:52

CrispAura · 16/08/2025 23:07

I would not recommend it as a career now. I can't leave as I have my pension tied up. I have to just stick it out!

I'm thinking of joining at 52
Just trying to loose enough weight to apply,and sort my fitness out
It was something I'd always wanted to do and life got in the way .
I've probably left it to late now

Autumnmouse3 · 17/08/2025 08:54

CrispAura · 16/08/2025 23:22

I have. It was a fantastic place to work 20 years ago, now not so much. Too many young girls in their 20s, with hair extensions, false nails and duck lips. I mean, why is this job attractive to girls lik that? They clearly have an agenda of meeting a bad boy and wanting adulation of the wrong sort. It makes my job more difficult and everyone is put in danger aren't they? All the experienced Officers have gone or gone sick and never came back.

Yes my husband was one of the ones who left ,for exactly the reasons you state .

Sunshineandrainbow · 17/08/2025 09:03

gentlemansfamily · 17/08/2025 01:13

I am a registered nurse (1 year). Would love to try prison nursing. I love building up therapeutic relationships with service users and help/educate them on their health and well-being.

Do you know any of the prison nurses, and do they enjoy there jobs?

I know a prison nurse who absolutely loves her job. She feels the prisoners act differently in a better way towards healthcare staff.

handsdownthebest · 17/08/2025 09:05

This is one of the best AMA I've read. Very insightful to a world the majority of us don't know and hopefully never will...unless professionally like you.

Ihatesw · 17/08/2025 09:06

I’ve come a few TikTok lives of people live streaming from cells that look well kitten out with food and tech. How does all of this happen? Esp with live streaming and access to WiFi.

NaeRolls · 17/08/2025 09:09

How many do you think are people with antisocial personality disorder, as opposed to just troubled/traumatised/addicted people? Is it more uncomfortable dealing with the hardened criminals/sociopaths than with the latter group?

anyolddinosaur · 17/08/2025 09:12

@Autumnmouse3 No upper age limit for applicants, I looked it up for you. https://prisonandprobationjobs.gov.uk/roles-at-hmpps/prison-officer/how-to-apply/

Squirrelintree · 17/08/2025 09:25

Ihatesw · 17/08/2025 09:06

I’ve come a few TikTok lives of people live streaming from cells that look well kitten out with food and tech. How does all of this happen? Esp with live streaming and access to WiFi.

Not everything on TikTok is genuine.

Namechangeagainsoimnotouted · 17/08/2025 09:25

@CrispAura hey. I'm about to leave the moj. Healthcare... so employed by NHS but based permanently inside a mens prison. Do you see a divide between prison staff and healthcare? As in my place there seems to be one. I've worked both sides... OSG then over to Healthcare. I loved working there but leaving dye to more and more pressure to do tasks that I don't feel benefit the patients, but are to meet targets for funding/to look good on reporting. It's frustrating as I couldn't do the job I wanted to. I'm leaving the NHS this month. Nothing else to go to yet but just feel so hopeless there. Hopeless is a word I strongly associate with HMP service now. Would you agree? Sending solidarity.

Squirrelintree · 17/08/2025 09:28

@CrispAura really interesting thread, thank you very much!

VK456 · 17/08/2025 09:29

I always admired James Timpson’s approach to employing former prisoners.
Is his appointment as Minister of State for Prisons having an impact anywhere in the system?

theriseandfallofFranklinSaint · 17/08/2025 09:33

I agree and I hope @CrispAura is able to come back and answer more questions, there are a lot of us who find prisons fascinating (aware that sounds wrong!)

Allisnotlost1 · 17/08/2025 09:36

Jennalong · 17/08/2025 07:44

Cells are small for 2 men and yes the toilet is in the cell with a privacy curtain.
I have never seen a lavish cell! Most are poky and messy and dirty. Hardly any have play stations because they are expensive to buy, you can't just have one sent in. They have to buy them from a prison approved vendor with money they have earned from working and be an enhanced Prisoner

A curtain ? Are you sure , something doesn't ring true there . Where is the security in that and a curtain would hide them completely from view which just would not happen in a cell .
I said upthread I worked in a B cat 10 years ago and as a civilian but I've been many a time on a wing speaking to a prisoner through the hatch so have seen thousands of cells in 3 different jails and never seen a curtain . A fixed metal , waist height modesty panel yes but a curtain no . They would be seen as a hanging risk , and yes I know they hang themselves with torn sheets made into rope but I can't see your jail giving them curtain , in the jail I worked in there was no curtains even at the windows !

There are privacy curtains in some prisons now, and windows have curtains too - attached to the windows with magnets. You can see them in inspection report photos sometimes. New prisons have inbuilt screens around the toilet.

Jennalong · 17/08/2025 09:37

Allisnotlost1 · 17/08/2025 09:36

There are privacy curtains in some prisons now, and windows have curtains too - attached to the windows with magnets. You can see them in inspection report photos sometimes. New prisons have inbuilt screens around the toilet.

Times have changed !

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