NC but regular user.
I have a diagnosis of BPD/EUPD. I use the terms interchangeably. I see it mentioned on here and talked about in many contexts and there is a lack of understanding around what having it entails so ask away if you’re curious
AMA
I’ve got BPD - AMA
BPDama · 22/01/2023 17:33
Wakemeup17 · 22/01/2023 17:34
Did you have any therapy for it?
WindowsSmindows · 22/01/2023 17:43
Would you agree that "woman with BPD" = woman with trauma.
If you agree: is that always the case, usually the case or just sometimes the case?
tearsandtiaras · 22/01/2023 18:51
I have it too- its incredibly difficult at the beginning of diagnosis. How long was it until you felt better?
pilates · 22/01/2023 18:54
Has anyone else in your family got the same?
Lj8893 · 22/01/2023 18:58
How did you get a diagnosis?
Im not feeling “well” and all my symptoms lead to BPD, I don’t know if having a diagnosis will help or not?
EarlyInTheMorning · 23/01/2023 19:01
I read somewhere that sometimes people get a diagnoses of BPD/EUPD but it can be trauma caused by undiagnosed autism. What are your thoughts on this?
XenoBitch · 26/01/2023 20:03
Have you been treated differently in other areas of healthcare due to your BPD? Even when you are getting treatment for something that is nothing to do with mental health.
MamaNell · 26/01/2023 21:09
@BPDama it's heartening that you seem to be healing from your trauma and learning ways to cope with your diagnosis. Your description of your relationships as a 'short lived bin fire' made me smile, you are eloquent
MisschiefMaker · 26/01/2023 20:37
Can you go into more detail about how it manifested itself? I have read your answers but I guess I mean more specific examples as what you wrote is quite high level
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fantasmasgoria1 · 27/01/2023 14:01
I have BPD, anxiety, depression etc. It took years to get a diagnosis. I was fobbed off by services for many years and at the age of 38 I finally got the diagnosis after being admitted to hospital. I had many assessments with cmht and every time I was told it's depression you can continue with anti depressants with your go. Go to iapt and get 8 sessions of CBT. This did precisely nothing. I always knew there was more going on. I have self harmed an awful lot and have od'd many times. Once I was in a hospital bay and an HCA came around with tea and biscuits I said I would like tea and he gave me the dirtiest look and shoved the tea at me. He gave everyone else tea and biscuits with a smile. I reported him the next day. I have had psychodynamic therapy and will be starting it again from scratch in the next few months. It's a very debilitating illness . A professor of psychiatry told me because I was diagnosed so late I would always meet the criteria and ten years on he was right.
senior30 · 27/01/2023 14:09
How do you think your loved ones could’ve approached you to discuss before diagnosis? I see so many traits in my partner but don’t know how to sensitively raise it with him
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