@WishILivedInThrushGreen I am not sure at whom that is directed. Each university has its own welfare support. Some places are better than others; some are very poor at it. Whom was she emailing? Student welfare, admissions or her academic tutors? Why - What was the nature of her issue? Was she trying to apply or struggling whilst doing PG study? Some universities are very much hands-off and there’s a belief that students should just get on with it, which was absolutely my experience and I chose that deliberately; others are very nurturing and involved. post-92 and non-RG tend to do better in the TEF (teaching excellence framework) which means they are likely more student centred and have more industry connections.
But university is also what you make of it. I missed out on so many things going on at university because I didn’t know what was possible or what I could join in. I really did just attend my classes and play sport obsessively, thinking university was supposed to be like school. I wish there had been more guidance on how to make the most of university and what was available, as I had no one in my family to advise me. I was also quite depressed and dealing with an eating disorder and then discovered partying, all of which meant that I didn’t take up the many activities on offer at my RG uni that would have made getting a high-paying job easier: industry-related societies, volunteering, work placements, year abroad, etc etc. Fortunately, I am extremely bright and became an academic, but otherwise I don’t know what I would have done!
if you’re suggesting she did an Arts and Hums degree, looking at my own friends who went comp/grammar > Arts and Hums at an RG > work, I have a classicist friend (studied extremely dead people, and very ancient history and philosophy, with a bit of beginners Latin) and now makes mega bucks in PR. A whole bunch did Modern History and are all in high paying city jobs. English Lit grad friends are now in law, journalism, teaching, media and communications and one runs HR for a FTSE 200 company. I’m one of the poorer ones as an academic, but still earn a healthy amount: I earn a bit more than secondary teachers. One old uni friend even went and set up her own evangelical church. Another works in shipping with an English degree.
I have one friend (another classicist) who has made very little with her life, bouncing from minimum wage job to minimum wage job and moving all over the place. But funnily enough, she went to boarding school and inherited quite a lot of money in her 20s that she burned through travelling. However, she is an unhappy soul and has not yet, in her 30s, worked out who she is or what she wants to do or be. She’s been involved in all kinds of start ups. Her parents are kind and let her come home each time, but they don’t really know what to do. They feel the money didn’t help, but it wasn’t theirs to give, and the situation is not about money but about mental health that money just exacerbated.
The above is all anecdotal, but really one could consider them case studies in where RG might take you. However, I have many friends, and my own students now, who were/are at non-RG and are also mega successful. There are also those who consider their success not in monetary terms but in fulfilment, happiness, meaning - some students of mine have gone on to do amazing things in the Arts and charity sector, and some earn very little, but they are brilliant and happy and I’m really proud of them. I probably could have earned mega bucks going into the Big Four 15+,years ago, but I’m really glad I went the way I did. I earn medium bucks rather than mega ones, and for a long time was extremely poor and exploited. I also know those who are not happy and fulfilled and are also underpaid. Life is tough for young people. A mix of luck, good health, and self confidence are further factors, and that is part of what makes graduate life unfair.
RG is not a magic ticket to success. It might open doors, but it isn’t guaranteed. There’s often better teaching and support at non-RG although that is changing. The independently wealthy universities aka Oxbridge are not under the same pressure to measure graduate destinations, which is now linked to funding and viability of courses, so they may be slightly less active in that area.
if your daughter is interested in PG study, she could look at doing something more directly career related. If she has a 2:1 in a traditional degree subject from an RG university, she will be able to get into most programmes at other unis. Career services should also still work with her at her alma mater. A law conversion course or a business-orientated MA might suit her? She might also be struggling because a lot of very bright girls fall apart at some point under the burden of their perfectionism, which leads to self sabotage or inertia, and Covid will only have exacerbated any such feelings. It happened to me in my 20s, and I know a fair number of academics (male and female, to be fair) who are like that during their whole careers. It’s a very common thing that the less academically sparkling end up the most successful, as they tend to be less riven with self-doubt and anxiety, although this is, of course, a generalisation. In my own cohort, the two with a 2:2 and a third have gone on to become the wealthiest. They are very driven and very competitive sports people and that translated well into the macho industries they entered and they accelerated very quickly. The one with a third set up his own business very early on.
Some independent career counselling (not uni-provided) might help your daughter find her way and get back on track? Going and working with recruiters to help find her a position would also be advisable.
It is a really tough time to be a graduate right now, and I feel very sorry for young people dealing with the impact of Covid and the economy. I hope she finds her way.