Im asexual AMA

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As the title says Im asexual, ask me anything 🙂

@ILoveLeedsMoreThanLeads
The funniest thing is that most people feel that way about you all of the time, they just are too polite or kind to vocalise it.lol.
Ask Harvey!!

I agree with ILoveLeedsMoreThanLeads

But maybe that is because Stonewall has tried to make out that Asexuals are discriminated against and part of its long alphabet soup.

@Coyoacan
Taking stonewall out of the equation, do you understand what Loveleeds is saying?
If they said that in response to something you had posted, how would you feel or respond?

[quote Nothingwillcomeofnothing]@Doona
I would suggest that perhaps «trying sex» is a bit different to trying vegetables or trying something else you would offer to a child !
Sex is a whole process, with a beginning, a middle and an end,
Sometimes if you know, then you know.
It’s not for someone else to judge or argue.[/quote]
What? I'm not judging or arguing. The OP should life how she wants.
I asked because I want to know more. Maybe I can learn something.

@Doona
Yes hopefully.
Hopefully we both can.

@ILoveLeedsMoreThanLeads

Why do you feel the need to a) tell strangers and b) answer their questions?

Why do think strangers would be interested?

Do you think it makes you sound cool and interesting?

Fuck offfffffff you are so rude and defensive

Have you ever had a moment with someone where you've felt so connected that you were burning to take it further sexually or have you always felt the way you do now?

No I just think of myself as someone who doesn't want a relationship/sex

But they are two completely different things. Although for most people they naturally overlap, they don't always. Some people crave lots of sex but are relationship avoidant whereas other people have zero interest in sex, maybe tolerate it a bit in the beginning but have otherwise fantastic LTRs and need that emotional connection and companionship in their lives.

Do you think it's the fear of the expectation of sex that is putting you off trying to form a relationship? Or do you genuinely have no desire for either, equally?

Do you make a conscious effort to avoid situations (like flirting with a colleague for example) that might lead to someone wanting to get closer to you, to save awkwardness later? Or are you a person who gives off absolutely no vibes that way at all and is oblivious to the attractiveness of others?

One more question, if you are oblivious, do you think this might be linked to autism? Do you find it hard to read meaning in people's facial expressions for example? Because I can't think of another reason why someone wouldn't get a little warm glow inside when they are being smiled at or flirted with by someone nice.