I left my husband for another man. AMA

[mrssapphirebright]

Just that really.

She also hates it that I am close to my exmil.

It sounds like it's been a very rough road. Having the old wedding pictures still up is so petty.

Hopefully the sex got better.

Thought it was you op...

You used to post about this regularly and we’re quite spiteful and proud.
Your tone has changed somewhat... probably due to the fact that several posters served you your arse on a plate.

See you’re still quite enjoying your wee story there though.

Awful person.

*were

Don’t believe a word of it folks.
Sapphire is just your run of the mill awful OW who spend her time after the affair was discovered running round mumsnet gleefully laughing about her prize and taking great pleasure in the fact the wife lost her job etc.

She is not a woman of any moral fortitude.

Actually, Beer, from where I’m sitting, your comments reflect more badly on you than they do on the OP.

Oh gosh I really hope that's not true. I was thinking this was a story for once about people doing the most decent thing and leaving BEFORE cheating if they're not going to work any further on the marriage!

From where your sitting *pav maybe they do.

But from where I’m sitting, I’m seeing Saphire who was previously run off the relationship boards for the awful gleeful way she ran down her partners wife.
AMA is just another outlet for her.

Oh OP has another thread from 2016 where she says they had a sexual affair and the affair went on for two months.

Really disappointed you lied in this thread OP. It just seems unnecessary.

Thanks only

I didn’t want to post previous threads from sapphire as it’s not really the done thing but I stand by what I’ve previously said... op is not a good person.
though I don’t stand by my terrible grammar/spelling..sorry

Beer - I just did a search because I felt the OP had been brave here and wanted to prove you wrong actually!

Beer, I’d read the thread thinking that there are at least two sides to every story, it was just that your second post seemed excessive to me. That said, and with hindsight, what you (and only) posted have confirmed my thoughts.

Apologies for any offence.

I would’ve preferred it to be different too

I hope his first wife and children have moved on and are in a better place.

even though sapphire’s new pretense cracked slightly when she excitedly stated on this thread that he’d got out of paying child support

No offense.. it’s an open forum. All opinions welcome.
I don’t normally have such a long memory but sapphire really upset a lot of people with her attitude towards her dh’s first family so it stuck in my mind.

I thought the comment about him having '2 kids, well 1 now as he found out one wasn't his' was gross.

Not sure why people are lapping this story up but give others talking about emotional affairs a roasting.

Well, this is a bit embarrassing, isn't it op?

And the cautionary tale of what you can believe from an unverified AMA begins...

Is it just me or does anyone else think that the writing style of all the AMAs are always suspiciously similar.

I sincerely hope these are real people behind these threads and not just the online equivalent of Take A Break writers.

I wouldn't have made my comments had I known the full story. It was a typical boundary crossing tale of betrayal then leaving but I thought it was the opposite.

How old was 'his' youngest when they separated? How old when he found out he wasn't the father and has he continued seeing the child

I think a pp asked too but I couldn't see an answer.

Actually I think I also remember some of OP's previous posts, detailing a full blown sexual affair and lots about how awful his ex was. How convenient that when it comes to an AMA thread it changes to the 'textbook' way to do things, no physical cheating and the ex was a lying cheat herself anyway.

Exactly. What was the point of the thread in that case!