I've known a few masons most of whom are in their 60s-70s. Can I ask how old you are, roughly?
I am 47. There are women in their late 20s and early 30s in our lodge. There are also women in their 50s and 60s. When I joined, I was the youngest for a couple of years.
, you say there is 'no woo' involved. I briefly house shared with a mason who left his book which had the wording to rituals in it lying around, so of course I used to read it! Firstly would it be frowned upon for a non-mason to have easy access to this book?
We are not expected to hide those ritual books, if that's what you mean. I keep mine among my books so DP could read them if he wanted to, but as you probably found out for yourself, it's impossible to understand if you're not there. It's like reading the script of a play without knowing the story or the characters, I suppose.
Secondly it seemed pretty woo to me. I know you said that it wasn't once you know what the symbolism means, but the same could be said of a pagan ritual or a reiki guide, both of which I would put in the woo category. So not a question as such but an observation/point of discussion.
I've never seen a pagan ritual but I believe it's about belief in Earth deities and magic, both of which I would say are woo. I have seen Reiki and heard its practitioners explain what it supposedly is, and that definitely is woo. It's not the rituals that make these practices woo, it's what they actually believe in and claim to do. Freemasonry isn't woo because it doesn't claim to do supernatural things. As I said above, even a belief in God is not a prerequisite in Grand Orient. (It is expected in Grand Lodge, the other major branch of Freemasonry).