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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions
TheCourseOfTheRiverChanged · 02/02/2025 22:38

@Porridgewithoats "If Trump had wanted to allow children to explore and understand that gender is an oppressive, sexist construct, he could have put feminism on the curriculum and ensured schools had to teach critical thinking around gender"
You're suggesting Trump should have written a school curriculum and imposed it on all states?
That really would be tyrranical, and unconstitutional. And not a criticism of Trump I was expecting to see.
EOs are one thing US presidents can do, off their own bat, without any other branches of government involved. They feel undemocratic to me but it's their system. They have a very limited scope, Trump is shaving very close to the bone with these, many of them will be challenged and who knows how it all comes out in the wash.
I feel a bit like this EO is playing with the optics of the court cases in mind.

Cailleach1 · 02/02/2025 22:12

Dazedandconfusedma · 02/02/2025 21:55

Who imposes being trans on someone else?!? This just doesn’t exist!

Tell that to the clinicians at the Tavistock who stated they witnessed deeply homophobic parents bringing their children to set them along the ‘trans the gay away’ route. Being homophobic, some parents could accept their child’s non gender conforming behaviour (or possible same sex attraction) only if they could cosmetically make their child look like the opposite sex. And, therefore apparently ‘straight’. The promotion of the idea of a gendered soul in the wrong body made this possible. Junk Science masquerading as healthcare. And incredibly they were allowed to do this to physically healthy children.

The clinicians had a joke that there would hardly be any gay kids in the future. The ‘gay’ would all be ‘transed away’.

It is incredibly sad that those children could be treated this way. First lied to that they could in reality change sex, and secondly put on a medical pathway which might lead to sterility or other serious health problems. Any principle of ‘First do no harm’ completely betrayed. On a pathway that youngsters could not possibly consent to as they could not be able to realise the full consequences. I didn’t consider having a child in my 20’s, but if I had been sterilised I would not have been able to then start a family in my thirties. Or breastfeed if my breast had been cut off as a youngster.

I really do think this will be regarded as an enormous abuse scandal in the future.

Dazedandconfusedma · 02/02/2025 22:08

MrsOvertonsWindow · 02/02/2025 21:58

A four / six / eight year old child with parents insisting they're a trans child?

Is this a thing?!? Parents telling their 4 year old they are in the wrong body?! I think there are a lot of important issues to be discussed and dealt with, but there’s a lot of hysterical bullshit going around.

Arran2024 · 02/02/2025 22:06

I guess that most schools and most teachers will abide by the directive but there will be highly motivated individuals who take no notice and will be sacked, then it will go to court. That's what usually happens in cases like this.

themostspecialelfintheworkshop · 02/02/2025 22:05

Dazedandconfusedma · 02/02/2025 21:55

Who imposes being trans on someone else?!? This just doesn’t exist!

Schools imposing wrong sex, confusing non-normal English pronouns on all the students for the demands of a tiny minority (without, naturally asking them all if they want special pronouns). .

Schools imposing mixed sex toilets on girls and boys without their consent and against existing law.

Courts compelling women to lie about what they see and call someone they perceive (and actually in reality is) a man as 'she'.

Men forcing their way into women's toilets and changing rooms against women's consent, excluding women.

Journalists obfuscating and lying to their readers by mixing up sex-based and gender-based pronouns in the same article and putting the perpetrators demands above the victims perceptions (or feelings or right to the truth).

I could go on.

Dazedandconfusedma · 02/02/2025 22:02

Myalternate · 02/02/2025 11:40

People can choose any pronouns to anything they want.
What they don’t have the right to do is insist that others adopt them under penalty of being described as bigots or transphobic.

But if someone else chooses to respect their choice, they should be criminalised?!?

MrsOvertonsWindow · 02/02/2025 21:58

Dazedandconfusedma · 02/02/2025 21:55

Who imposes being trans on someone else?!? This just doesn’t exist!

A four / six / eight year old child with parents insisting they're a trans child?

Dazedandconfusedma · 02/02/2025 21:55

Shortshriftandlethal · 02/02/2025 13:06

Of course people who adopt such identities and beliefs exist...but what they believe in has no basis in reality. Nobody should be compelled to partake in such a belief; and children should not be encouraged to engage in fantastical thinking either...especially when that path so often leads towards drugs, cross sex hormones not naturally suited to the body, and radical, disfiguring surgery.

What adults do is their business, but again it should not be imposed upon everyone ele. Private feelings should remain private.

Is this what you are framing as " hate"?

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Who imposes being trans on someone else?!? This just doesn’t exist!

ellenback21 · 02/02/2025 21:54

In fact, thinking about this some more I wonder how easily a generation of teachers immersed in gender ideology is going to find it to teach any feminism. Here's a job for feminists of any stripe. Prepare materials to help. Get some influence in training colleges. This is all going to take years of undoing.

ellenback21 · 02/02/2025 21:28

Porridgewithoats · 02/02/2025 17:38

I'm not at all confused. I'm pointing out that this law also affects children experimenting with and subverting gender constructs.

If Trump had wanted to allow children to explore and understand that gender is an oppressive, sexist construct, he could have put feminism on the curriculum and ensured schools had to teach critical thinking around gender: a very positive approach to the problem of (scarily undereducated) children thinking they could change sex to escape gender constructs.

Trump doesn't want people to think critically about gender, nor to subvert stereotypes, and this law obstructs both.

I don't see that the EO obstructs teaching about gender as a social construct. It prevents promotion of gender ideology, which is a completely different thing.

It is fair to say that the penalties may make schools think very carefully about exactly what they do teach. In the light of the last 10 years, that is probably a very good thing.

Porridgewithoats · 02/02/2025 20:49

Shortshriftandlethal · 02/02/2025 20:21

You are not subverting anything if you think that a girl who is at all 'masculine' in appearance, or who likes 'boy stuff' is actually a boy; or that a feminine man who is same sex attracted and likes fashion, is actually a girl.

Obviously not, but I don't think this law is critical thinking either.

Helleofabore · 02/02/2025 20:42

Pinkissmart · 02/02/2025 19:31

First- it’s pretty widely documented that micro plastics impact hormones.
However, I’m not saying that microplastics is the only cause- just that there could very well be other factors contributing.

Is there proof that hormones have any influence on gender identity diagnosis though? Are you trying to say that there is hormonal influences for gender identity? Because if that were true, then there would be easy tests that would diagnose gender dysphoria. But there isn’t.

What hormonal influence do you believe impacts gender identity?

AlisonDonut · 02/02/2025 20:28

Pinkissmart · 02/02/2025 19:31

First- it’s pretty widely documented that micro plastics impact hormones.
However, I’m not saying that microplastics is the only cause- just that there could very well be other factors contributing.

OK so which factors justify removing a teenagers breasts?

Shortshriftandlethal · 02/02/2025 20:23

Pinkissmart · 02/02/2025 19:31

First- it’s pretty widely documented that micro plastics impact hormones.
However, I’m not saying that microplastics is the only cause- just that there could very well be other factors contributing.

Perhaps it was micro-plastics that created the 'goth' and 'emo' youth trends too?

Shortshriftandlethal · 02/02/2025 20:21

Porridgewithoats · 02/02/2025 17:38

I'm not at all confused. I'm pointing out that this law also affects children experimenting with and subverting gender constructs.

If Trump had wanted to allow children to explore and understand that gender is an oppressive, sexist construct, he could have put feminism on the curriculum and ensured schools had to teach critical thinking around gender: a very positive approach to the problem of (scarily undereducated) children thinking they could change sex to escape gender constructs.

Trump doesn't want people to think critically about gender, nor to subvert stereotypes, and this law obstructs both.

You are not subverting anything if you think that a girl who is at all 'masculine' in appearance, or who likes 'boy stuff' is actually a boy; or that a feminine man who is same sex attracted and likes fashion, is actually a girl.

WandaSiri · 02/02/2025 20:19

Were microplastics a big issue in the 18th century? Or at the dawn of human history, as we are so often told people with transgender identities existed then?

Pinkissmart · 02/02/2025 19:31

Helleofabore · 02/02/2025 13:18

I don’t believe that the number of children in this generation of children who have now declared they are trans have been negatively impacted in this way by microplastics. This is misinformation and it is harmful to be posting this as even a valid theory.

There is also a huge difference between a teacher supporting exploration of identity, and those who support the validation of an identity when that validation comes with a list of harms that can be viewed as negatively impacting that child and other children, particularly when decisions about that identity have not be supported by the parents. And to a large extent even then there needs to be limitations on what is supported, and taught, because of the potential harm of others

First- it’s pretty widely documented that micro plastics impact hormones.
However, I’m not saying that microplastics is the only cause- just that there could very well be other factors contributing.

WandaSiri · 02/02/2025 19:17

HPFA · 02/02/2025 18:40

I don't think we should be cheering Trump's EOs. The vast majority in this country will not separate what Trump is doing on the trans issue from every other harmful thing he is doing.

Focus on this country.

Sorry, disagree completely - Floisme · Today 19:01 expresses it perfectly.

TheKeatingFive · 02/02/2025 19:09

I'm not sure either what women in Federal prisons and parents of gender distressed children are supposed to do in the meantime - say no to any change until it comes from the 'right people'?

Well exactly

And conveniently the 'right people' are all completely captured so they'd be waiting a long, long time.

What the Democrats are doing are gifting Trump more and more issues that he can sound completely reasonable on.

Floisme · 02/02/2025 19:01

No, I'm not going to pretend I'm not happy for women in federal prisons, or for US female athletes, or for girls trying to play sport, or for children who've been told the lie that they can change sex, or for parents of children asking for puberty blockers. If I start down that path then, as far as I'm concerned, Trump will have won.

ellenback21 · 02/02/2025 18:53

HPFA · 02/02/2025 18:40

I don't think we should be cheering Trump's EOs. The vast majority in this country will not separate what Trump is doing on the trans issue from every other harmful thing he is doing.

Focus on this country.

The majority in this country actually agree with the gender critical view, certainly when it comes to sports, prisons, changing rooms, sex meaning biological sex in the Equality Act. Know your audience. If you think talking about the EOs will help - do it. If you think it will make the situation worse - avoid it.

HPFA · 02/02/2025 18:40

WandaSiri · 02/02/2025 18:13

What weapon would we handing genderists?

I don't think we should be cheering Trump's EOs. The vast majority in this country will not separate what Trump is doing on the trans issue from every other harmful thing he is doing.

Focus on this country.

WandaSiri · 02/02/2025 18:13

HPFA · 02/02/2025 16:48

Just as Democrats were stupid to hand Republicans the weapon of males being in female sports it would be stupid to allow the reverse to happen.

Yes, everyone should make up their minds independently on every issue but realistically people rarely have time for that.

What weapon would we handing genderists?

GailBlancheViola · 02/02/2025 17:39

It would be nice if you bothered to remember this started off as a feminist pushback and we welcomed conservative women who wanted to join us.

Who does this we refer to? Is it akin to the Royal we?

How very big of the we group to welcome conservative women. How very condescending you sound as if conservative women are just not quite the right sort of women and here's me thinking feminism is for all women.

Porridgewithoats · 02/02/2025 17:38

Shortshriftandlethal · 02/02/2025 13:11

You sound confused to be honest.

Exploring the sociallly constructed dimensions of gender means experimenting, exploring and either accepting or rejecting certain norms and or stereotypes associated with one's sex. It does not mean believeing that you can actually change sex. Sex is fixed. it is an immutable biological reality.

Nobody was using pronouns (in the way that people are now) in the 1980s, and that includes in schools - for the reason nobody had heard of transgenderism. It wasn't really a thing then. People were aware of a few men who were called 'transsexuals' - who had radical surgeries.....but that was pretty much it.

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I'm not at all confused. I'm pointing out that this law also affects children experimenting with and subverting gender constructs.

If Trump had wanted to allow children to explore and understand that gender is an oppressive, sexist construct, he could have put feminism on the curriculum and ensured schools had to teach critical thinking around gender: a very positive approach to the problem of (scarily undereducated) children thinking they could change sex to escape gender constructs.

Trump doesn't want people to think critically about gender, nor to subvert stereotypes, and this law obstructs both.

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