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Horrifying Republican response to Bishop's sermon

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JessaWoo · 22/01/2025 03:20

These are tweets from Matt Walsh on X about Bishop Marian Budde and her sermon earlier today in Washington, attacking her womanhood and ability in a sexist and ageist tirade. It seems the clarion call has gone out to the rest of the Trump X minions, as they are all tweeting the same sentiments - including Kellie-Jay Keen and Donald Trump Jnr. Rep. Mike Collins całłed for her deportation, although she is American. Do you still support Trump after this?

“A liberal woman over the age of 50 with a lesbian haircut is guaranteed to support the most evil ideas and policies that mankind has ever conceived.”

“Just take one look at this witch and you know everything you need to know about her, even before she starts talking.”

“Of course this grotesque display is coming from a female “priest.” You will only ever hear heresy and inanity from someone whose whole existence is blasphemous.”

And another tweet from Bo Loudon: “🚨BREAKING: A bishop at the National Cathedrol just urged President Trump to protect transgender children and not deport illegal aliens because "they're not criminals."

Pure class from President Trump as he sat through this despicable politicization of the prayer service.”

Speech text:
““In the Name of our God, I ask you to have mercy upon the people in our country who are scared now,” Budde stated. “There are gay, lesbian, and transgender children in Democratic, Republican and independent families. Some who fear for their lives.

”The people who pick our crops and clean our office buildings, who labor in poultry farms and meat-packing plants, who wash the dishes after we eat in restaurants and work the night shifts in hospitals. They may not be citizens, or have the proper documentation, but the vast majority of immigrants are not criminals.”

Budde asked Trump “to have mercy” on people “in our communities whose children fear that their parents will be taken away and that you help those who are fleeing warzones and persecution in their own lands to find compassion and welcome here.

“Our God teaches us that we are to be merciful to the stranger, for we were all once strangers in this land,” she continued. “May God grant us the strength and courage to honor the dignity of every human being, to speak the truth to one another in love, and walk humbly with each other and our God.”

Earlier in her message, Budde stressed the importance of unity, of respectfully disagreeing with one another, but also expressed concern over what she called “the culture of contempt” and feared “the loss of equality” for some who lose in political debates.

What a horrible, divisive message this is! 🙄 Personally, I think Budde's message is courageous and beautiful, and clearly deeply Christian at its core.

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JessaWoo · 26/01/2025 09:35

@OldCrone

Has anyone said that "the Left is responsible for what other people do" or "the Left are responsible for the odiousness of the Right"? I think what people here have said is that the left is responsible for its own policies which mean that some people feel unable to vote for them. In a two party state like the US that means that people vote Republican or don't vote at all.
That's the ... exact same thing.*
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How do you suggest that those of us who are anti-genderism "work on whatever is wrong within the Labour/Democrats"? How do you suppose we work with Labour when they have government ministers who call us "rights hoarding dinosaurs"? How do American women work with the Democrats when their presidential candidate wrote to Dylan Mulvaney praising him for his performance of womanface? (Just a couple of examples. There are hundreds more.)
Use your words? Join activist groups? I'm not sure what you're finding so difficult about this particular concept, unless you're just being picky.

Do these sound like people who would be open to discussion about the harm that genderism is doing?
What do you think would happen by talking or emailing a politician?

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Cailleach1 · 26/01/2025 08:20

AliceNutterWasAWoman · 26/01/2025 00:43

Hear you go Jessa. I'm sure when you read the witterings of The Blessed Jude you will see why gender ideology has no hope

Butler calls instead for an alternative vision that can challenge the frame of gender as dangerous ideology. Butler invites us to consider: “How do we develop a counter-imaginary strong enough to expose [the anti-gender] ruse, scatter its force, and stop the efforts at censorship, distortion, and reactionary politics that it empowers? It is up to us to produce a compelling counter-vision, one that would affirm the rights and freedoms of embodied life that we can, and should, protect”

Sorry, refers to this from the Butler quote above.

It is up to us to produce a compelling counter-vision, one that would affirm the rights and freedoms of embodied life that we can, and should, protect”

TheCourseOfTheRiverChanged · 26/01/2025 08:18

From the pdf @JessaWoo links to:
"Goal #5: Instituting Greater Transparency, Accountability, and Over-sight.
The next Administration should guard against the regulatory capture of our
public health agencies by pharmaceutical companies, insurers, hospital conglomerates, and related economic interests that these agencies are meant to regulate. We
must erect robust firewalls to mitigate these obvious financial conflicts of interest.
All National Institutes of Health, Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, and Food and Drug Administration regulators should be entirely free from private biopharmaceutical funding. In this realm, “public–private partnerships” is a euphemism for agency capture, a thin veneer for corporatism. Funding for agencies and individual government researchers must come directly from the government
with robust congressional oversight.
We must shut and lock the revolving door between government and Big Pharma."
WOW, this is not what I was expecting to read.
2025 might turn out to be my year of DO NOT ASSUME.
Politics really is in a tumble dryer at the moment - the old left and right all jumble up.
ETA Most of the document is what I was expecting, socially conservative, morality emerging from Catholic and Evangelical Christianity, didn't want to give the impression it's different to that overall, just sharing what stuck out to me. Hippie nurses like me have been dreaming of reforming US big pharma for decades.

Cailleach1 · 26/01/2025 08:17

“Embodied life”? So life that coincides with having a body. Is there life without a body of some shape or form? Jeepers, call David Attenborough. It took a social ‘scientist’ to do Science properly. Better than the real thing.

OldCrone · 26/01/2025 07:08

JessaWoo · 26/01/2025 03:51

@selffellatingouroborosofhate

Women are not responsible for what Matt Walsh, Trump Jr, or Mike Collins do. KJK is her own woman and we aren't responsible for her either.

No, but women can choose the messages and ideologies they support.

It’s curious to me that you say that women are not responsible for the above, but the prevailing note on this thread has been that the Left is responsible for what other people do. Isn’t this a bit odd?

So, if the Left are responsible for the odiousness of the Right and not women, why are so many women joining in with the messaging of ‘The Left is so bad’?

Why not work on whatever is wrong within the Labour/Democrats, rather than help the Right, consciously or otherwise?

Has anyone said that "the Left is responsible for what other people do" or "the Left are responsible for the odiousness of the Right"? I think what people here have said is that the left is responsible for its own policies which mean that some people feel unable to vote for them. In a two party state like the US that means that people vote Republican or don't vote at all.

How do you suggest that those of us who are anti-genderism "work on whatever is wrong within the Labour/Democrats"? How do you suppose we work with Labour when they have government ministers who call us "rights hoarding dinosaurs"? How do American women work with the Democrats when their presidential candidate wrote to Dylan Mulvaney praising him for his performance of womanface? (Just a couple of examples. There are hundreds more.)

Do these sound like people who would be open to discussion about the harm that genderism is doing? If you think you have a way of reaching people like that, please share it.

JessaWoo · 26/01/2025 03:56

@selffellatingouroborosofhate

You are leveraging our concerns as feminists about women's participation in society to try to get us to condemn Trump. This EO doesn't remove women's right to participate in society, so it's a straw man argument. Trump's team contains women; hiring women isn't the action of a man who wants us back in the home. Him committing rape doesn't extrapolate to him wanting us chained to the kitchen sink.

It's possible to accept that someone awful can do a useful and good thing.

It's not about just the EO. I'm not sure if you've read the Project 2025 document, but I'd recommend at least the Department of Health section.

Many of the key overarching actions in Project 2025 have already been realised, so Trump saying before the election it was nothing to him was just bluster.

https://static.project2025.org/2025MandateForLeadershipp_CHAPTER-14.pdf

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JessaWoo · 26/01/2025 03:51

@selffellatingouroborosofhate

Women are not responsible for what Matt Walsh, Trump Jr, or Mike Collins do. KJK is her own woman and we aren't responsible for her either.

No, but women can choose the messages and ideologies they support.

It’s curious to me that you say that women are not responsible for the above, but the prevailing note on this thread has been that the Left is responsible for what other people do. Isn’t this a bit odd?

So, if the Left are responsible for the odiousness of the Right and not women, why are so many women joining in with the messaging of ‘The Left is so bad’?

Why not work on whatever is wrong within the Labour/Democrats, rather than help the Right, consciously or otherwise?

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JessaWoo · 26/01/2025 03:31

And the same for Chrome browser. Maybe it’s you?

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JessaWoo · 26/01/2025 03:29

And not when the post is displayed in the app, at least.

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JessaWoo · 26/01/2025 03:28

@selffellatingouroborosofhate

Completely unrelated: are you using a Polish keyboard? You've used L with a stroke twice in the word "called".

It didn't appear like that when I typed it. I use the app. (Not the Polish keyboard.)

Just trying again - called. No?

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selffellatingouroborosofhate · 26/01/2025 02:16

JessaWoo · 26/01/2025 01:16

@selffellatingouroborosofhate

See the first rule of misogyny: what men on TwiX do is somehow women's fault.

That's a bit of an oversimplification of the quoted paragraph.

From your OP:

These are tweets from Matt Walsh on X about Bishop Marian Budde and her sermon earlier today in Washington, attacking her womanhood and ability in a sexist and ageist tirade. It seems the clarion call has gone out to the rest of the Trump X minions, as they are all tweeting the same sentiments - including Kellie-Jay Keen and Donald Trump Jnr. Rep. Mike Collins całłed for her deportation, although she is American. Do you still support Trump after this?

Women are not responsible for what Matt Walsh, Trump Jr, or Mike Collins do. KJK is her own woman and we aren't responsible for her either.

You assume that any of us "support" Trump in the first place. "Do you still support Trump after this?" is the political equivalent of "when did you stop hitting your wife?" in that it is based on an unjustified assumption to begin with. I support my cat by paying for his food. I support my sister by helping her to move house. Do I support Trump?

  • I agree with some of the EOs he's signed, but not others.
  • I recognise why US voters chose him.
  • I admire his commitment to actually doing what he said he'd do.
  • I wouldn't want to be alone in a room with him.
  • I am utterly dismayed that US politics has got to the point where he is the least-worst option for a majority of voters.
  • I am terrified because he has undone the AI safety stuff that Biden put in place.
  • I am really glad that he has signed the EO that gets men out of women's prisons.

Is that "support" for Trump?

Completely unrelated: are you using a Polish keyboard? You've used L with a stroke twice in the word "called".

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selffellatingouroborosofhate · 26/01/2025 01:41

JessaWoo · 26/01/2025 00:53

@Shortshriftandlethal

It is not so much about Right versus Left, as rising above tribes and being able to see the larger picture....and that often involves not automatically dismissing everything just because it is coming from the 'wrong' tribe.

Many of us here have been shocked out of our previous ideological and political certainties - as a result of Gender ideology and the way it has been embraced by many on the so called Progressive Left. Once you've seen something, it is hard to go back to what you previously thought you knew or thought.

If you can rise above the continual focus on Trump as a personality and look at the issues then that might make it easier for you to grasp why people voted the way they did. Old allegiances are breaking down and everything is aligning in new ways.

When you have always been a politically engaged person and have a natural political bent, rather than just a narrow party affiiation, then you end up becoming interested in the larger patterns and movements that lie beneath the surface of events and issues.

It's interesting, as I agree with much of this post. I've written plenty of times I don't not believe in tribal thinking; ie. agreeing with one aspect does not mean throwing in your lot with the rest. However, as you say, the past couple of years has unsettled many out of their ideological and political foundations, and that's what I've observed in FWR trends over time.

What I see in the US, and increasingly globally, is a fall into authoritarianism. This isn't just over the past year, but has been brewing for the last 10 at least.

I am just left-of-centre, so not particularly left, either. I am more disappointed and distressed by the how ugly the world is becoming, and even though the word 'woman' is supposedly reclaimed, women themselves are reduced to vehicles of sex, baby-carriers and homemakers. All the work feminism has done could be erased.

I'll likely receive jeers back to this post, but I don't care. I think it's too important that women know what they're supporting.

even though the word 'woman' is supposedly reclaimed, women themselves are reduced to vehicles of sex, baby-carriers and homemakers. All the work feminism has done could be erased.

From the journal article I linked to:

"These distinctions also suggest that ‘one-size-fits-all’ counter approaches may be less effective than tactics and strategies that address the specific concerns and motivations of different strands."

You are leveraging our concerns as feminists about women's participation in society to try to get us to condemn Trump. This EO doesn't remove women's right to participate in society, so it's a straw man argument. Trump's team contains women; hiring women isn't the action of a man who wants us back in the home. Him committing rape doesn't extrapolate to him wanting us chained to the kitchen sink.

It's possible to accept that someone awful can do a useful and good thing.

JessaWoo · 26/01/2025 01:16

@selffellatingouroborosofhate

See the first rule of misogyny: what men on TwiX do is somehow women's fault.

That's a bit of an oversimplification of the quoted paragraph.

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JessaWoo · 26/01/2025 01:13

@AliceNutterWasAWoman

Hear you go Jessa. I'm sure when you read the witterings of The Blessed Jude you will see why gender ideology has no hope

Butler calls instead for an alternative vision that can challenge the frame of gender as dangerous ideology. Butler invites us to consider: “How do we develop a counter-imaginary strong enough to expose [the anti-gender] ruse, scatter its force, and stop the efforts at censorship, distortion, and reactionary politics that it empowers? It is up to us to produce a compelling counter-vision, one that would affirm the rights and freedoms of embodied life that we can, and should, protect”

So do you agree with the witterings of 'The Blessed Jude' or not?

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JessaWoo · 26/01/2025 00:53

@Shortshriftandlethal

It is not so much about Right versus Left, as rising above tribes and being able to see the larger picture....and that often involves not automatically dismissing everything just because it is coming from the 'wrong' tribe.

Many of us here have been shocked out of our previous ideological and political certainties - as a result of Gender ideology and the way it has been embraced by many on the so called Progressive Left. Once you've seen something, it is hard to go back to what you previously thought you knew or thought.

If you can rise above the continual focus on Trump as a personality and look at the issues then that might make it easier for you to grasp why people voted the way they did. Old allegiances are breaking down and everything is aligning in new ways.

When you have always been a politically engaged person and have a natural political bent, rather than just a narrow party affiiation, then you end up becoming interested in the larger patterns and movements that lie beneath the surface of events and issues.

It's interesting, as I agree with much of this post. I've written plenty of times I don't not believe in tribal thinking; ie. agreeing with one aspect does not mean throwing in your lot with the rest. However, as you say, the past couple of years has unsettled many out of their ideological and political foundations, and that's what I've observed in FWR trends over time.

What I see in the US, and increasingly globally, is a fall into authoritarianism. This isn't just over the past year, but has been brewing for the last 10 at least.

I am just left-of-centre, so not particularly left, either. I am more disappointed and distressed by the how ugly the world is becoming, and even though the word 'woman' is supposedly reclaimed, women themselves are reduced to vehicles of sex, baby-carriers and homemakers. All the work feminism has done could be erased.

I'll likely receive jeers back to this post, but I don't care. I think it's too important that women know what they're supporting.

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selffellatingouroborosofhate · 26/01/2025 00:44

JessaWoo · 26/01/2025 00:27

Can you quote the part that references the specific TRA strategy you're thinking about? I feel it's a great cautionary article about the state of gender-critical politics today.

"These differences matter, not only for accurately mapping gender-critical politics, but for developing effective counter-strategies. For example, gender-critical feminists appear to be divided on whether to collaborate with right-wing groups, with some actively distancing themselves from the right and others calling for strategic alliances. These divisions open up potential pressure points. These distinctions also suggest that ‘one-size-fits-all’ counter approaches may be less effective than tactics and strategies that address the specific concerns and motivations of different strands."

The emphasis in the quoted text is mine.

"Look who you're getting into bed with", which in this thread takes the form of "look how men who agree with you on one thing have, without any instructions from you§, been mean to a woman on TwiX", is leveraging those "pressure points" of "some actively distancing themselves from the right".

§ See the first rule of misogyny: what men on TwiX do is somehow women's fault. Hmm

AliceNutterWasAWoman · 26/01/2025 00:43

JessaWoo · 26/01/2025 00:27

Can you quote the part that references the specific TRA strategy you're thinking about? I feel it's a great cautionary article about the state of gender-critical politics today.

Hear you go Jessa. I'm sure when you read the witterings of The Blessed Jude you will see why gender ideology has no hope

Butler calls instead for an alternative vision that can challenge the frame of gender as dangerous ideology. Butler invites us to consider: “How do we develop a counter-imaginary strong enough to expose [the anti-gender] ruse, scatter its force, and stop the efforts at censorship, distortion, and reactionary politics that it empowers? It is up to us to produce a compelling counter-vision, one that would affirm the rights and freedoms of embodied life that we can, and should, protect”

JessaWoo · 26/01/2025 00:27

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 25/01/2025 23:00

A heads-up: the "look who you've got into bed with" posters are following a new TRA strategy to fracture British gender-critical feminists.

https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/10894160.2024.2356496

Can you quote the part that references the specific TRA strategy you're thinking about? I feel it's a great cautionary article about the state of gender-critical politics today.

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selffellatingouroborosofhate · 25/01/2025 23:00

A heads-up: the "look who you've got into bed with" posters are following a new TRA strategy to fracture British gender-critical feminists.

https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/10894160.2024.2356496

Helleofabore · 25/01/2025 15:52

TempestTost · 25/01/2025 14:16

As far as the affirmative action EO:

It's worth understanding why the original policy was made. It affects mainly civil servants, and at that time, there were a minuscule number of black Americans in the civil service. The idea was that they should be roughly in proportion to their numbers in the population, 12%.

Whether you think that was a good or bad approach, that was the reasoning and those were the numbers.

The federal civil service now is 19% black. Which is to say, black Americans are over-represented compared to the general population.

So is it really necessary to carry on with a scheme meant to bring that group up to proportionate representation? Arguably that could end up over-shooting significantly which means others will be disadvantaged.

As a numbers game the policy has accomplished what it was intended to.

Yes, this was my understanding too.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 25/01/2025 14:34

TempestTost · 25/01/2025 14:16

As far as the affirmative action EO:

It's worth understanding why the original policy was made. It affects mainly civil servants, and at that time, there were a minuscule number of black Americans in the civil service. The idea was that they should be roughly in proportion to their numbers in the population, 12%.

Whether you think that was a good or bad approach, that was the reasoning and those were the numbers.

The federal civil service now is 19% black. Which is to say, black Americans are over-represented compared to the general population.

So is it really necessary to carry on with a scheme meant to bring that group up to proportionate representation? Arguably that could end up over-shooting significantly which means others will be disadvantaged.

As a numbers game the policy has accomplished what it was intended to.

What I said about that kind of law needing regular review with the intention of eventual repeal? This.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 25/01/2025 14:26

JessaWoo · 25/01/2025 11:32

@OldCrone

Would you like to engage with @Hellofabore's point that since many regular posters weren't even posting on the Trump threads, you can't reasonably conclude that most regular posters support him?

I didn't even agree with that point. They were posting on Trump threads (not all, but a good many) and showing not only support for what he is doing but support for Right ideology in general (eg. 'The Left is responsible for this mess!'). From this, and seeing the general direction of threads on FWR, that was my conclusion. Certainly, it wouldn't be that posters on FWR are primarily Left.

Also, the amount of "NO WE'RE NOT - SHOW US THE EVIDENCE" is tremendous.

Perhaps the lurkers are.

'The Left is responsible for this mess!'

is not "Right ideology", it's a factual observation.

I was a Labour Party member until 1st May 2018, the kind that went to ward meetings and leafletted. I still endorse core traditional Labour values like workplace rights, trade unions, social housing, free-at-point-of-use health care funded through general taxation, and a welfare safety net to protect those who cannot work and those who make up what Marx called the "reserve army of labour" aka the unemployed. Yet, I do not recognise the modern Labour Party, with its focus on subjective identity and its anti-Semitism. Past Labour govts have brought in tuition fees and PFI in conflict with those traditional Labour values to the extent that I think they aren't a socialist party at all any more. Given a choice at last GE between a non-socialist Labour who think men can become women and a non-socialist Tories who think you can't change sex, I voted Tory for the first time in my life.

I can see how the Dems in the US, by focussing on subjective identity and "defund the police", have alienated voters in the exact same way. People want to be safe and feel safe. They want to know that they can leave their DD at swim class and there won't be a man in the changing room. They want to know that criminals will be arrested and the police will be there to do that. They want politicians who don't gaslight them that a man can become a woman, they want someone who doesn't lie about basic biology. They don't want someone who campaigns on protecting abortion access and then breaks that promise, they want someone who promises day one EOs and actually signs them on day one on camera.

The Left is absolutely responsible for this mess, on both sides of the Atlantic. Remember that Labour didn't gain many votes here, they won because the Tories lost voters to Reform UK. If Reform UK hadn't been on the ballot paper, the Tories would still be in power.

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TempestTost · 25/01/2025 14:16

As far as the affirmative action EO:

It's worth understanding why the original policy was made. It affects mainly civil servants, and at that time, there were a minuscule number of black Americans in the civil service. The idea was that they should be roughly in proportion to their numbers in the population, 12%.

Whether you think that was a good or bad approach, that was the reasoning and those were the numbers.

The federal civil service now is 19% black. Which is to say, black Americans are over-represented compared to the general population.

So is it really necessary to carry on with a scheme meant to bring that group up to proportionate representation? Arguably that could end up over-shooting significantly which means others will be disadvantaged.

As a numbers game the policy has accomplished what it was intended to.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 25/01/2025 13:55

Princessconsuelabananahammock9 · 25/01/2025 07:21

Honestly, I had no clue they would shorten his life and was stunned to find out when he told me.

Stunned, panicked. I have never felt more loved and supported in my life and the idea of losing him freaks me out. I've never had that feeling before.

I don't believe children should have any hormone intervention. I also believe parents who push for hormones need their own therapy.

I know a few parents whose identity is extremely wrapped up in their kids being " trans ". I find this very disturbing.

Medical intervention as adults I support. BUT I believe they need a lot of therapy intervention prior to in order to determine if this is the best course of action.

My partner lived as a butch lesbian for years. He transitioned at 30. For him it changed his life for the better. He would say it saved his life and I have no reason not to believe him.

That said I met him years later. He had long lived as a man, looked like a man, it's honestly jarring to see old photos of him.

I only know him as a trans man. We tell people I found him in the discount section of tinder with a sign that said " some assembly required." Lol

I don't know all the answers but for now I believe it's the best scenario for those who experience genuine distress from gender dysmorphia.

But because of the health implications I believe it should be a last option, but an option none the less.

I think if someone is prepared to go through all the therapy, paperwork, hormones, surgeries, then they likely have given this a lot of thought and consideration.

I believe we can protect children, protect women, and protect trans people.

Your DP is female and on testosterone, yes?

If your DP was charged with a crime and remanded in custody awaiting trial, would you want your DP held in a men's prison or a woman's prison?

Because that's the kind of thing that Trump's EO is about.

OvaHere · 25/01/2025 13:31

Shortshriftandlethal · 25/01/2025 12:44

The rise of group identity politics has led to the polarisation we are now witnessing......with people feeling they have to buy into a whole suite of policy proposals or ideological positions - as a badge of tribal membership. Hence Obama telling black men that Kamala was the candidate they should vote for - because she was mixed race and a woman, and if you are black you are meant to prioritise your supposed black identity above all else.

Edited

It's interesting to note the reaction of Reddit to the Ross Ulbricht pardon.

Before Trump the political parts of Reddit were largely behind the campaign to free him or at least reduce the sentence. This was very much a left leaning libertarian stance with the campaign for Ulbricht involving a lot of civil rights organisations who saw the sentence term as incredible state overreach and had concerns over political meddling and a court case that involved elements of corruption.

2015 Reddit would have thrown a party at his pardon. I'm sure you can work out the reaction on the main politics sub this week because it was Trump who did it.