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Nordic Model Now article on Grooming Gangs

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IwantToRetire · 04/01/2025 20:15

Its frightening to think that in 2025 and beyond unaccountable male egotists will be running the world, as so many seem to think what is on social media is reality.

In response to the shit stirring by Musk, Nordic Model Now have written this statement https://nordicmodelnow.org/2025/01/03/on-grooming-gangs/

On “grooming gangs” | Nordic Model Now!

Why we should not be surprised by the grooming gangs in Rotherham and elsewhere while the government condones and facilitates an industry that profits from the similar abuse of women and girls.

https://nordicmodelnow.org/2025/01/03/on-grooming-gangs

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ArabellaScott · 05/01/2025 08:28

Of course some will make use of this issue to try to make political capital and some will use it to push racist narratives.

The cover ups and collusion and failures to act properly on the issues over the course of so many decades have left those consequences wide open. Thats unfortunate, but could easily have been foreseen. Pile denial on top of cover up and you push the problem further down the road, making the eventual fallout worse.

Both Labour and Tory governments have failed these girls and women. People have acted out of cowardice and carelessness and political motivations.

What matters to me is that this stops happening and the issues are addressed robustly and without fear or favour. That vulnerable girls are cared for and victims are listened to. People in authority need to deal with it.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 05/01/2025 08:22

'white men are just as happy to rape and torture women and children as men of other ethnicities – possibly more so.

There is zero basis to claim this, I agree. Not to excuse the many terrible things white men have done to women and children, but to call out an obvious bullshit agenda-driven statement.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 05/01/2025 08:19

My main point was that the article is written to claim that race has nothing to do with the grooming gangs and cites a half dozen named men as 'evidence' that gangs made of white men are as prevalent as ones made of other races.

Exactly. It's a good article in many ways, but like you I think it's pushing the writer's political agenda in others. Obviously the Telegraph isn't exactly agenda free either, but here it provides both key information and balance. I hadn't read it, so thank you for posting it.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 05/01/2025 08:16

Maybe the issue isn't about some w**ker like Musk, but more that some are just waiting for an opportunity to hijack the horrendous issue of the sexual emploitation of women to score points about how men from some communities are worse that others.

Give over. It's exceedingly clear how little you understand this issue.

ArabellaScott · 05/01/2025 08:15

On the latter point I'm sure abuse is covered up in many cases and communities.

(I cant even engage with the first point, it's made purely out of bad faith and is specious.)

I suppose OP was arguing that we can't make comparisons when we are not aware of what's been covered up. That's a fair point, but as discussed in the article, there's enough evidence that has been subsequently revealed to discuss it.

My main point was that the article is written to claim that race has nothing to do with the grooming gangs and cites a half dozen named men as 'evidence' that gangs made of white men are as prevalent as ones made of other races.

The correct way to make that comparison to discuss the point the article is attempting to make would be by using proportionality.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 05/01/2025 08:15

As ever, OP, it's a discussion forum and people are going to discuss. Much as you may like to control what is discussed and how, it doesn't work like that.

Quite.

JRSKSSBH · 05/01/2025 08:07

RayonSunrise · 05/01/2025 07:47

And the OP can discuss the article as she wishes, too. You telling her to shut up because you genuinely believe sexual abuse of women and girls never happens & gets ignored/covered up outside Muslim communities in Britain (hang on, hasn't the Archbishop of Canterbury JUST been forced to resign over CSA...?) isn't any more binding.

Stop making baseless claims, Rayon.

Zita60 · 05/01/2025 07:58

RayonSunrise · 05/01/2025 07:47

And the OP can discuss the article as she wishes, too. You telling her to shut up because you genuinely believe sexual abuse of women and girls never happens & gets ignored/covered up outside Muslim communities in Britain (hang on, hasn't the Archbishop of Canterbury JUST been forced to resign over CSA...?) isn't any more binding.

You’re claiming that @ArabellaScott “genuinely believe[s] sexual abuse of women and girls never happens”. And also that she believes it “gets ignored/covered up outside the Muslim communities in Britain”.

Surely these would be mutually contradictory beliefs? And there’s no reason to think she believes either of them.

illinivich · 05/01/2025 07:52

I dont know which world you are living in, Iwanttoretire. People are outraged about sexual abuse and cover ups when ever they are exposed and whoever perpetrates them.

The only difference is when its TV personalities or priests no one accuses the outrage of being motivated by an 'ism' and to think about "circumstances that have not been revealed".

Zita60 · 05/01/2025 07:51

RayonSunrise · 05/01/2025 07:47

And the OP can discuss the article as she wishes, too. You telling her to shut up because you genuinely believe sexual abuse of women and girls never happens & gets ignored/covered up outside Muslim communities in Britain (hang on, hasn't the Archbishop of Canterbury JUST been forced to resign over CSA...?) isn't any more binding.

But @ArabellaScott isn’t telling the OP to “shut up”. She’s just pointing out that we can all discuss it in the way we wish.

ArabellaScott · 05/01/2025 07:51

RayonSunrise · 05/01/2025 07:47

And the OP can discuss the article as she wishes, too. You telling her to shut up because you genuinely believe sexual abuse of women and girls never happens & gets ignored/covered up outside Muslim communities in Britain (hang on, hasn't the Archbishop of Canterbury JUST been forced to resign over CSA...?) isn't any more binding.

The words you are putting in my mouth here are utterly offensive and disgusting.

ArabellaScott · 05/01/2025 07:49

Where did I tell anyone to 'shut up'?

RayonSunrise · 05/01/2025 07:47

ArabellaScott · 05/01/2025 07:38

As ever, OP, it's a discussion forum and people are going to discuss. Much as you may like to control what is discussed and how, it doesn't work like that.

And the OP can discuss the article as she wishes, too. You telling her to shut up because you genuinely believe sexual abuse of women and girls never happens & gets ignored/covered up outside Muslim communities in Britain (hang on, hasn't the Archbishop of Canterbury JUST been forced to resign over CSA...?) isn't any more binding.

ArabellaScott · 05/01/2025 07:46

As for 'nobody said white men are worse', I was responding to this point in the article:

'white men are just as happy to rape and torture women and children as men of other ethnicities – possibly more so. Think of Jimmy Savile, Rolf Harris, Gary Glitter, Jeffrey Epstein, and the multitude of white men on the Epstein flight lists who have never been held to account.'

(my bold).

Citing a few named white men in this context is frankly irrelevant to the point.

What is relevant to the argument is not anecdata, but stats on the proportion of men involved in grooming gangs.

Sadly the problem is so large and common (on this point I agree with NMN) that there is enough data out there to make comparisons.

Also relevant is evidence of institutional cover up.

Perhaps read the article I linked to upthread.

None of this is 'hijacking'. It's directly responding to the NMN article and points raised in it.

Zita60 · 05/01/2025 07:45

JennyElection · 04/01/2025 23:01

If your first concern is politics rather then women you need to have a long hard look at yourself

How do you know it’s her “first concern”? I think we can take it read that we all think the abuse and its cover-up are horrific.

I think it’s perfectly relevant to point out that the Tory government also rejected a request for a public enquiry. Either there is some legal reason why Oldham council can’t request a public enquiry, or both Labour and the Tories are (or have been) unwilling to have all this properly looked at, in public.

ArabellaScott · 05/01/2025 07:38

As ever, OP, it's a discussion forum and people are going to discuss. Much as you may like to control what is discussed and how, it doesn't work like that.

IwantToRetire · 05/01/2025 02:25

illinivich · 05/01/2025 00:17

A large part of the problem with the rape gangs was/is the cover ups, the blind eyes, the lack of response due to fears of community tensions. So.the race/ethnicity of the men concerned is directly relevant, and trying to deny that is compounding the issue.

This.

No - the reality is that the cover ups go on all the time, but when it is men from ethnic communities some people are more motivated to push for some action to be taken.

Basically none of us know circumstances that have not been revealed.

The cliche about there will be responses of racism are a reflection that that would be used to try and divert from the issue.

And in the instances of abuse by white men (which is the majority, because the UK is a white majority country) other white men in positions of power aren't bothered.

And nobody has said white men are worse. The fact is all men of all races, classes, religion are as likely to be pimping as each other.

Why do you think we only hear about Muslim "rape gangs"? Because other groups of men aren't investigated in the same way.

If you dont think that, and that more men from Muslim communities are exploiting women, then it means you think Muslim men are worse.

I hadn't expected the thread to be hijacked so soon, and effectively not condescending to engage with the issues Nordic Model Now have written about.

There's already a thread for those who want to persue this rape is an enthnic minority problem.

I thought starting a new thread with a well written article would mean that as this is a feminist forum, the thread could discuss how to try and tackle the exploitation of vulnerable women in all communities around the way.

Maybe the issue isn't about some w**ker like Musk, but more that some are just waiting for an opportunity to hijack the horrendous issue of the sexual emploitation of women to score points about how men from some communities are worse that others.

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Manxexile · 05/01/2025 01:04

Evan Davis did an interesting interview on PM on Thursday 2nd January with Simon Bailey, a former Chief Constable of Norfolk and formerly the National Lead for Child Protection on the National Police Chiefs' council.

He talks about the police "tragically, egregiously, turning a blind eye" to what they must have known was happening in places like Rotherham.

The item starts at 31'42 and goes on to about 39'50"

PM - 02/01/2025 - BBC Sounds

PM - 02/01/2025 - BBC Sounds

Afternoon news and current affairs programme

https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/m002693r

Manxexile · 05/01/2025 00:56

@ArabellaScott - "... That's well documented in the Telegraph article, which I'll find a link to"

This one?

How the grooming gangs scandal was covered up

Manxexile · 05/01/2025 00:51

ArabellaScott · 04/01/2025 22:33

While the article makes some good (devastating) points about problems in the UK with pimping and prostitution and rape culture, the attempt to suggest that 'white men are worse' is badly misunderstanding the problem and is weakly made.

A large part of the problem with the rape gangs was/is the cover ups, the blind eyes, the lack of response due to fears of community tensions. So.the race/ethnicity of the men concerned is directly relevant, and trying to deny that is compounding the issue.

That's well documented in the Telegraph article, which I'll find a link to.

This ^

It's not about whether men from one culture/ethnicity are more or less likely to sexually abuse women and young girls than men from another culture/ethnicity.

The problem is that if the abusers are not white then the authorities seem to be more keen to turn a blind eye to the abuse in the name of "community cohesion", or for fear of offending a particular group. Or for fear of appearing to be racist or politically incorrect...

I see this sort of problem getting worse with the increasing propagation of DEI training - particularly in public bodies - based on "critical theory" fallacies such as "all white people are racist", "white privilege" and on unconscious bias training.

I wonder what white privilege the poor victims in Rotherham, Oxford and Telford were enjoying?

illinivich · 05/01/2025 00:17

A large part of the problem with the rape gangs was/is the cover ups, the blind eyes, the lack of response due to fears of community tensions. So.the race/ethnicity of the men concerned is directly relevant, and trying to deny that is compounding the issue.

This.

ArabellaScott · 04/01/2025 23:01

It's not just about governments. It encompasses all levels of society.

JennyElection · 04/01/2025 23:01

Itsallgonesideways · 04/01/2025 22:53

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/politics/kemi-badenoch-musk-starmer-grooming-gangs-b2672889.html

The Tories sat on this for 14 years though so it's a bit rich for them to suddenly demand an enquiry.

If your first concern is politics rather then women you need to have a long hard look at yourself

Ereshkigalangcleg · 04/01/2025 22:57

Whether "it's a bit rich" isn't really the issue, is it?

Itsallgonesideways · 04/01/2025 22:53

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/politics/kemi-badenoch-musk-starmer-grooming-gangs-b2672889.html

The Tories sat on this for 14 years though so it's a bit rich for them to suddenly demand an enquiry.