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Nordic Model Now article on Grooming Gangs

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IwantToRetire · 04/01/2025 20:15

Its frightening to think that in 2025 and beyond unaccountable male egotists will be running the world, as so many seem to think what is on social media is reality.

In response to the shit stirring by Musk, Nordic Model Now have written this statement https://nordicmodelnow.org/2025/01/03/on-grooming-gangs/

On “grooming gangs” | Nordic Model Now!

Why we should not be surprised by the grooming gangs in Rotherham and elsewhere while the government condones and facilitates an industry that profits from the similar abuse of women and girls.

https://nordicmodelnow.org/2025/01/03/on-grooming-gangs

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oatmilkchocolate · 13/01/2025 15:23

ArabellaScott · 05/01/2025 07:51

The words you are putting in my mouth here are utterly offensive and disgusting.

@RayonSunrise is wilfully misunderstanding what you are saying.

user243245346 · 13/01/2025 13:10

Ereshkigalangcleg · 05/01/2025 08:22

'white men are just as happy to rape and torture women and children as men of other ethnicities – possibly more so.

There is zero basis to claim this, I agree. Not to excuse the many terrible things white men have done to women and children, but to call out an obvious bullshit agenda-driven statement.

Absolutely. In any event, the grooming gangs were an example of rape and (at least in part racially motivated) sexual abuse of children. Often the perpetrators were not prosecuted and the crimes were covered up - partially due to the race of the perpetrators and their victims.

This should be investigated and dealt with properly. Of course there is other rape and sex abuse in the uk but that does not mean we should ignore the grooming gangs

user243245346 · 13/01/2025 13:04

Ereshkigalangcleg · 04/01/2025 22:57

Whether "it's a bit rich" isn't really the issue, is it?

Absolutely. I think we need an enquiry specifically into the grooming gangs and those who covered it up and did not act when they should have done. I personally don't care if the tories or labour supported it in the past. It needs sunlight now.

user243245346 · 13/01/2025 13:01

IwantToRetire · 04/01/2025 20:15

Its frightening to think that in 2025 and beyond unaccountable male egotists will be running the world, as so many seem to think what is on social media is reality.

In response to the shit stirring by Musk, Nordic Model Now have written this statement https://nordicmodelnow.org/2025/01/03/on-grooming-gangs/

Thanks for that. It's interesting but does seem to me to be trying to downplay the racist elements of the grooming gang abuse and cover up. Of course it's not the only type of abuse but if you truly care about abuse victims you wouldn't engage in whataboutery every time the perpetrators have an inconvenient identity and behaviour for your woke world view.

PaterPower · 13/01/2025 11:07

Ereshkigalangcleg · 13/01/2025 10:20

They have been called child rapists but in their culture a 15 year old isn't a girl. In rural Pakistan 15 year olds are married with kids.

Some of the girls were pre-teens.

There was at least one report of a seven year old and a thirteen year old being found together by police, both partially undressed, with a group of these men. The thirteen YO was arrested.

Nobody’s reported (that I’ve seen) on what happened to the 7 YO, but the assumption has to be that she was left there by the cops.

And the Police genuinely seem to scratch their heads about why the general public would put more trust in an Estate Agent than in them these days 😏

PaterPower · 13/01/2025 11:01

SuePine69 · 13/01/2025 10:05

As far as I can tell, they don't come from Bangladesh. Correct me if I'm wrong, but they seem to be of Pakistani origin and moreover from a particular part of Pakistan.

I would like to know everything about these men. What language do they speak amongst themselves? Probably not Urdu. Which mosques do they attend? Are they Deobandis or Barelvis? We already know that they come from poorer backgrounds because they seemed to be cab drivers mostly. These are all factors which might contribute to their attitudes to girls.

They have been called child rapists but in their culture a 15 year old isn't a girl. In rural Pakistan 15 year olds are married with kids.

There’s an extremely strong chance that a good proportion of these men were / are not first generation in this country.

If the ‘cultural’ (and I use that loosely in this instance) ties to a rural, socially backward and overwhelmingly misogynistic part of Pakistan are still that strong in second and third generation British citizens then we really are failing in integrating our ‘immigrant’ populations.

eatfigs · 13/01/2025 10:48

Focusing on the bigger picture is welcome but I think the authors should read this article by Julie Bindel and have a rethink about downplaying the religious and cultural aspects of these grooming gangs in particular:

https://courage.media/2025/01/03/islams-feminist-fantasy/

Islam's Feminist Fantasy

Many women seem willing to tie themselves in knots, in their efforts to believe that 'Muslim feminism' is a thing.

https://courage.media/2025/01/03/islams-feminist-fantasy

themostspecialelfintheworkshop · 13/01/2025 10:28

Ereshkigalangcleg · 13/01/2025 10:20

They have been called child rapists but in their culture a 15 year old isn't a girl. In rural Pakistan 15 year olds are married with kids.

Some of the girls were pre-teens.

True but if you live in a culture that from a young age tells you a girl is a 'woman' at 15 then presumably the idea of 'barely legal' gets pushed younger.

It's abhorrent but to argue the culture involved played no part is almost certainly wrong and we need to have that discussion openly or nothing will change. What do they teach in the citizenship classes these days? Do they cover how it's illegal and wrong to force any female to have sex and also the age of consent?.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 13/01/2025 10:20

They have been called child rapists but in their culture a 15 year old isn't a girl. In rural Pakistan 15 year olds are married with kids.

Some of the girls were pre-teens.

SuePine69 · 13/01/2025 10:05

OssomMummy1 · 11/01/2025 08:57

Doesn't matter. They are not from Nepal, Bhutan, Sri Lanka, Myanmar, Thailand, Laos, Cambodia, Vietnam, China, Japan, Korea or India. They are from either Pakistan or Bangladesh. Let's call the spade a spade and nothing else.

The "White" guilt of brutality from colonial era has gone too far and has clouded the conscious of brits. Labour are using it to enhance their vote banks. That is why they have even postponed the local government elections because they were certain that defect is inevitable as their leader, STUCK FARMER, is incompetent to the core.

As far as I can tell, they don't come from Bangladesh. Correct me if I'm wrong, but they seem to be of Pakistani origin and moreover from a particular part of Pakistan.

I would like to know everything about these men. What language do they speak amongst themselves? Probably not Urdu. Which mosques do they attend? Are they Deobandis or Barelvis? We already know that they come from poorer backgrounds because they seemed to be cab drivers mostly. These are all factors which might contribute to their attitudes to girls.

They have been called child rapists but in their culture a 15 year old isn't a girl. In rural Pakistan 15 year olds are married with kids.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 11/01/2025 12:53

It looks like you are a Labour candidate for the next local government election, which has been indefinitely postponed by your leader, STUCK FARMER.

You missed the point I was making. I'm not a Labour supporter, no.

OssomMummy1 · 11/01/2025 08:57

SuePine69 · 08/01/2025 11:21

I agree with you but maybe we can hone in on the cultural aspect. There are different ethnic groups in Pakistan. Many Pakistanis in Britain came from a particular area of rural Pakistan.

Doesn't matter. They are not from Nepal, Bhutan, Sri Lanka, Myanmar, Thailand, Laos, Cambodia, Vietnam, China, Japan, Korea or India. They are from either Pakistan or Bangladesh. Let's call the spade a spade and nothing else.

The "White" guilt of brutality from colonial era has gone too far and has clouded the conscious of brits. Labour are using it to enhance their vote banks. That is why they have even postponed the local government elections because they were certain that defect is inevitable as their leader, STUCK FARMER, is incompetent to the core.

OssomMummy1 · 11/01/2025 08:52

Ereshkigalangcleg · 04/01/2025 22:57

Whether "it's a bit rich" isn't really the issue, is it?

It looks like you are a Labour candidate for the next local government election, which has been indefinitely postponed by your leader, STUCK FARMER.

SuePine69 · 08/01/2025 11:21

LaDeeDaDeeDa · 07/01/2025 11:25

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STARMER TALKING ABOUT GROOMING GANGS .
He describes " Many of them being Asian "
They most certainly are not .

Asia covers a huge number of different Nationalities the majority of them have absolutely no connection with Grooming Gangs .

The truth is -- Many of them are actually of Pakistani Origin . But Starmer won't say this because simply put - he's a fkin coward.

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I agree with you but maybe we can hone in on the cultural aspect. There are different ethnic groups in Pakistan. Many Pakistanis in Britain came from a particular area of rural Pakistan.

ArabellaScott · 07/01/2025 19:13

Wow, well found, Rethinking!

RethinkingLife · 07/01/2025 14:48

Chaotically, the discussion that I recalled was in the Rozzers thread. Be prepared for historical discussion along with thoughts about abandoning Christmas dinner preparation and what books people would read when they were arrested.

www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/4967923-everyone-scarper-the-rozzers-are-coming?page=10&reply=131682737

LaDeeDaDeeDa · 07/01/2025 11:25

.
STARMER TALKING ABOUT GROOMING GANGS .
He describes " Many of them being Asian "
They most certainly are not .

Asia covers a huge number of different Nationalities the majority of them have absolutely no connection with Grooming Gangs .

The truth is -- Many of them are actually of Pakistani Origin . But Starmer won't say this because simply put - he's a fkin coward.

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RethinkingLife · 07/01/2025 10:33

Nothing is likely to change for our most marginalised girls and young women

I wish I could locate the other thread that I mentioned earlier. Posters gave quotations/contributions in there from C19 discussions in which men were arguing for the right to initiate their sons to sex by taking them to young prostitutes and that was part of the basis for their objection to raising the age of consent.

This feels like an ongoing history of no change.

frenchnoodle · 07/01/2025 09:46

IwantToRetire · 05/01/2025 02:25

No - the reality is that the cover ups go on all the time, but when it is men from ethnic communities some people are more motivated to push for some action to be taken.

Basically none of us know circumstances that have not been revealed.

The cliche about there will be responses of racism are a reflection that that would be used to try and divert from the issue.

And in the instances of abuse by white men (which is the majority, because the UK is a white majority country) other white men in positions of power aren't bothered.

And nobody has said white men are worse. The fact is all men of all races, classes, religion are as likely to be pimping as each other.

Why do you think we only hear about Muslim "rape gangs"? Because other groups of men aren't investigated in the same way.

If you dont think that, and that more men from Muslim communities are exploiting women, then it means you think Muslim men are worse.

I hadn't expected the thread to be hijacked so soon, and effectively not condescending to engage with the issues Nordic Model Now have written about.

There's already a thread for those who want to persue this rape is an enthnic minority problem.

I thought starting a new thread with a well written article would mean that as this is a feminist forum, the thread could discuss how to try and tackle the exploitation of vulnerable women in all communities around the way.

Maybe the issue isn't about some w**ker like Musk, but more that some are just waiting for an opportunity to hijack the horrendous issue of the sexual emploitation of women to score points about how men from some communities are worse that others.

What possible circumstances could possible be reviled that make this any better?

OneAmberFinch · 07/01/2025 09:35

And an "amusing" footnote -

Nothing is likely to change for our most marginalised girls and young women while the entire British establishment is condoning, monetising, and facilitating the kind of behaviour for which significant numbers of Pakistani men were eventually convicted. If they had been white-collar white British men, the chances are they would have been welcomed in the House of Lords.

Like Baron Ahmed of Rotherham, perhaps?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/01/2025 09:21

A better response is "seems there's a pattern here, perhaps we can use our knowledge of this pattern to more quickly identify future cases and to come up with strategies to infiltrate or disrupt these trust networks"

This.

OneAmberFinch · 07/01/2025 09:09

Shortshriftandlethal · 06/01/2025 08:28

That must surely involve accepting ( and naming) the issues within certain sections of the Pakistani community and addressing those issues at source?

I like the work of Nordic Model Now, and I think they make excellent points in this article about the way prostitution & porn normalisation have played a part. But I agree it's a mistake to ignore or downplay the ethnic/cultural lens here. It's not just about the "political correctness stopped it being seen" angle, although that is relevant: I do believe there are different patterns in the way the Rotherham-style primarily Pakistani gangs operate and find each other and cover for members of their community.

It would be like hearing, "We've found that men who went to private schools are vastly overrepresented as grooming gang perpetrators. It seems they're recruiting each other via their tight alumni networks, and they've got alumni from their schools in positions of trust in the community such as police, councils etc, who are regularly covering for their old school dorm mates when they come under threat of discovery/prosecution. Survivors say that when they tried to go to the press, they were pushed aside as editors feared damaging the reputation of Britain's world-leading private school system. Although they only make up 7% of the population, they were involved in 28% of cases; state school students in 30% of cases; the educational history unknown for the remainder."

And then writing a headline saying "STATE SCHOOL STUDENTS MOST LIKELY TO BE GROOMING GANG RAPISTS".

A better response is "seems there's a pattern here, perhaps we can use our knowledge of this pattern to more quickly identify future cases and to come up with strategies to infiltrate or disrupt these trust networks".

Shortshriftandlethal · 06/01/2025 08:28

JoanOgden · 05/01/2025 08:44

I'm baffled by the demands for yet another inquiry. We've had several inquiries and know pretty well what happened and why. What we need is a robust system for ensuring it never happens again, alongside proper monitoring so we can identify and address these crimes as early as possible.

That must surely involve accepting ( and naming) the issues within certain sections of the Pakistani community and addressing those issues at source?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 05/01/2025 21:37

ArabellaScott · 04/01/2025 22:33

While the article makes some good (devastating) points about problems in the UK with pimping and prostitution and rape culture, the attempt to suggest that 'white men are worse' is badly misunderstanding the problem and is weakly made.

A large part of the problem with the rape gangs was/is the cover ups, the blind eyes, the lack of response due to fears of community tensions. So.the race/ethnicity of the men concerned is directly relevant, and trying to deny that is compounding the issue.

That's well documented in the Telegraph article, which I'll find a link to.

Here's Arabella's post. She was clearly criticising the article, which she has every right to do.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 05/01/2025 21:36

She didn't scold you, you had a go at her first.

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