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Secret signals

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LionsAndTigersAndBearsOhMy1 · 29/12/2024 12:38

I bought a mug a few years ago which I like to think is simultaneously entirely innocent and also a bit of a signal to those ‘in the know’ that they are not alone.

it’s a mug in green and white and purple (scandalous)

I’d quite like to add to my collection of ‘secret signals’ but not quite brave enough to get the scarf.

Any suggestions?

Please be as specific or nebulous as you like with an understanding that not all those who read this thread are friendly forces.

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AstonsGerbil · 31/12/2024 11:52

Can anyone remember the name of the artist that made jewellery in shape of fallopian tubes? Sounds odd but it was beautifully made. She wrote a blog post over the rainbow (I think, not 💯 sure). I think I will save and get something like that for myself. If I can find her website again!

UtopiaPlanitia · 31/12/2024 00:08

MarieDeGournay · 30/12/2024 19:57

Other dinosaurs had vocal structures that are similar to those found in modern birds. The Vegavis, a bird-like dinosaur, had a vocal organ known as a syrinx that is responsible for bird songs and calls. This suggests that the Vegavis may have made sounds that were similar to those made by modern birds.
What Did Dinosaurs Really Sound Like? - Dinosaur Dictionary
Dino-whistles😂

I’m a child of the 70s, I can’t get my head around feathered, colourful, whistling dinosaurs. Or that brontosaurus isn’t a name we use any more 😭😭

On the other hand, I love dinosaurs and I love Terfing so I see some little pins and badges in my future to add to my key ring and mug.

MarieDeGournay · 30/12/2024 19:57

RoyalCorgi · 30/12/2024 10:46

What we're talking about here is what the TRAs term "dog-whistles", right?

The one problem with dog whistles is that if everyone can hear them, they're not really a dog whistle. And if no one can hear them, they're pointless. How you reach a stage where the dog whistle is only identifiable to people on the same team, but not anyone else, is a conundrum it's probably beyond me to solve.

Other dinosaurs had vocal structures that are similar to those found in modern birds. The Vegavis, a bird-like dinosaur, had a vocal organ known as a syrinx that is responsible for bird songs and calls. This suggests that the Vegavis may have made sounds that were similar to those made by modern birds.
What Did Dinosaurs Really Sound Like? - Dinosaur Dictionary
Dino-whistles😂

RunoroundTheChristmasTree · 30/12/2024 11:06

Definitely going to get some dinosaur jewellery in 2025 - links appreciated 😁

RunoroundTheChristmasTree · 30/12/2024 11:05

I think it’s not so much about non-terfs not being able to recognise the signs, as plausible deniability if the shit hits the fan!

RoyalCorgi · 30/12/2024 10:46

What we're talking about here is what the TRAs term "dog-whistles", right?

The one problem with dog whistles is that if everyone can hear them, they're not really a dog whistle. And if no one can hear them, they're pointless. How you reach a stage where the dog whistle is only identifiable to people on the same team, but not anyone else, is a conundrum it's probably beyond me to solve.

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 30/12/2024 10:32

NeverDropYourMooncup · 29/12/2024 20:42

That's all very well, if it means TRAs exposing themselves, but what happens to the person suddenly the subject of their ire and potentially having to deal with their captured organisation HR department?

They're not going to believe 'I just like dinosaurs' if it's then possible for screenshots of FWR discussing the secret symbols to be presented in a disciplinary - if they've been employed for over two years, before that they could just be terminated without ever knowing why.

Wow, overreact much, a person who like dino's enough to put one on their desk will be able to convince even the most dim witted HR officer that they genuinely like dino's because they will be able to reel off a long list of dino specie's eg T Rex, Stegosaurus, Diplodocus, Stegosaurus. They might even be able to show them a picture of a wall clock they brought from the Natural History Museum. 😁🦖

teentantrums · 30/12/2024 09:00

@IamAporcupine I wouldn't worry about that. Everyone recognises them as suffragette colours whereas ime they have so many different flags they can't keep track!

TheCourseOfTheRiverChanged · 30/12/2024 06:06

ArabellaScott · 29/12/2024 21:32

Terfosaurus and the Suffragettes v DEI

Oh I so want to go to that MC battle!!

SinnerBoy · 29/12/2024 21:41

Francesgumm · Today 15:20

I also wear my woman adult human female sweatshirt all the time on Zoom work meetings (work from home full time) - particularly if the other person (s) have pronouns after their name .

I'm enjoying the thought of A&E visits for aneurysms after your meetings!

ArabellaScott · 29/12/2024 21:32

Terfosaurus and the Suffragettes v DEI

NoBinturongsHereMate · 29/12/2024 20:50

They're not going to believe 'I just like dinosaurs'

Dinosaurs are popular They'd have to show that only TERFs like them - which is plainly nonsense. And if they then use it as reason for dismissal they're bang to rights for discrimination.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 29/12/2024 20:42

JellySaurus · 29/12/2024 17:21

Commonly known on MN FWR as Operation Let Them Speak.

That's all very well, if it means TRAs exposing themselves, but what happens to the person suddenly the subject of their ire and potentially having to deal with their captured organisation HR department?

They're not going to believe 'I just like dinosaurs' if it's then possible for screenshots of FWR discussing the secret symbols to be presented in a disciplinary - if they've been employed for over two years, before that they could just be terminated without ever knowing why.

BathTangle · 29/12/2024 20:04

I have a pair of Dinny Hall earrings in suffragette colours, where the profits from the sales go to Women's Aid. Feels like a pretty act of rebellion!

IamAporcupine · 29/12/2024 20:00

I have a dinosaur pin and HP top.
i was going to buy a suffragette lanyard but then realised that the colours have also been stolen by the genderqueer flag 🤬

I was super happy to find out at our Xmas do a few weeks ago that two colleagues are GC. I had absolutely no idea.

Calling · 29/12/2024 19:05

I have two coasters with historic suffragette posters on.

Tallisker · 29/12/2024 18:51

Let me show you my gorgeous beaded and very tactical/covert lanyard, @MaggieBsBoat

www.etsy.com/uk/listing/767198206/

MaggieBsBoat · 29/12/2024 17:26

I’ve loved more posts on this thread than any other, ever.
I‘m buying one of everything!

JellySaurus · 29/12/2024 17:21

NeverDropYourMooncup · 29/12/2024 17:18

Might be a bit shit for other employees that just happen to like dinosaurs/wear green or purple dresses if the TRAs in the workplace round on them for 'displaying secret symbols of Terfdom'.

Commonly known on MN FWR as Operation Let Them Speak.

JellySaurus · 29/12/2024 17:19

I've been looking at these. Forgot to put them on my list, and can't really justify buying them so soon after Christmas. Next birthday...

People look twice when you wear mismatched earrings, sometimes they ask about them...oh, they're suffragette colours...conversation develops.

www.sallylees.com/products/new-dawn-suffragette-earrings

NeverDropYourMooncup · 29/12/2024 17:18

Might be a bit shit for other employees that just happen to like dinosaurs/wear green or purple dresses if the TRAs in the workplace round on them for 'displaying secret symbols of Terfdom'.

Swamphag · 29/12/2024 17:18

I have a "Deeds not Words" tattoo

ArabellaScott · 29/12/2024 17:14

I find identifying myself as a feminist is usually enough.

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