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Trans remembrance flags and SNP renews support for LGBTYS

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WandsOut · 26/12/2024 22:57

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14226129/Trans-remembrance-flags-flown-public-buildings.html

What is going on here.
Why are they so determined to support LGBTYS and trans young people - who is driving this?

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FrippEnos · 29/12/2024 18:31

IwantToRetire · 29/12/2024 17:50

Just to repeat but in a different way what I said at the start of this thread.

Why is Scotland, or any where else deciding that trans issues are important when (as many have suggested) there are any number of communities who dont get the recognition.

And in the instance of women, has anyone seen any council, government or whatever fly a flag of rememberance for women on the International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women. Women are killed in their homes, when walking down roads to get home, and are the first victims in areas of war and famine.

That is what this is about.

What sort of statement does that say to the community as a whole. That only some violent deaths are important.

And, as said earlier, what message is Scotland thinking it is sending by promoting one group above all others.

It is ridiculous and insulting.

Just to add to this

Is there any actual evidence of trans people being a marginalised group?

When you see footage of Trans people marching there is rarely any group of people vocally abusing them, yet when you look at let women speak you can see actual violence and abuse being hurled at the speakers.

The same goes for toilets, is there any evidence that they are unsafe in men's toilets or is it just feels?
There is a lot of evidence that women are not as safe from trans women as some would have us believe with some trans women attacking women in toilets and plenty of YouTube videos by the trans lobby threatening people with violence if they are prevented from using women's toilets.

But we are just supposed to ignore this?

IwantToRetire · 29/12/2024 17:50

Just to repeat but in a different way what I said at the start of this thread.

Why is Scotland, or any where else deciding that trans issues are important when (as many have suggested) there are any number of communities who dont get the recognition.

And in the instance of women, has anyone seen any council, government or whatever fly a flag of rememberance for women on the International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women. Women are killed in their homes, when walking down roads to get home, and are the first victims in areas of war and famine.

That is what this is about.

What sort of statement does that say to the community as a whole. That only some violent deaths are important.

And, as said earlier, what message is Scotland thinking it is sending by promoting one group above all others.

It is ridiculous and insulting.

SkiingonKaraSea · 29/12/2024 17:28

Shortshriftandlethal · 29/12/2024 10:53

And i suspect that one murder involved an intimate partner...and was not a random street attack.

If I remember correctly at least two were murdered by transgender partners, others were murdered for drug debts. None due to ‘transphobia’.

SinnerBoy · 29/12/2024 14:52

It was the "promotion" which was forbidden, not any mention.

CrossPurposes · 29/12/2024 14:17

Christinapple · 29/12/2024 11:14

"Party supports LGBT+ people and rights"

What do you want, a return to section 28 when even mentioning the topic was forbidden at schools?

Not at all true. Maybe you'll read what Peter Tatchell had to say in 1998: www.petertatchell.net/lgbt_rights/section28/hype/

Yes, section 28 was absolutely homophobic but the topic was never forbidden in schools.

Hoardasurass · 29/12/2024 13:56

SparklyTurtle · 28/12/2024 16:46

The fact that transgender people are victims of violence is not a bold claim it is true. As evidenced by the link.

I didn't say that that there were definitely trans deaths in Scotland, I said there were trans deaths in Europe as a whole and it cannot be asserted that none of these were in Scotland. You can't know because the statistics on transgender people being murdered are not officially recorded.

A total of nine trans people were murdered in the UK between 2008 and 2017 using unofficial data according to 4 news. That’s an average rate of one victim per year. Again the UK is not Scotland but does include it so you can't say no Scottish trans people have been murdered truthfully without any evidence.

But as I said, even if it is not in Scotland it's on the doorstep so why should Scotland not care about this issue?

Nothing I have said is untrue. You just decided it is because you didn't like what I said.

Every single 1 of those deaths can be named and their place of death is recorded none were in Scotland. Oh and we do keep records of trans murders in Scotland as was admitted in the Scottish Parliament by the then justice secretary humza yousef. So please stop trying to twist facts to paint a false narrative of trans murders in Scotland when none have ever occurred. Trans people are the only group never to have been murdered in Scotland and as such are the safest and have no right to a flag being flown or a day of remembrance but women and children do

Rainuntilseptember15 · 29/12/2024 13:43

Christinapple · 29/12/2024 11:14

"Party supports LGBT+ people and rights"

What do you want, a return to section 28 when even mentioning the topic was forbidden at schools?

This doesn't reflect what teaching was actually like in the 90s. I was never prevented from teaching about homophobia, for example.

Hoardasurass · 29/12/2024 13:38

SparklyTurtle · 28/12/2024 12:21

Not true. Granted the statistics in the article only mention Europe as a whole but you can't categorically state that no one in Scotland has been killed.

https://www.forbes.com/sites/jamiewareham/2024/11/16/350-transgender-people-murdered-in-2024-will-the-violence-ever-end/

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Yes we can there has be zero recorded murders of transgender persons in Scotland since records began

PinkoPonko · 29/12/2024 13:35

The SNP can pay lip service to the alphabet soup all they want, but we all know how most same-sex attracted people and women who question the Gender Identity Cult are treated.

SinnerBoy · 29/12/2024 13:28

Christinapple · Today 11:14

What do you want, a return to section 28 when even mentioning the topic was forbidden at schools?

Mention of homosexuality wasn't forbidden. It was covered on more than one occasion, when I was at high school, during the 80s.

Greyskybluesky · 29/12/2024 12:22

Christinapple · 29/12/2024 11:14

"Party supports LGBT+ people and rights"

What do you want, a return to section 28 when even mentioning the topic was forbidden at schools?

Where are you quoting from?

AstonScrapingsNameChange · 29/12/2024 12:10

Shortshriftandlethal · 29/12/2024 11:05

You can create a 'community' out of any shared characteristic. Why not have a community of those whose homes have been destroyed by flooding; or perhaps one for men over the age of 60 with autism; or one for business owners whose businesses were destroyed by the lockdown?

Each group can have a flag and a motto - to really solidify their group identity.....and then they can each demand additional funding from the government to deal with their particular disadvantage; plus maybe better representation in films and TV and more favourable treatment by the mainstream media - resulting in their unique special needs being recognised and validated. New laws could be created to punish anyone who makes light of their particular suffering......

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This, with bells on!

AstonScrapingsNameChange · 29/12/2024 12:08

sadmillenial · 29/12/2024 10:53

But it does happen during pride month with rainbow/progress flags? and there is also usually an official response during other special "days" (black history, holocaust memorial, int day of the child, etc) for groups who dont have flags that are so recognisably associated with them so flying a flag would be inappropriate?

This isnt a pile on, im not trying to put words in anyones mouth! i just dont see the issue with this particular decision

OK, so you are lumping celebrations (pride, black history , etc) in with memorials?

Can you see that even in this conversation we have an issue, which is defining what, exactly, we are talking about and why.

The issue was that some people believe, myself included, that there is no need for a public memorial to something that didn't happen.

I can't believe you're now suggesting that because holocaust Memorial day is remembered by some organisations, we should remember the trans non genocide?

Can you not see that by conflating the two, you yourself are giving credence to the false 'trans genocide' narrative?

Dear God it's like pulling teeth. Don't they teach critical thinking in schools these days?

MarieDeGournay · 29/12/2024 11:22

Nobody condones murder, and all violent deaths are tragedies to the loved ones of the deceased. So SparklyTurtle's
'Wow, an open admission that people here don't care about violence against transgender people because people speak up against transphobia.'
is unsubstantiated.

The issue is the flying of a flag on public buildings to commemorate a group or event. The range of permitted flags is restricted by planning regulations, as a PP pointed out.

I'm not a UK subject, so it's not my call, but I'd be quite happy for The Town and Country Planning (Control of Advertisements) (England) Regulations 2007 to be enforced strictly. So no pride, progress or trans flags on public buildings full stop.

But according to SparklyTurtle
Civilised nations have been flying flags, remembering people of oppressed groups and standing against discrimination for years. Why should the transgender people murdered for being transgender be any different?
and seems to be answering that question with 'because, wow, transphobia'.

Here are three more realistic answers :

  1. transgender people are not an oppressed group in Scotland.
  2. transgender people are not officially discriminated against in Scotland.
  3. there have been no recorded cases of people being murdered for being transgender in Scotland.
Christinapple · 29/12/2024 11:14

"Party supports LGBT+ people and rights"

What do you want, a return to section 28 when even mentioning the topic was forbidden at schools?

Shortshriftandlethal · 29/12/2024 11:05

sadmillenial · 29/12/2024 10:53

But it does happen during pride month with rainbow/progress flags? and there is also usually an official response during other special "days" (black history, holocaust memorial, int day of the child, etc) for groups who dont have flags that are so recognisably associated with them so flying a flag would be inappropriate?

This isnt a pile on, im not trying to put words in anyones mouth! i just dont see the issue with this particular decision

You can create a 'community' out of any shared characteristic. Why not have a community of those whose homes have been destroyed by flooding; or perhaps one for men over the age of 60 with autism; or one for business owners whose businesses were destroyed by the lockdown?

Each group can have a flag and a motto - to really solidify their group identity.....and then they can each demand additional funding from the government to deal with their particular disadvantage; plus maybe better representation in films and TV and more favourable treatment by the mainstream media - resulting in their unique special needs being recognised and validated. New laws could be created to punish anyone who makes light of their particular suffering......

Shortshriftandlethal · 29/12/2024 10:53

Reetpetitenot · 29/12/2024 07:11

'A total of nine trans people were murdered in the UK between 2008 and 2017 using unofficial data according to 4 news. That’s an average rate of one victim per year. Again the UK is not Scotland but does include it so you can't say no Scottish trans people have been murdered truthfully without any evidence.'

By your figures therefore trans people are far less likely to be murdered than any other group..

Surely if a trans person had been murdered in Scotland, TRAs would be hollering from the rooftops? Yet there's not a peep.

And i suspect that one murder involved an intimate partner...and was not a random street attack.

sadmillenial · 29/12/2024 10:53

AstonScrapingsNameChange · 29/12/2024 10:40

And asking why - when it's not done for any other community, save for war veterans (which is obviously right and appropriate as they have their lives for others).

Asking why does not mean the asker thinks the group are awful people/ deserve to die/ whatever other words you want to put in our mouths.

It's a genuine question. Because comemoratiing this thing that doesn't happen lends weight to the false narrative that trans people are more at risk from violence and suicide than other groups and therefore need special treatment (women's rights) because they have such a hard time.

I don't understand why you can't see this false narrative at work. Perhaps the cognitive dissonance is too painful.

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But it does happen during pride month with rainbow/progress flags? and there is also usually an official response during other special "days" (black history, holocaust memorial, int day of the child, etc) for groups who dont have flags that are so recognisably associated with them so flying a flag would be inappropriate?

This isnt a pile on, im not trying to put words in anyones mouth! i just dont see the issue with this particular decision

AstonScrapingsNameChange · 29/12/2024 10:50

That was a reply to sadmillenial.

We could have a suicide day of remembrance, like we do for baby loss.

But if you're going to start subdividing that into each subcategory like trans, where does it end? We'd be having them all the time and that weakens the impact.

The government are supposed to equally represent everyone, not just certain privileged groups. That's how democracy is supposed to work.

AstonScrapingsNameChange · 29/12/2024 10:40

And asking why - when it's not done for any other community, save for war veterans (which is obviously right and appropriate as they have their lives for others).

Asking why does not mean the asker thinks the group are awful people/ deserve to die/ whatever other words you want to put in our mouths.

It's a genuine question. Because comemoratiing this thing that doesn't happen lends weight to the false narrative that trans people are more at risk from violence and suicide than other groups and therefore need special treatment (women's rights) because they have such a hard time.

I don't understand why you can't see this false narrative at work. Perhaps the cognitive dissonance is too painful.

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 29/12/2024 10:26

sadmillenial · 29/12/2024 07:39

My understanding of this is that the flags are flown on transgender day of remembrance, not permanently? have i misunderstood?

Im always very wary of arguments that pit different groups against each other, like an earlier post that questioned why this happened and there wasn't a similar public gesture for drug addiction/deaths or VAWG. I don't think that's the most useful way to frame the argument; personally, id rather have all of those groups properly represented and advocated for! we should be pushing our politicians to work harder on these issues, as Jess Philips has been doing for years, but i dont see the benefit in framing is as "you dont do it for this, so dont do it for that"

also, just to add that the day of remembrance is for all transgender people who have lost their lives. This of course includes victims of violence but also includes those who took their own lives or who lost their lives through addiction, etc. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5178031/

i dont think you have to be a TRA to empathise with one day of remembrance being allocated for a community?

But why? You don't think it's insane to be "remembering" things that just aren't happening in this country?

There are vanishingly few deaths to violence around the world. There is very little evidence of excess suicidality.

RufustheFactuaIReindeer · 29/12/2024 10:16

SparklyTurtle · 28/12/2024 14:28

I paraphrased to shorten the paragraph. The sentiment is the same.

If paraphrasing turns sensible people against a minority that regularly faces discrimination, they are not good people.

How you have the audacity to lie about someones post being ‘not caring’ and then post No I'm not scouring the internet to look for information that places one of recorded deaths in the article linked in Scotland, because I have better things to spend my time on Ive no idea 😳

BonfireLady · 29/12/2024 10:06

SparklyTurtle · 28/12/2024 16:48

I never said Scott specifically died of violence, you've made that up.

So if criminals don't deserve the same respect as the rest of society why are we supposed to care about the women he's in prison with?

Unless it's got nothing to do with the fact he's a criminal and it's just because he's trans that you have a problem with his death actually mattering of course?

I don't tend to pass comment on pronoun usage these days but I'm curious...

Why are you using "he" pronouns for Tiffany Scott?

TheCourseOfTheRiverChanged · 29/12/2024 09:23

SparklyTurtle · 28/12/2024 16:48

I never said Scott specifically died of violence, you've made that up.

So if criminals don't deserve the same respect as the rest of society why are we supposed to care about the women he's in prison with?

Unless it's got nothing to do with the fact he's a criminal and it's just because he's trans that you have a problem with his death actually mattering of course?

"So if criminals don't deserve the same respect as the rest of society why are we supposed to care about the women he's in prison with?
Unless it's got nothing to do with the fact he's a criminal and it's just because he's trans that you have a problem with his death actually mattering of course?"
Is child-stalker-gender a bit like rapist-gender, then?

GailBlancheViola · 29/12/2024 08:59

Excellent posts TalkingintheDark.