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Eyresandgraces · 21/12/2024 15:45

Women really should be boycotting the US as a place to visit.
Americans hate women having free choice as much as Iranians do they just hide it better.

StopGo · 21/12/2024 15:42

menopausalmare · 20/12/2024 20:07

Before they start executing women, how about a national vasectomy programme 🤔

How about skipping the vasectomy and going straight to castration ?

FlirtsWithRhinos · 21/12/2024 15:37

I hate how a liberal (in the original British meaning) country like the UK is picking up culture war divisions from the US, a completely different culture, through social media tribalism. Calling this stuff "viral" was very well named, it infects us and makes our societies weak and sick.

Letsgodancing · 21/12/2024 15:32

This is horrendous, unfortunately over here in the UK, reform have made a few noises against abortion, and Elon musk might be giving them a big donation so I can see it could potentially become a topic over here within the next 10 years maybe not as extreme as the USA but still concerning.
I saw a tiktok of Tucker Carlson (well known in the US, he even interviewed Putin a while back ) saying people should be having kids as young as possible, even in high school - this is really disturbing but he has many followers on the US and can be in an influential position.
They want gilead some of them and I feel for the women in these states, ironically these men enforcing these rules are some of the worst of the lot what they do in their personal lives !

FictionalCharacter · 21/12/2024 15:27

Echobelly · 20/12/2024 18:22

One of the many things that makes me furious about this is also the way miscarriage will get drawn in and you just know the men behind this understand nothing about it. I bet you anything if you asked them about miscarriage and how often it occurs they'd be all 'Oh well it's very rare isn't it, and it only happens if the mother does something wrong like drink or drugs'. They'll have no clue that about 25-30% end in miscarriage in the first twelve weeks and that it's nothing to do with what the mum does or doesn't do.

And that's without all the fertilised eggs that fail to develop and never come close to implantation.

But they'll find crackpot "doctors" to support them and come out with some kind of crap blaming women.

Remember the "doctors" who told GWB that if a pregnant woman says she's raped she's lying, because rape causes the body to "shut down" the process of pregnancy?

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe · 21/12/2024 15:19

It will go through. Maybe not immediately but eventually it will. I never, ever thought Roe -v- Wade would be repealed. Angry

Chariots77 · 21/12/2024 15:15

popeydokey · 21/12/2024 14:38

And you think your refusal would be listened to? Sad

Sad how true this is...

SerendipityJane · 21/12/2024 15:14

I was replying to a post about the religious nuts who won't abort to save the mother's life, not the religious nuts who want to execute women for having abortions.

I think the key here - especially in relation to the US, is what do men say about what the bible says ? There is a strong streak of fundamentalism in the US about sticking to the absolute letter of sacred texts wherever it confers an advantage to the right wing.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Originalism

Originalism - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Originalism

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FlirtsWithRhinos · 21/12/2024 15:06

Feelsomuchbetter · 21/12/2024 13:37

But execution is the deliberate taking of a life ? How would they justify this ??

I was replying to a post about the religious nuts who won't abort to save the mother's life, not the religious nuts who want to execute women for having abortions. I guess you must have replied before I edited it to clarify.

(But clearly, the latter group make a distinction between an individual chosing to kill when they are not obliged to (sin) and killing when acting as an agent of the state/church in punishment or military action.)

SerendipityJane · 21/12/2024 14:48

Chariots77 · 21/12/2024 01:53

What the actual fuck? So basically the USA hates women. If I lived in America I'd absolutely refuse to have sex, ever.

I can see a future where merely knowing this (let alone posting it) would attract a penalty for "knowledge useful to a terrorist".

A cursory knowledge of the ancient world - Greece, Sparta, Athens as well as Rome and Egypt would help to settle a lot of people. As the bible says, and my DM loved to say: , "There is nothing new under the sun"

On a more serious note, if you exempt rape within marriage in law, then you pretty much neutralise this tactic. Unless South Carolingian women are keen second amendmentists

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lysistrata

Lysistrata - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lysistrata

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popeydokey · 21/12/2024 14:38

Chariots77 · 21/12/2024 01:53

What the actual fuck? So basically the USA hates women. If I lived in America I'd absolutely refuse to have sex, ever.

And you think your refusal would be listened to? Sad

SerendipityJane · 21/12/2024 14:36

Imagine going through life knowing your mother was executed for you.

Well, seems some folk soon won't have to imagine.

I wonder if this bill has been sponsored by a reality TV outfit with a long term project ?

I guess there's also money to be made from putting the babies of executed mothers up for adoption. I wonder if we'll see a trend for pretty intelligent women being executed more often than statistics would suggest ?

I suspect my weird edge is showing now.

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LonginesPrime · 21/12/2024 14:03

As we see on these forums all the time, many people have black and white thinking while lacking a sense of proportion. They’ll find this type of logic irresistible, and that’s before you even get to those who are primarily motivated by misogyny.

Yes, that makes sense, unfortunately. It's insane how easily misogyny seeps through into every aspect of our lives with no-one even noticing because it's already so commonplace.

LonginesPrime · 21/12/2024 13:58

NoBinturongsHereMate · 21/12/2024 13:46

the foetus has not had the chance to sin

I'm not sure that stacks up with Christian doctrine. The foetus has original sin, and hasn't been cleansed of it by baptism.

Surely that would make the effect of abortion even worse in the eyes of someone who believes in original sin and the power of baptism, though?

I'm no expert but I've always understood original sin to be a very different type of sin from sins one commits, at least in Catholicism.

NoBinturongsHereMate · 21/12/2024 13:46

the foetus has not had the chance to sin

I'm not sure that stacks up with Christian doctrine. The foetus has original sin, and hasn't been cleansed of it by baptism.

Feelsomuchbetter · 21/12/2024 13:37

FlirtsWithRhinos · 21/12/2024 13:20

It'a pretty simple logic. The woman dying is an act of god but the abortion is a deliberate choice to take a life ie a sin. I don't agree with them but that is the thinking. (ETA - referring here to the religious nuts who won't abort a pregnancy to save the mother, not the religious nuts who want to execute woemn who have abortions)

Beyond that, the whole thing is based on the belief that if something bad has to happen, better to save a soul without sin than one with. Since the foetus has not had the change to sin yet it always wins against a human with a lived life. They prefer the potential of perfection implied by a tabula rasa than the messy compromises of existing in the world.

This is also why they don't care what happens to the "saved" kids after birth. Birth takes them from perfect clean slate to messy needy human, and the longer they live the more tainted and less worthy of consideration they become.

Edited

But execution is the deliberate taking of a life ? How would they justify this ??

FlirtsWithRhinos · 21/12/2024 13:20

mach2 · 21/12/2024 09:05

I read years ago that the religious nuts thought it far better for the mother to die than for an abortion to take place. I'm not remotely tolerant enough to even try to understand this.

It'a pretty simple logic. The woman dying is an act of god but the abortion is a deliberate choice to take a life ie a sin. I don't agree with them but that is the thinking. (ETA - referring here to the religious nuts who won't abort a pregnancy to save the mother, not the religious nuts who want to execute woemn who have abortions)

Beyond that, the whole thing is based on the belief that if something bad has to happen, better to save a soul without sin than one with. Since the foetus has not had the change to sin yet it always wins against a human with a lived life. They prefer the potential of perfection implied by a tabula rasa than the messy compromises of existing in the world.

This is also why they don't care what happens to the "saved" kids after birth. Birth takes them from perfect clean slate to messy needy human, and the longer they live the more tainted and less worthy of consideration they become.

redalex261 · 21/12/2024 10:15

It's not surprising this bill has been introduced and co-sponsored by these extreme individuals - any member of a state house can introduce any mad bill they want, there's no guarantee a bill will ever become law.

The real question is how do these nutters get elected into office in the first place?

Upstartled · 21/12/2024 09:40

What does it take to introduce a bill in South Carolina - can you just get any old radical lawyers put in a bill to see if it will fly or does it have to pass a sniff test first?

ErrolTheDragon · 21/12/2024 09:37

But they don't seem to even really want those children, do they?

Feelsomuchbetter · 21/12/2024 09:30

Oh dear. Are they really that incredibly stupid. To go on and on about human life being so precious and doing all they can to protect what they see as unborn children yet are pushing forward with plans to kill human women ? So it is precious and yet it’s also not ? Basically they want the children but not the mothers. How sickening.

Hadalifeonce · 21/12/2024 09:25

So if the foetus inside me, in law, is an individual in its own right, why can I not evict it, as its being a parasite, taking anything it wants from me? If this was an 18 year old, plenty of people would say 'make it stand on its own 2 feet'

ErrolTheDragon · 21/12/2024 09:14

The basic right to not be forced to give up your body to another is paramount. But it isn’t centred in this debate.

Exactly that.

mach2 · 21/12/2024 09:05

I read years ago that the religious nuts thought it far better for the mother to die than for an abortion to take place. I'm not remotely tolerant enough to even try to understand this.