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RedToothBrush · 19/12/2024 17:26

Hoardasurass · 19/12/2024 17:00

Your not on hrt your on cross sex hormones be honest with yourself atleast, that way you can be realistic about your riak of complications

If someone isn't honest that cross sex hormones are not hrt I don't think I'd give a lot of time to their thoughts on medicalisation of children...

Helleofabore · 19/12/2024 17:16

Receiving exogenous hormones that are not what a person's body was formed around producing is not HRT at all. Posters are quite correct in pointing this out. It is indeed more accurate to refer to them as Cross Sex Hormones.

However, it is quite clear that the use of this inaccurate and misleading language, calling such drugs 'HRT' is mean to not only be convincing that this is a 'woman' receiving the correct drugs for their sex category, but also it is forced teaming and now it is being used for coercion.

The 'you will not be satisfied with the potential outcomes' is clearly meant to be a threat that if we seek to ban male people from receiving the oestrogen and progesterone supplements designed to alleviate symptoms of menopause, that we will end up blocking our own supply.

There really is no tactic that extreme trans activists will not stoop too to force their demands to be met.

And it is always rather illustrative for people to read.

Hoardasurass · 19/12/2024 17:00

ButterflyHatched · 19/12/2024 12:35

None of that has anything to do with puberty blockers.

20 years of oral HRT is well documented as being an increased risk factor for various health issues. Anyone who takes oral HRT for 20 years will experience this elevated risk.

I have since been moved to a safer form of HRT with a significantly reduced risk, which I have now been on for several years.

You have continually misquoted me for years on this point. I have clearly and unambiguously clarified it many, many times. I am clearly and unambiguously clarifying it here again.

If you want to start a campaign to ban oral HRT then be my guest. I wouldn't recommend it personally as I think you will not be satisfied with the potential outcomes.

Your not on hrt your on cross sex hormones be honest with yourself atleast, that way you can be realistic about your riak of complications

RedToothBrush · 19/12/2024 16:10

MrsOvertonsWindow · 19/12/2024 15:55

Indeed. I've been listening to Andrew Gold's Heretics where he interviewed Dr Az Hakeem (consultant psychiatrist /psychotherapist who dealt with adults with gender dysphoria) who spoke with great insight about a range of issues. At one point he spoke about "trans facts" versus "real facts" and the fantasy world that so many of his patients immersed themselves in.
It's a long listen but with some fascinating insights:

x.com/AndrewGold_ok/status/1869147637271912933

The fantasy world that so many trans activists are immersed in is something that has always interested me because of the large numbers who are also obsessive about gaming, gaming, fantasy or sci-fi (the Whoniverse is a particularly interesting one).

These interests are massively over represented.

There's this weird disconnect between how the world sees and self identity generally too. It's not restricted to sex/gender identity. It's a whole cognitive pattern.

Unfortunately, regardless of how you identify reality has this nasty habit of disagreeing with you.

Dissociation is the key point.

Indeed we know there are bunch of dissociation disorders. These do not have demands for us to affirm their dissociation though.

https://www.nhs.uk/mental-health/conditions/dissociative-disorders/#:~:text=Symptoms%20of%20dissociative%20disorder%20can,uncertain%20about%20who%20you%20are

nhs.uk

Dissociative disorders

Dissociative disorders are a group of conditions where you may feel disconnected from reality. Find out more, including where to get help.

https://www.nhs.uk/mental-health/conditions/dissociative-disorders#:~:text=Symptoms%20of%20dissociative%20disorder%20can,uncertain%20about%20who%20you%20are

DrBlackbird · 19/12/2024 16:02

Datun · 18/12/2024 20:20

Well I just did a thumbs up on someone's post, and it now says, under the post on the reaction button, 'agree'.

I just got used to saying thank you!

I preferred the old ‘thank you’. These emojis feel a bit … adolescent. Sigh.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 19/12/2024 15:55

Theeyeballsinthesky · 19/12/2024 15:37

As always after reading any thread with Butters fingers all over it, I’m convinced that they are a deep state double agent GC activist. Everything they post does our work for us

Indeed. I've been listening to Andrew Gold's Heretics where he interviewed Dr Az Hakeem (consultant psychiatrist /psychotherapist who dealt with adults with gender dysphoria) who spoke with great insight about a range of issues. At one point he spoke about "trans facts" versus "real facts" and the fantasy world that so many of his patients immersed themselves in.
It's a long listen but with some fascinating insights:

x.com/AndrewGold_ok/status/1869147637271912933

niadainud · 19/12/2024 15:48

ButterflyHatched · 18/12/2024 11:01

That man has been responsible for the destruction of so many lives and is one of the main reasons that the UK is now decried by human rights organisations worldwide for not providing healthcare to transgender youth.

Hate hides behind kind words and a veneer of benevolence, and the way he has shamelessly weaponised the complex difficulties of vulnerable detransitioners is nothing short of chilling.

He'll get away with it, too. He and his fellow cabal of anti-trans zealots who infested our healthcare system will never face justice for the immense harms they have caused. They've denied the kids who follow in my footsteps a future and are busy doing everything in their power to isolate themselves from the consequences.

Follow in your footsteps? How very humble of you to frame it in such a way. In fact, you use the word "chilling"...

It infuriates me that trans people are just as erroneously convinced that they are denied treatment purely because of medics' self-interest and bigoted views as people with DSDs are convinced they were given treatment purely because of medics' nefarious agenda.

It couldn't possibly be that these doctors do not have a vested interest and are simply using their training and experience to judge what they think will result in the best outcome for the patient.

RedToothBrush · 19/12/2024 15:44

career-making big break

Oddly though David Bell was not alone in his concerns. A number tried to whistleblow and they suffered the typical fate of whistleblowers. It was more or less career killing. They had nothing to gain by speaking and everything to lose.

Not only this, but the Tavistock then managed to demonstrate, when asked about long term outcomes and follow up that it had a 'dog ate my homework' attitude to this.

And it got closed down due to a number of safeguarding failures. It didn't get closed down purely due to David Bell.

Then we had a independent review by Hilary Cass. But once again this is somehow explained away by smears.

It's almost as if there's a pattern of incompetence by those carrying out 'gender affirming care' rather than transphobia.

Shortshriftandlethal · 19/12/2024 15:41

ButterflyHatched · 19/12/2024 12:41

Calling them 'Wrong sex hormones' does not reflect well on the seriousness with which you seem to be treating this subject.

HRT is an actual thing...meant to replace naturally occuring hormones that have declined after female menopause - not the prescription of cross sex hormones to those whose bodies do not naturally produce them.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 19/12/2024 15:37

As always after reading any thread with Butters fingers all over it, I’m convinced that they are a deep state double agent GC activist. Everything they post does our work for us

Shortshriftandlethal · 19/12/2024 15:35

ButterflyHatched · 19/12/2024 01:23

He never actually treated childhood Gender Incongruence, never worked in GIDS and in fact worked on adults in a completely different department in a completely different building.

He has presented a story where a group of transphobes and conversion therapists who had infiltrated the organisation over time met with him in secret and presented their 'concerns'. In truth, these were largely historical issues from disgruntled ideologues about the more chaotic early days of the service alongside a rising tide of reactionary transphobic rhetoric - much of which was espoused by staff who had found their growing hostility toward softening cultural attitudes toward trans people and the neutrality of a 'trans outcome' to be incompatible with a service that centred a compassionate policy of epistemic justice.

A dubious doom-laden report was submitted by him to the Board of Directors,
which the trust identified as comprising a list of historical issues which had already been addressed and inciting even greater abuse toward existing staff. He was threatened with disciplinary action and then quit rather than be fired.

He has since been lionised by the reactionary press alongside two prominent conversion therapists - one of whom used to work in GIDS but left when it became clear her views weren't compatible with actually providing meaningful treatment to the children she'd been charged with helping.

You'll find most of the rhetoric surrounding GIDS is hopelessly naïve, often involving highly confused timelines that shift events and schools of thought around by whole decades at a time, and clearly focussed more toward building a sensational and spicy story that will drive headlines than it is toward accurately reflecting the true events.

Truth is often the first casualty when a hack with an agenda catches a whiff of a career-making big break.

" transphobes and conversion therapists had infiltrated the organisation"

You do realise how conspiratorial and unhinged this sounds? The people you are talking about are people who had been working in children's services their whole career; some of whom were gay, and were actually concerned that gay children were having "conversion therapy' practised upon them; sometimes in thrall to homophobic parents

RedToothBrush · 19/12/2024 15:18

It really doesn't matter what field of medicine it is, when arguments becomes emotively and ideologically driven that's when you should be concerned.

Any area of medicine which refers to emotional appeals is vulnerable to abuses of power and unethical practice. It is a recipe for harm and it is a recipe for conditions to enable a medical scandal.

Interestingly women's health tends to be subject to this more than mens - and that's down to power imbalances.

Time and again when it comes to medical scandals you see children, the disabled and women the most likely to be victims.

There is a whole history of stuff done to autistic kids in the name of advancing medicine which has actually been an abuse and has harmed those involved.

But god forbid we talk about this and why ethical practice was adopted in the first place, because otherwise we might destroy the lives of tranchildren who would benefit from scientific unproven treatments which stunt their development and then when asked for long term studies on how children who have undergone these treatments we are met with a tumbleweed and yet more about the woes of grown male adults who transitioned as adults.

lcakethereforeIam · 19/12/2024 15:10

I'm sure I read a pp calling Dr Bell transphobic. That is not only wildly inaccurate, and potentially libellous, I'd argue it's a completely 180 to how Dr Bell has acted towards children and adults who have found themselves on the GIDs trans conveyor belt. Saying 'no', saying 'let's be sure', saying 'these children deserve sound treatment' is not hatred. To say otherwise is...well...it seems to me a bit Dr Bellphobic.

RedToothBrush · 19/12/2024 14:42

MrsOvertonsWindow · 18/12/2024 12:24

You're a much nicer person than I am @BonfireLady . What I've seen is a
poster spending countless hours on a site designed for parents & to offer them support who repeatedly challenges the need to safeguard children. On this thread they dismiss the research and evidence that's exposed the scandal of "gender affirming" medical treatment for children. They've repeatedly posted conspiracy theories about suicide and children that must cause great distress to many parents.

I'm sure Dr Bell could shed light on why they post so many offensive comments about women (bigots, ant trans etc) on a site where women speak. But I'd hazard a guess that someone "at peace with themselves" wouldn't spend so many hours on here throwing accusations at women and parents seeking to protect our and other people's children.

I could of course be wrong.

You forget to mention the good dollop of emotional blackmail and manipulative language to try and guilt people into accepting the idea of gender affirming care because lack of it 'destroys so many lives'. There's nothing like a good swipe at women is there?

But it comes without a single thought the documented harms particularly for detransitioners and the issue that treatment may be a psychological crutch which just causes problems anyway even for those who think it works.

They want Dr Bell to shut up rather than to have an adult discussion about this. Because if they do then their sunk costs might force them to face up to reality and being the victim of unethical practice and that would never do.

Because ultimately it's not about the 'poor kids who won't get treatment' it's about the self. Any every other fucker here can see the children involved are just pawns in the politics of adults.

Anyone who gave a shit about children would encourage evidence based medicine, recognised ethical practice and open debate even in areas of controversy without all this smearing.

When ethical practice and research become ugly words to be denied and replaced by emotive language you know you someone who isn't a responsible adult worth listening to.

SinnerBoy · 19/12/2024 14:25

ButterflyHatched · Today 01:23

The only part of that particular post which was not utterly wrong was your correct conjunction of the verb "to comprise."

Hoardasaurus made a very comprehensive refutation of every single one of your emotive propaganda points.

Datun · 19/12/2024 14:12

ButterflyHatched · 19/12/2024 12:35

None of that has anything to do with puberty blockers.

20 years of oral HRT is well documented as being an increased risk factor for various health issues. Anyone who takes oral HRT for 20 years will experience this elevated risk.

I have since been moved to a safer form of HRT with a significantly reduced risk, which I have now been on for several years.

You have continually misquoted me for years on this point. I have clearly and unambiguously clarified it many, many times. I am clearly and unambiguously clarifying it here again.

If you want to start a campaign to ban oral HRT then be my guest. I wouldn't recommend it personally as I think you will not be satisfied with the potential outcomes.

I'm not misquoting, I'm cutting and pasting.

The vast majority of children on puberty blockers end up taking wrong sex hormones. The treatments are intertwined.

and it's not HRT.

ScrollingLeaves · 19/12/2024 14:12

There is a body dysmorphia disorder where people want to be disabled, or to cut off a limb.

Doctors are clear about ‘First do no harm’ in these cases.

PriOn1 · 19/12/2024 13:55

ButterflyHatched · 19/12/2024 01:37

Thankyou for the concern. I will admit that it is incredibly, witheringly psychologically taxing to continue fighting for the future of kids who are in much the same situation I was and have had their futures cruelly torn away by what amounts to little more than ideological posturing in many cases. To do so in the face of seething hostility, page after page, day after day, for several years at this point while watching the world steadily nose dive directly into reactionary transphobic populism has definitely taken its toll.

I don't do this for fun. I could be watching the rest of Black Doves or blowing off steam with a fun boardgame or videogame, or a lovely new book - but instead I'm desperately trying to salvage some hope for the future. Because it's still worth fighting for. I'm not ready to give up.

If any of this ends up meaning that even one child gets a ray of hope where before things seemed hopeless - and they have been pretty fucking unrelentingly hopeless since 2020 at this point - then it will have been worth it.

Thankyou.

This forum is largely a place where informed women come to keep up to date with what’s currently happening in relation to the pushback of women against the transactivist agenda.

What do you think your posts achieve? Is your intent to disrupt the women’s discussions? If so, you are quite successful.

If you are genuinely interested in fighting for what you believe and persuading people your cause is righteous and worth fighting for, then posting here is an absolute waste of your time and you would indeed be better off watching TV or playing games.

RedToothBrush · 19/12/2024 13:09

ButterflyHatched · 18/12/2024 11:01

That man has been responsible for the destruction of so many lives and is one of the main reasons that the UK is now decried by human rights organisations worldwide for not providing healthcare to transgender youth.

Hate hides behind kind words and a veneer of benevolence, and the way he has shamelessly weaponised the complex difficulties of vulnerable detransitioners is nothing short of chilling.

He'll get away with it, too. He and his fellow cabal of anti-trans zealots who infested our healthcare system will never face justice for the immense harms they have caused. They've denied the kids who follow in my footsteps a future and are busy doing everything in their power to isolate themselves from the consequences.

Correction: A man who understands ethics.

HTH

lcakethereforeIam · 19/12/2024 13:06

I've not read the full thread but, considering the woeful failures of the physicians and staff, who actually works in the GID, kudos to Dr Bell for putting his career and reputation on the line to do what they couldn't or wouldn't.

NewGreenDuck · 19/12/2024 13:02

ButterflyHatched · 19/12/2024 12:41

Calling them 'Wrong sex hormones' does not reflect well on the seriousness with which you seem to be treating this subject.

But it's not replacing a hormone is it?

ScrollingLeaves · 19/12/2024 13:00

lcakethereforeIam · 19/12/2024 12:39

Wrong sex hormones aren't HRT.

Quite.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 19/12/2024 12:50

ButterflyHatched · 19/12/2024 12:41

Calling them 'Wrong sex hormones' does not reflect well on the seriousness with which you seem to be treating this subject.

The subject of the thread is Dr David Bell - so thanks for the bump and here's a Sky News interview with him discussing the dangers of socially transitioning children:

news.sky.com/video/affirming-a-childs-wish-to-change-gender-completely-wrong-dr-david-bell-13112054

lcakethereforeIam · 19/12/2024 12:44

What? Accurately?

ButterflyHatched · 19/12/2024 12:41

lcakethereforeIam · 19/12/2024 12:39

Wrong sex hormones aren't HRT.

Calling them 'Wrong sex hormones' does not reflect well on the seriousness with which you seem to be treating this subject.

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