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Intersex

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Tootsurly · 03/12/2024 18:52

Bit of a thought experiment, plus curious as to how much people know about intersex conditions / DSDs.

This is slightly Black Mirror, although not totally beyond the realms of possibility. If there ever came a point where anything specifically related to being male or female required a DNA test to determine your sex before participating, what would happen to intersex people whose chromosomes didn't match their outward appearance (i.e. genotype and phenotype don't match)?

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Soontobe60 · 03/12/2024 23:01

Tootsurly · 03/12/2024 20:35

What really concerns me (and pisses me off) is that the majority of intersex people I know are rabid TRAs. I don't think that does us any favours at all.

Id hazard a guess that the majority of them also do not have a DSD, but just self identify as having one.

Soontobe60 · 03/12/2024 22:59

Waitwhat23 · 03/12/2024 20:33

Argh!, thanks for the reminder - Dr Emma Hamilton

Hilton

SilverChampagne · 03/12/2024 22:58

MyrtleStrumpet · 03/12/2024 22:56

Except they should still be checked for male diseases. Generally they discover their chromosomes at puberty and it should be handled sensitively. If I met the OP I would refer to her as she and her and describe her as a woman. Indeed I would probably not know that she has a DSD unless she told me. I'm not saying that I would start referring to her as a man or him once I knew.

I have a friend who is a trans-identifying woman. I only knew him as a man until he told me that he was trans. Though once I knew, it was obvious. I don't refer to him as she or her even though he is female because it's not polite. But I would very much encourage him to be checked for female cancers etc.

My point is that we have to use language carefully in the right context. I would refer to my trans friend as a woman and use female pronouns if I didn't know him as a friend, but I generally refer to trans-identifying people by their natal sex pronouns.

In what way is he female?

MyrtleStrumpet · 03/12/2024 22:56

theilltemperedqueenofspacetime · 03/12/2024 22:37

I agree, and don't see how they can ever be men, because they are incapable of going through male puberty.

Except they should still be checked for male diseases. Generally they discover their chromosomes at puberty and it should be handled sensitively. If I met the OP I would refer to her as she and her and describe her as a woman. Indeed I would probably not know that she has a DSD unless she told me. I'm not saying that I would start referring to her as a man or him once I knew.

I have a friend who is a trans-identifying woman. I only knew him as a man until he told me that he was trans. Though once I knew, it was obvious. I don't refer to him as she or her even though he is female because it's not polite. But I would very much encourage him to be checked for female cancers etc.

My point is that we have to use language carefully in the right context. I would refer to my trans friend as a woman and use female pronouns if I didn't know him as a friend, but I generally refer to trans-identifying people by their natal sex pronouns.

Tootsurly · 03/12/2024 22:44

Soontobe60 · 03/12/2024 22:40

It’s pretty offensive to use an outdated term that used to indicate that a person was ‘between’ male and female. And yes, the sex of a person is entirely based on their chromosomes. Flat chested women are not male, men with moobs are not female. Men in dresses are not female. Men who are only 5 ft tall are not female…

Ok, in that case I am very offended.

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Garlicwest · 03/12/2024 22:42

theilltemperedqueenofspacetime · 03/12/2024 20:42

What is your rationale for letting in people with Swyer Syndrome and not people with CAIS? They are both XY, but neither goes through male puberty. The former have Müllerian structures but no ovaries, and need exogenous œstrogen to mature. The latter have internal Wolffian structures that do not produce spermatozoa, and go through female puberty spontaneously (by T conversion) resulting in a normal female body and genitals. Both are infertile. Are you distinguishing purely on gestational capability?

Good question - and remember this is a personal daydream, I'm not setting national policy for anything!

Because it seems to me that CAIS is not always complete. I don't know how many of the people designated CAIS but clearly showing some masculine development have lied about it or been lied to, neither do I know how easy it is to test for levels of insensitivity. (I don't need to know.)

There's also the fact that women are not androgen insensitive. I have an online friend with CAIS; she says she's more 'feminine' than XX women in certain ways, and I believe her. It does mark her out from genetic women, though, because we have experiences related to the fluctuations & variations of natural testosterone in our bodies.

Swyer Syndrome's a more straightforward case in my view. Many women here would disagree with me on that. I understand why.

~ I'm aware I've used female pronouns for my CAIS acquaintance. Like most people, I use the words that feel right to me in personal situations. I would not do this in detached discussion because words do have meanings!

Soontobe60 · 03/12/2024 22:40

Tootsurly · 03/12/2024 19:10

So the sex of an individual is entirely their chromosomes and nothing to do with their external presentation or there internal organs?

And btw, intersex is not intrinsically offensive as a term.

It’s pretty offensive to use an outdated term that used to indicate that a person was ‘between’ male and female. And yes, the sex of a person is entirely based on their chromosomes. Flat chested women are not male, men with moobs are not female. Men in dresses are not female. Men who are only 5 ft tall are not female…

theilltemperedqueenofspacetime · 03/12/2024 22:37

Moonbark · 03/12/2024 22:31

Socially I would refer to them as women and girls but they are men and boys.

I would say a sentence like this must be very upsetting and confusing to some people with particular XY DSDs who have identified as women and girls their whole life and only go on to discover they are genetically male when they encounter issues at puberty or with infertility.

I agree, and don't see how they can ever be men, because they are incapable of going through male puberty.

Soontobe60 · 03/12/2024 22:35

Tootsurly · 03/12/2024 19:00

Do you know what the other two are? I guess hormones is one of them?

In my dystopian imagined State, cheek swabs would be taken before entry was allowed to any single-sex function, but a strip search would be rather invasive.

Perhaps people with DSDs would have to carry exemption cards or something.

A person would only know they had a DSD if they had been tested for it either very soon. After birth or, as more often happens, at the expected time of puberty. Once tested, they would then know what sex they are. Male or female. Why would they need and exemption card?

Moonbark · 03/12/2024 22:31

Socially I would refer to them as women and girls but they are men and boys.

I would say a sentence like this must be very upsetting and confusing to some people with particular XY DSDs who have identified as women and girls their whole life and only go on to discover they are genetically male when they encounter issues at puberty or with infertility.

Namechangeforobviousreasons100 · 03/12/2024 22:28

Tootsurly · 03/12/2024 19:50

Thank you for clarifying.

on the other hand, there are many people who regard themselves as having an intersex variation, and do not like being described as having a DSD

MyrtleStrumpet · 03/12/2024 22:27

Waitwhat23 · 03/12/2024 20:44

I don't think she studies the development of beetles generally - I think she is just fond of beetles. She's not an entomologist.

She is not fond of beetles. See my previous post.

MyrtleStrumpet · 03/12/2024 22:26

elozabet · 03/12/2024 20:40

I have seen a post where she explained her username but no, she doesn't study beetles.

Studies genetic disease. You can find her details online.

It's a phrase used by someone who either accompanied Darwin or about Darwin himself. He was fond of beetles.

BonfireLady · 03/12/2024 22:23

I don't have particularly strong feelings about the term "intersex", although I do agree there's really no such thing. (I have much stronger feelings about its inclusion in the gender identity alphabet soup.)

Sounds like a sensible position to take. Agreeing there's no such thing is the important bit. When facts get lost, that's where it goes wrong.

My TERF views don't tend to go down terribly well and Helen Joyce is seen as the devil incarnate or worse.

I can imagine!

Yes, I have SS. It's shitty, but perhaps not so bad as some of the other variations.

I can't imagine Swyer is easy.

I would agree with PPs that there are a few circles on this thread. However, as you say, you're not an expert in DSDs.

Dr Emma Hilton is a great person to follow on the whole subject of DSDs. She did a great job deconstructing the topic during the Olympics. The main focus was 5-ARD, because of the prevalence of males with this DSD in women's sport, but she also covered Swyer, Turner's, CAIS, PAIS and more. Most of it unfolded on X and lots of us were asking questions. Lots of it got pulled in to MN threads.

MyrtleStrumpet · 03/12/2024 22:20

Tootsurly · 03/12/2024 19:23

I'm certainly not going to quibble with Prof Winston. The reason for this (I think) is that foetuses are female by default, so if the SRY gene is faulty they don't (can't) become male.

Foetuses are either female or male depending on whether the sperm that fertilised the egg had an X or Y chromosome. X is female, making XX with the egg, Y is male, making XY with the egg.

The sperm and egg are gametes and there are only two gametes.

The phenotype that produces the smaller gamete, the sperm, is male and the phenotype that produces the larger gamete, the egg, is female. There are only two sexes male and female.

Thus there are only two systems or pathways that can be followed.

This doesn't stop there being diversity at the foetal level. Within male and female there is wide variation of anatomy, physiology and behaviour. Some of the variation results in additional chromosomes which are disorders or differences of sexually development.

One example which may help explain some of the confusion:
There are male humans with XY chromosomes who are partially or completely insensitive to testosterone. They will look like girls and develop like girls but often find out they are boys when they don't have periods, they have short vaginas or vaginas that end in no cervix and have no uterus. This is very distressing. Socially I would refer to them as women and girls but they are men and boys.

I won't go into any further detail here but check out @FondOfBeetles on X/Twitter for detailed discussions about DSDs.

Lovelyview · 03/12/2024 22:02

A lot of people with DSDs object to being included in the alphabet salad. Stonewall recently put this on their website.
'Stonewall works with intersex groups to provide its partners and stakeholders information and evidence about areas of disadvantage experienced by intersex people but does not, after discussions with members of the intersex community, include intersex issues as part of its current remit at this stage.'

Tootsurly · 03/12/2024 21:31

JanefromLondon1 · 03/12/2024 21:28

I have. Sounds like you were trying to be clever and catch people out but then realised we're all quite knowledgeable from the replies posted and ever since you've been talking yourself round in circles.

Eh? Are you sure you've read the full thread?

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JanefromLondon1 · 03/12/2024 21:28

I have. Sounds like you were trying to be clever and catch people out but then realised we're all quite knowledgeable from the replies posted and ever since you've been talking yourself round in circles.

Tootsurly · 03/12/2024 21:18

JanefromLondon1 · 03/12/2024 21:01

Did you live under a rock during the olympics?

RTFT. Or at least my posts.

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Tootsurly · 03/12/2024 21:17

BonfireLady · 03/12/2024 20:57

Hi OP, I'll admit I completely misunderstood your reason for posting initially.

There have been people who come to this board with gotchas/provocative posts where they conflate DSDs with gender identity.

I've now RTFT and can see that this is something you've spotted too and are equally as annoyed by it but for very different, and very personal, reasons.

It's interesting that you use the term intersex. I avoid doing that because there's no such thing as "between the sexes".

Re your own DSD, do you have Swyer?

Thanks for your kind post.

I don't have particularly strong feelings about the term "intersex", although I do agree there's really no such thing. (I have much stronger feelings about its inclusion in the gender identity alphabet soup.) It's commonly used in the "community" so I just go along with that, but a lot of them have their own agenda and (imo) want to be seen as special and different, so are very happy to promulgate the idea of being "between" and of 1.7% of people being intersex - and half of them are trans and/or queer, etc., etc. My TERF views don't tend to go down terribly well and Helen Joyce is seen as the devil incarnate or worse.

Yes, I have SS. It's shitty, but perhaps not so bad as some of the other variations. I don't have to dilate my vagina, for one.

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theilltemperedqueenofspacetime · 03/12/2024 21:13

Time to wheel out the Ainsworth paper!

https://www.nature.com/articles/518288a

Lots of people hate it because it gets misused by TRAs, particularly the last sentence.

But that sentence is only about people with DSDs, whose sense of their gender can usefully inform their selection of treatment options. It's irrelevant for everyone else, including 'trans' people.

PS I think OP's question could be answered by reference to whether someone has gone through male puberty or not, because that's the source of the problems of aggression, fairness, safety etc. So, do karyotype testing then apply exemptions on a case by case basis?

Sex redefined - Nature

The idea of two sexes is simplistic. Biologists now think there is a wider spectrum than that.

https://www.nature.com/articles/518288a

JanefromLondon1 · 03/12/2024 21:01

Did you live under a rock during the olympics?

Waitwhat23 · 03/12/2024 20:59

SnakesAndArrows · 03/12/2024 20:56

Dr Emma Hilton.

Sorry, tired and making mistakes!

SnakesAndArrows · 03/12/2024 20:58

Waitwhat23 · 03/12/2024 20:44

I don't think she studies the development of beetles generally - I think she is just fond of beetles. She's not an entomologist.

It’s a quotation from JBS Haldane, who was a geneticist, like Dr Hilton.

BonfireLady · 03/12/2024 20:57

Hi OP, I'll admit I completely misunderstood your reason for posting initially.

There have been people who come to this board with gotchas/provocative posts where they conflate DSDs with gender identity.

I've now RTFT and can see that this is something you've spotted too and are equally as annoyed by it but for very different, and very personal, reasons.

It's interesting that you use the term intersex. I avoid doing that because there's no such thing as "between the sexes".

Re your own DSD, do you have Swyer?