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Tootsurly · 03/12/2024 18:52

Bit of a thought experiment, plus curious as to how much people know about intersex conditions / DSDs.

This is slightly Black Mirror, although not totally beyond the realms of possibility. If there ever came a point where anything specifically related to being male or female required a DNA test to determine your sex before participating, what would happen to intersex people whose chromosomes didn't match their outward appearance (i.e. genotype and phenotype don't match)?

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theilltemperedqueenofspacetime · 04/12/2024 19:09

I understood that skeletal feminisation is possible if the exposure is started at a young-enough age

That's interesting. I would struggle to believe this happens.

I was partly basing this on CAIS individuals, who have feminised skeletons (under the influence of aromatised endogenousT). But I don't think boys should be given œstrogen deliberately, so the point is moot.

WarmingClothesontheRadiator · 04/12/2024 19:03

‘Cis’ is offensive, it relegates men and women to subsets of their own class and infers that women or men are defined by regressive sex stereotypes.

Tootsurly · 04/12/2024 18:57

WarmingClothesontheRadiator · 04/12/2024 17:27

Of course they did. It was written specifically to appeal to them.

One of them, despite being a heterosexual, cis man whose disorder doesn't make him female in the slightest, is practically wetting himself with excitement at the prospect of being his own special sex.

I realise I sound a bit disparaging, but it's honestly relentless and I'm fed up of the TRA rhetoric.

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Tootsurly · 04/12/2024 18:54

ChaChaChooey · 04/12/2024 18:22

Both of my kids have diagnosed ‘disorders’ btw (one has ADHD and ASD, the other has an extremely rare Immune Disorder, so rare that naming it is practically a self dox) but neither is intrinsically less valuable as a person due to that disorder.

Renaming their conditions to take the disorder bit out wouldn’t improve their lives, so I personally believe it’s better to explain the medical meaning of disorder and work on emotional resilience skills.

Fannying about with language makes it seem like something is being done whilst disguising a lack of actual action.

Personally I'm really not bothered by the "disorder" part of the term DSD. I mean it is a disorder, patently, and I wish I didn't have it, but calling it something different isn't going to change anything.

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Tootsurly · 04/12/2024 18:51

JanesLittleGirl · 04/12/2024 18:44

@Tootsurly Flowers

I obviously don't know how old you are but you come across as as a wonderful young woman.

Haha! Thank you.

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JanesLittleGirl · 04/12/2024 18:44

@Tootsurly Flowers

I obviously don't know how old you are but you come across as as a wonderful young woman.

ChaChaChooey · 04/12/2024 18:22

Both of my kids have diagnosed ‘disorders’ btw (one has ADHD and ASD, the other has an extremely rare Immune Disorder, so rare that naming it is practically a self dox) but neither is intrinsically less valuable as a person due to that disorder.

Renaming their conditions to take the disorder bit out wouldn’t improve their lives, so I personally believe it’s better to explain the medical meaning of disorder and work on emotional resilience skills.

Fannying about with language makes it seem like something is being done whilst disguising a lack of actual action.

ChaChaChooey · 04/12/2024 18:15

The DSD campaigners I know often prefer ‘Difference’ or ‘Variation’ to ‘Disorder’.

I am somewhat sympathetic to the psychological aspect of being a person with a disorder but at the same time it’s a medical descriptor, not a value judgement on the person who has it.

Disease
Disorder
Condition
Syndrome

https://www.verywellhealth.com/disease-vs-disorder-5092243

’Intersex’ is meaningless medically and meaningless socially, because so many transgender identifying people claim to be ‘intersex’.

Whereas the conditions grouped together as DSDs have medical definitions and cannot be meaningfully claimed by individuals without the physical traits that lead to the various diagnoses.

Disease vs. Disorder: What Is the Difference?

The terms "disease," "disorder," "condition," and "syndrome" are often used interchangeably in conversation, but they have different medical definitions. Learn the meaning and implications of each.

https://www.verywellhealth.com/disease-vs-disorder-5092243

Rainbowandgrey · 04/12/2024 18:04

WarmingClothesontheRadiator · 04/12/2024 17:06

You need to RTFT. You might learn something,

What is wrong with what I said?

Waitwhat23 · 04/12/2024 17:49

The Sex Redefined article and the infographic which many of us have seen before are mentioned, as is Dr Emma Hilton (dear God, I hope I've got her name and title right this time, unlike last night!) in this article -

https://www.realityslaststand.com/p/sex-is-not-a-spectrum

Sex Is Not a Spectrum

Claims that ‘sex is a spectrum’ rely on fundamental misunderstandings about the nature of biological sex.

https://www.realityslaststand.com/p/sex-is-not-a-spectrum

Tootsurly · 04/12/2024 17:37

kittykarate · 04/12/2024 17:28

Even the author herself says that there are only 2 sexes.

https://x.com/ClaireAinsworth/status/888365994577735680

I can't say what she was meaning to express in that article, but she hasn't redefined sex in any way. So even if you have 'feminine characteristics' you are still one sex or the other.

That is brilliant! Thank you for sharing.

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Tootsurly · 04/12/2024 17:32

BonfireLady · 04/12/2024 17:26

Are you in the US? (A PP mentioned that it's not considered offensive there)

There seem to be some differences between the UK and US on terms that are considered offensive. I think I'm right that retard and retarded aren't offensive terms in the US when talking about people with learning difficulties. They very much are here.

No, in the UK.

I am purely going by the terminology that everyone I know uses, which is almost exclusively "intersex" rather than "DSD". The organisation which facilitates gatherings where I met most of these people uses the term intersex, everyone uses it informally, people who are "out" use it in their bios and even the WA group has "intersex" in the title.

There is a very vocal core group who like not being considered "normal" and don't like being considered "disordered", so I'm sure that has a lot to do with it.

I'm not that bothered, but I am very bothered indeed by being conflated with trans.

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kittykarate · 04/12/2024 17:28

Tootsurly · 04/12/2024 17:04

Even the author herself says that there are only 2 sexes.

https://x.com/ClaireAinsworth/status/888365994577735680

I can't say what she was meaning to express in that article, but she hasn't redefined sex in any way. So even if you have 'feminine characteristics' you are still one sex or the other.

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WarmingClothesontheRadiator · 04/12/2024 17:27

Tootsurly · 04/12/2024 17:21

Thank you. I assume you're saying this from a position of having studied this area?

All the TRAs in the intersex group are of course jumping up and down with glee having read it.

Of course they did. It was written specifically to appeal to them.

Tootsurly · 04/12/2024 17:26

BonfireLady · 04/12/2024 17:22

I'm curious as to what I've said that's circular.

TBF, I accidentally did it myself. I asked you if you knew at birth or "at puberty" about your DSD. Which makes me a bit of an idiot... given I'd just been talking about lack of puberty on exactly this subject i.e. in Swyer (and CAIS). Thank you for taking my numpty comment in good faith.

I will RTFT and pull out what didn't make sense from my POV. Others have already called some of it out.

I don't profess to have a full working knowledge of DSDs. I just learned a shit load during the Olympics because it was such a door opener of a topic. Watching males with 5-ARD punch women in the face, with the president of the IOC auditioning for some kind of Gaslighter of the Year competition was next level dystopia. It was a peak peaking opportunity to call out some of the utter madness that much of the world is still wrapped in. Thankfully several big GB Olympic names stepped out of the shadows to call it out publicly e.g. Barry McGuigan, Nicola Adams, Mark Forster and Matthew Pinsent. Obviously Sharron Davies and Martina Navratilova had been doing so before this too.

I hadn't really expected there to be so many very knowledgeable people on here - I'm far more used to coming across comments from people who know nothing other than the usual uninformed cliches about hermaphroditisim etc, so I was perhaps a bit prejudiced in my expectations!

There's a lot of knowledge on this board. There's also a lot of caution and sceptism. Especially around Swyer in particular. Nobody knows who anyone is online so prejudice is part of the deal.

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Well I just assumed you meant "at the time you would ordinarily have gone through puberty" or "at the time your peers were going through puberty".

ETA: Why scepticism around Swyer's in particular?

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BonfireLady · 04/12/2024 17:26

Tootsurly · 04/12/2024 17:23

It may be convenient, but that doesn't stop it being true.

Are you in the US? (A PP mentioned that it's not considered offensive there)

There seem to be some differences between the UK and US on terms that are considered offensive. I think I'm right that retard and retarded aren't offensive terms in the US when talking about people with learning difficulties. They very much are here.

Tootsurly · 04/12/2024 17:23

MarkWithaC · 04/12/2024 11:29

I know a lot of intersex people and - for what it's worth - they all use the term "intersex" and rarely the term "DSD".

That's convenient isn't it

It may be convenient, but that doesn't stop it being true.

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BonfireLady · 04/12/2024 17:22

I'm curious as to what I've said that's circular.

TBF, I accidentally did it myself. I asked you if you knew at birth or "at puberty" about your DSD. Which makes me a bit of an idiot... given I'd just been talking about lack of puberty on exactly this subject i.e. in Swyer (and CAIS). Thank you for taking my numpty comment in good faith.

I will RTFT and pull out what didn't make sense from my POV. Others have already called some of it out.

I don't profess to have a full working knowledge of DSDs. I just learned a shit load during the Olympics because it was such a door opener of a topic. Watching males with 5-ARD punch women in the face, with the president of the IOC auditioning for some kind of Gaslighter of the Year competition was next level dystopia. It was a peak peaking opportunity to call out some of the utter madness that much of the world is still wrapped in. Thankfully several big GB Olympic names stepped out of the shadows to call it out publicly e.g. Barry McGuigan, Nicola Adams, Mark Forster and Matthew Pinsent. Obviously Sharron Davies and Martina Navratilova had been doing so before this too.

I hadn't really expected there to be so many very knowledgeable people on here - I'm far more used to coming across comments from people who know nothing other than the usual uninformed cliches about hermaphroditisim etc, so I was perhaps a bit prejudiced in my expectations!

There's a lot of knowledge on this board. There's also a lot of caution and sceptism. Especially around Swyer in particular. Nobody knows who anyone is online so prejudice is part of the deal.

Tootsurly · 04/12/2024 17:21

WarmingClothesontheRadiator · 04/12/2024 17:12

Nonsense. Sex is defined by gamete type and this is consistent across all higher plants and animals.

Thank you. I assume you're saying this from a position of having studied this area?

All the TRAs in the intersex group are of course jumping up and down with glee having read it.

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WarmingClothesontheRadiator · 04/12/2024 17:12

Tootsurly · 04/12/2024 17:04

Nonsense. Sex is defined by gamete type and this is consistent across all higher plants and animals.

WarmingClothesontheRadiator · 04/12/2024 17:06

Rainbowandgrey · 04/12/2024 15:35

Haven’t rtft but DSDs often need to be taken on a case by case basis imho. Some XY people (a small percentage) will have female bodies except for internal organs. Chimeras can have cells some of which are XX and some XY. These are very rare so need to assess individually.
Other DSDs are more commonplace, eg Kleinfelters XXY, so easier to make a grouping as male (though they can still affect people somewhat differently).

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You need to RTFT. You might learn something,

BonfireLady · 04/12/2024 17:05

@Tootsurly thank you for answering that. It's a very personal question and I can't imagine any of that time was easy.

Whilst it's true that cross-sex gamete production is impossible, I understood that skeletal feminisation is possible if the exposure is started at a young-enough age

That's interesting. I would struggle to believe this happens. Unfortunately the amount of misinformation (and disinformation) that's out there really doesn't help. It's a shame we can't magically pull Emma Hilton into the thread to address that one. She was sooooooo good at answering all the questions during the Olympics.

@MyrtleStrumpet I fully agree re their entitlement. It's appalling that mediocre males with 5-ARD get celebrated as brilliant females.

@ChaChaChooey well said.

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Tootsurly · 04/12/2024 17:00

BonfireLady · 03/12/2024 22:23

I don't have particularly strong feelings about the term "intersex", although I do agree there's really no such thing. (I have much stronger feelings about its inclusion in the gender identity alphabet soup.)

Sounds like a sensible position to take. Agreeing there's no such thing is the important bit. When facts get lost, that's where it goes wrong.

My TERF views don't tend to go down terribly well and Helen Joyce is seen as the devil incarnate or worse.

I can imagine!

Yes, I have SS. It's shitty, but perhaps not so bad as some of the other variations.

I can't imagine Swyer is easy.

I would agree with PPs that there are a few circles on this thread. However, as you say, you're not an expert in DSDs.

Dr Emma Hilton is a great person to follow on the whole subject of DSDs. She did a great job deconstructing the topic during the Olympics. The main focus was 5-ARD, because of the prevalence of males with this DSD in women's sport, but she also covered Swyer, Turner's, CAIS, PAIS and more. Most of it unfolded on X and lots of us were asking questions. Lots of it got pulled in to MN threads.

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I'm curious as to what I've said that's circular. I don't mean that to be argumentative, but if I have been unclear or if I need to adjust my own knowledge of the related biology then it would be useful to know.

I hadn't really expected there to be so many very knowledgeable people on here - I'm far more used to coming across comments from people who know nothing other than the usual uninformed cliches about hermaphroditisim etc, so I was perhaps a bit prejudiced in my expectations!

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MyrtleStrumpet · 04/12/2024 16:35

BonfireLady · 04/12/2024 14:39

Ps my sympathy drops of a cliff for any boxer (or runner, or footballer) who knows that they are obfuscating the truth when competing in women's sports.

FWIW, I agree with Caster that nobody should be forced into taking testosterone suppressants in order to compete. However, Caster and I are on opposite pages regarding which sex category biological males with 5-ARD should compete in.

The issue with Caster and Khelife, and indeed trans-identifying men who participate in women's sports, is that they can't win in male sports. This isn't a matter of "we're women, let us play", it's more, "we can't win in men's sports and that's unfair, so let us win in women's sports".

There is no way I have ever been able to go for a run as a fun thing to do or to keep fit, probably due to genetic reasons that I won't go into. I would love to have that kind of energy, but it's never going to happen. I accept it. These men don't accept that they are mediocre so they steal from women.

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