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Tootsurly · 03/12/2024 18:52

Bit of a thought experiment, plus curious as to how much people know about intersex conditions / DSDs.

This is slightly Black Mirror, although not totally beyond the realms of possibility. If there ever came a point where anything specifically related to being male or female required a DNA test to determine your sex before participating, what would happen to intersex people whose chromosomes didn't match their outward appearance (i.e. genotype and phenotype don't match)?

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teawamutu · 05/12/2024 22:42

Rainbowandgrey · 05/12/2024 21:08

Oh I don’t like that. It does smack of harassment to me.

I remember this. At the time I read it more as 'arrogant rude bastard gets called out over lie about reading Cass and then betrays complete inability to evidence his child-endangering bullshit ideology'.

Rainbowandgrey · 05/12/2024 21:08

NoBinturongsHereMate · 05/12/2024 11:32

He did challenge O'Brien to a debate, but I'm not sure that counts as bullying.

https://x.com/SwipeWright/status/1793797299220423011?t=EcXrMtpdEEUbHt2_D6se6g&s=19

Oh I don’t like that. It does smack of harassment to me.

BonfireLady · 05/12/2024 20:11

Tootsurly · 05/12/2024 10:16

I posted this on the intersex WA group and it is being discredited because apparently Colin Wright is a nasty transphobe and a racist who left academia. Plus something about him bullying a Dr Obrein who criticised the Cass Review. Any truth in this?

I mean clearly I'm just shouting into an echo chamber at this point, but it would be nice to know if I've got egg on my face.

It sounds like you're straddling two world views (some activist members within the group you're in and this MN board) very effectively. I can't imagine that's easy at all.

In my experience, this board isn't always an easy place to be but it's a great place to have your own assumptions challenged. It's also an incredible place to build up knowledge, with posters sharing source info.

I guess the difficult bit is that there is always lots of source info that "prove" the case for sex being a spectrum.

Hopefully your group gives you helpful support, even if it does come with a side helping of gender identity belief?

Waitwhat23 · 05/12/2024 18:58

Agreed. Was a huge breakthrough that they even recognised it though (through extreme gritted teeth).

Looking more into Wright's 'bullying' of O'brien, it appears to amount to 'peer pressuring into a debate'. The pressure appears to consist of the single tweet I posted above, after which O'Brien blocked Wright on Twitter. And of course, O'Brien doesn't have to debate. But making a public comment that the Cass review is a "sham at best" and then refusing to engage with any further conversation about it (apart from 'if you disagree with me, you're nothing but a transphobe') is a bit odd, at best.

The racism bit seems to be regarding Wright's comments on Critical Race Theory. I won't even begin to try and analyse that as it's beyond me. I genuinely don't mean that in a facetious way. I've tried to read about it before and there's so many strands to it that I just don't get it. It's like when people talk about Marxism - I feel a bit like Joey in an episode of Friends when he's just nodding along.

WarmingClothesontheRadiator · 05/12/2024 12:19

As an aside, in terms of the Cass Report, it's worth noting that even the utterly institutionally captured Scottish Government accepted the findings.

Well, on the one hand they sort of did. And on the other they try to brush it under the carpet. No update of the scandalous school’s guidance.

Waitwhat23 · 05/12/2024 12:14

Tootsurly · 05/12/2024 10:16

I posted this on the intersex WA group and it is being discredited because apparently Colin Wright is a nasty transphobe and a racist who left academia. Plus something about him bullying a Dr Obrein who criticised the Cass Review. Any truth in this?

I mean clearly I'm just shouting into an echo chamber at this point, but it would be nice to know if I've got egg on my face.

I haven't heard anything about the accusations mentioned in your post but just doing a search on Twitter brought up the following -

x.com/SwipeWright/status/1793110034596937948

(Wright offered O'Brian an open forum opportunity for discussion and was promptly blocked).

I'm not sure about the accusations of racism - I'll have a look.

As an aside, in terms of the Cass Report, it's worth noting that even the utterly institutionally captured Scottish Government accepted the findings.

NoBinturongsHereMate · 05/12/2024 11:32

He did challenge O'Brien to a debate, but I'm not sure that counts as bullying.

https://x.com/SwipeWright/status/1793797299220423011?t=EcXrMtpdEEUbHt2_D6se6g&s=19

x.com

https://x.com/SwipeWright/status/1793797299220423011?s=19&t=EcXrMtpdEEUbHt2_D6se6g

WarmingClothesontheRadiator · 05/12/2024 10:22

Anything which doesn’t unquestioningly affirm the faith is transphobia.

Tootsurly · 05/12/2024 10:16

Waitwhat23 · 04/12/2024 17:49

The Sex Redefined article and the infographic which many of us have seen before are mentioned, as is Dr Emma Hilton (dear God, I hope I've got her name and title right this time, unlike last night!) in this article -

https://www.realityslaststand.com/p/sex-is-not-a-spectrum

I posted this on the intersex WA group and it is being discredited because apparently Colin Wright is a nasty transphobe and a racist who left academia. Plus something about him bullying a Dr Obrein who criticised the Cass Review. Any truth in this?

I mean clearly I'm just shouting into an echo chamber at this point, but it would be nice to know if I've got egg on my face.

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SinnerBoy · 05/12/2024 07:21

Waitwhat23 · Yesterday 17:49

The Sex Redefined article and the infographic which many of us have seen before are mentioned, as is Dr Emma Hilton (dear God, I hope I've got her name and title right this time, unlike last night!) in this article -
^https://www.realityslaststand.com/p/sex-is-not-a-spectrum^

Thanks for posting this article, it's very clear in its message. I particularly liked the final two sentences:

"But over time, it’s become clear that they created a false theory of biology that distorts human nature and harms vulnerable individuals. When one attempts to achieve equality and justice by distorting reality, inequality and injustice are never eliminated, just relocated."

Angrymum22 · 04/12/2024 23:17

SpeculativeHoumous · 03/12/2024 20:11

I don't see why it's fascinating it's a disorder like many other disorders

Sorry I was alluding to the study of embryology and genetics. I have a done a great deal of research into endocrinology having had a rare endo problem from my late teens. Our bodies are incredibly finely tuned and tiny imbalances can have a huge impact on the our whole endocrine system which is a complicated maze of feed back mechanisms. We are familiar with underactive and overactive glands but chemicals which stimulate the production of the “famous” hormones are as important as the end product.

Tootsurly · 04/12/2024 23:01

BonfireLady · 04/12/2024 22:47

This is definitely something to add.
I agree.

It's not the thread I was expecting it to be and I'm really glad I was wrong in my initial scepticism re the "thought experiment". Thanks from me too OP for starting it and sticking with it.

I said I would RTFT and pick out the "circular" bits. I started to grab a few things that didn't quite make sense and then realised it wasn't necessary. You covered it all with this:

I didn't mean to paint myself as an expert and maybe could have worded my OP better. I do think it's a bit unfair to say I have "little understanding" though, compared with a non expert.

Yes, absolutely fair enough. I'm not a biologist and intersex is not just a single condition, I just really object to some of the sweeping statements that are made as if they're fact.

Having said that, some of those sweeping statements apply to other variations, even if not mine. Also good to realise my misconception about foetuses - not sure where I initially heard or read that.

I sometimes wonder how different things would have been if I'd had a "normal" adolescence. Those years were really blighted by my condition.

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BonfireLady · 04/12/2024 22:47

MarieDeGournay · 04/12/2024 19:53

I've nothing to add, but I'm posting to say that this has been a very interesting discussion, thank you OP for starting it and staying with it. It feels as if there is real exchange and learning going on here, potential derails not taken, a lot of openness, occasional heated words followed up with movement towards mutual understanding..
Thank you to the OP and everybody who has participated.

This is definitely something to add.
I agree.

It's not the thread I was expecting it to be and I'm really glad I was wrong in my initial scepticism re the "thought experiment". Thanks from me too OP for starting it and sticking with it.

I said I would RTFT and pick out the "circular" bits. I started to grab a few things that didn't quite make sense and then realised it wasn't necessary. You covered it all with this:

I didn't mean to paint myself as an expert and maybe could have worded my OP better. I do think it's a bit unfair to say I have "little understanding" though, compared with a non expert.

Tootsurly · 04/12/2024 22:47

WarmingClothesontheRadiator · 04/12/2024 22:31

Could be worse. Imagine if the variable took the form of a poisson distribution.

How dare you compare me to fish!

Except for clownfish, of course...

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WarmingClothesontheRadiator · 04/12/2024 22:31

Could be worse. Imagine if the variable took the form of a poisson distribution.

How dare you compare me to fish!

Tootsurly · 04/12/2024 22:27

WarmingClothesontheRadiator · 04/12/2024 22:20

like not being considered "normal"

I forget whose it was, but it was either in Nature or Scientific America that there was an obituary which stated what a terrible person the deceased was because they compared people to the normal distribution curve, and who were they to decide what was normal!!!

That was when I realised how far these once scientific magazines had fallen.

It's ridiculous. I did point out that doctors spend a huge amount of time comparing people to the norm (or normal range, at least) in order to do their job, every time they weigh you or take your blood pressure or pulse or measure your cholesterol or bone density or a thousand other things. It's not a value judgement on your worth as a human being.

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WarmingClothesontheRadiator · 04/12/2024 22:20

like not being considered "normal"

I forget whose it was, but it was either in Nature or Scientific America that there was an obituary which stated what a terrible person the deceased was because they compared people to the normal distribution curve, and who were they to decide what was normal!!!

That was when I realised how far these once scientific magazines had fallen.

Tootsurly · 04/12/2024 20:16

BonfireLady · 04/12/2024 19:36

Ah OK. Interesting.

There is a very vocal core group who like not being considered "normal" and don't like being considered "disordered", so I'm sure that has a lot to do with it.

This sounds remarkably similar to the autism parents' group that I left. There was a lot of focus on autism as an identity... and a lot of crossover into gender identity as a result of this... and as a superpower. I mostly just listened. I quite like the superpower idea when it's tempered with reality as well.
One thing that really struck me was how I ended up seeing the phrase "my mask is for you". Initiallly I saw it as very empowering but I also realised it easily became very much the opposite of empowering - like a "it's me against a hateful world" thing. I appreciate it's a derail so I won't go into more on his but the principal is similar to what you've described I think.

I'm not that bothered, but I am very bothered indeed by being conflated with trans.

This sounds like a healthy approach to things. I guess if some people like the term intersex, and aren't using it as a tool with which to wedge in gender identity, fair enough. I'll stick to DSDs given I'm on the outside looking in.

OMG, there's a lot of the "me against the hateful world", or at least "me against the hateful medical profession who operate on people with DSDs purely for their own nefarious reasons rather than because they genuinely believe that will give the best outcome." And heaven forbid anyone should use the word "normal", even in a medical context.

There is definitely a fair whack of wedging in gender identity ("we're all on a spectrum", etc., etc.), but my only point was that people with DSDs don't seem to find the term "intersex" offensive - I wasn't hypothesising as to why this might be.

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MarieDeGournay · 04/12/2024 19:53

I've nothing to add, but I'm posting to say that this has been a very interesting discussion, thank you OP for starting it and staying with it. It feels as if there is real exchange and learning going on here, potential derails not taken, a lot of openness, occasional heated words followed up with movement towards mutual understanding..
Thank you to the OP and everybody who has participated.

BonfireLady · 04/12/2024 19:36

Tootsurly · 04/12/2024 17:32

No, in the UK.

I am purely going by the terminology that everyone I know uses, which is almost exclusively "intersex" rather than "DSD". The organisation which facilitates gatherings where I met most of these people uses the term intersex, everyone uses it informally, people who are "out" use it in their bios and even the WA group has "intersex" in the title.

There is a very vocal core group who like not being considered "normal" and don't like being considered "disordered", so I'm sure that has a lot to do with it.

I'm not that bothered, but I am very bothered indeed by being conflated with trans.

Ah OK. Interesting.

There is a very vocal core group who like not being considered "normal" and don't like being considered "disordered", so I'm sure that has a lot to do with it.

This sounds remarkably similar to the autism parents' group that I left. There was a lot of focus on autism as an identity... and a lot of crossover into gender identity as a result of this... and as a superpower. I mostly just listened. I quite like the superpower idea when it's tempered with reality as well.
One thing that really struck me was how I ended up seeing the phrase "my mask is for you". Initiallly I saw it as very empowering but I also realised it easily became very much the opposite of empowering - like a "it's me against a hateful world" thing. I appreciate it's a derail so I won't go into more on his but the principal is similar to what you've described I think.

I'm not that bothered, but I am very bothered indeed by being conflated with trans.

This sounds like a healthy approach to things. I guess if some people like the term intersex, and aren't using it as a tool with which to wedge in gender identity, fair enough. I'll stick to DSDs given I'm on the outside looking in.

Tootsurly · 04/12/2024 19:30

Christwosheds · 04/12/2024 19:18

This.
You are confused on many counts OP. Foetuses are sexed at the moment of conception. Males with DSD do not have complete female internal organs.

I am aware of my misapprehension re. foetuses, but am certainly not confused about which organs I have in my own body.

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BonfireLady · 04/12/2024 19:21

WarmingClothesontheRadiator · 04/12/2024 19:03

‘Cis’ is offensive, it relegates men and women to subsets of their own class and infers that women or men are defined by regressive sex stereotypes.

Personally, I ignore it. People are welcome to call me "cis" should they wish. It means nothing to me as I don't believe I have a gender identity. It's a word of no relevance to my life.

It has as much of an impact on me as a Christian calling me a sinner.

If genderists find it helpful to call me cis and Christians find it helpful to call me a sinner, so be it.

Christwosheds · 04/12/2024 19:18

GCITC · 03/12/2024 19:35

You have not described a person with CAIS here.

Those with CAIS have no uterus, cervix or fallopian tubes.

This.
You are confused on many counts OP. Foetuses are sexed at the moment of conception. Males with DSD do not have complete female internal organs.

ChaChaChooey · 04/12/2024 19:12

The DSD Families Charity is much more sane than the average ‘Intersex’ activist!

www.dsdfamilies.org/charity

ChaChaChooey · 04/12/2024 19:11

Tootsurly · 04/12/2024 18:57

One of them, despite being a heterosexual, cis man whose disorder doesn't make him female in the slightest, is practically wetting himself with excitement at the prospect of being his own special sex.

I realise I sound a bit disparaging, but it's honestly relentless and I'm fed up of the TRA rhetoric.

I’m sure most of us have encountered this ‘special’ sort of bloke online!
Thankfully there are lots of thoughtful people with DSDs posting online as well, some activists, some not.

A while back we had a regular poster who had a DSD and who had served a prison term, I forget the particulars of their story but it was clear that they a) supported rules that exist for the safeguarding of women b) had not had an easy time coming to terms with the reality of their condition/fitting themself into society.

I wonder if any current Mumsnetters remember the poster’s username? You might find their posts (and the responses) interesting/informative.

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