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Intersex

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Tootsurly · 03/12/2024 18:52

Bit of a thought experiment, plus curious as to how much people know about intersex conditions / DSDs.

This is slightly Black Mirror, although not totally beyond the realms of possibility. If there ever came a point where anything specifically related to being male or female required a DNA test to determine your sex before participating, what would happen to intersex people whose chromosomes didn't match their outward appearance (i.e. genotype and phenotype don't match)?

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FlowchartRequired · 06/12/2024 17:22

Of course they can use it for themself. I draw the line at anyone enforcing the term on someone who does not like it.

Tootsurly · 06/12/2024 17:12

FlowchartRequired · 06/12/2024 17:04

The group of people who are 'reclaiming' the word queer are not the same group of people who were queerbashed/gaybashed. It is still very contested as older gays and lesbians have extremely bad associations with it (for very good reason - some of the people who were beaten up were very badly injured and some sadly died). Younger people, especially the spicy straights, have latched onto it as a self descriptor.

I personally find that people who describe themselves as queer or intersex are more likely to be ideologically in step with gender identity ideology. Those who are gay/lesbian or have DSDs and don't use those terms are usually sex realists.

This is a generalisation, but I have found that it holds up IRL.

Personally I think that intersex is inaccurate, which is of course the point for the GII believers.

I think your observation of people who describe themselves as intersex is probably correct, and I agree it is not an accurate term, biologically.

But of all the moronic gender politics/ideology stuff I hear spouted by this group, the fact most of them chose to call themselves intersex is probably the thing that bothers me the least. Surely they can use it as a self-descriptor, too?

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Tootsurly · 06/12/2024 17:07

ChaChaChooey · 06/12/2024 16:58

You can call yourself intersex if you like but that puts you in the same category as the trans-intersex self identifiers and the men who think an extra x makes them less male (it doesn’t).

Whereas if you stick to your specific DSD/VSD diagnosis you aren’t in the same category as them (which is what I thought you wanted? To not be lumped in with those you have nothing in common with?)

I thought it was a central tenet of being GC that you didn't become something just because you identify as it, or call yourself that thing?

If I choose to call myself intersex (and I have already said I'm not particularly bothered by the terminology, but that most people I know with DSDs do call themselves intersex and that is surely up to them) it doesn't make me the same as someone who is trans (which I'm not) and who self-identifies (which I don't), and I'm not sure what gives you the authority to make this pronouncement.

Perhaps, like most of the intersex people I know, I don't want people to know my specific diagnosis. Perhaps that's private. But either way, what I call myself doesn't change that diagnosis, or the fact that I do have one and someone who self-identifies (probably) doesn't.

I find your stance rather odd as presumably you don't appreciate people telling you what to call them (i.e. dictating pronoun use) and you don't think a person can change their biology with language.

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FlowchartRequired · 06/12/2024 17:04

The group of people who are 'reclaiming' the word queer are not the same group of people who were queerbashed/gaybashed. It is still very contested as older gays and lesbians have extremely bad associations with it (for very good reason - some of the people who were beaten up were very badly injured and some sadly died). Younger people, especially the spicy straights, have latched onto it as a self descriptor.

I personally find that people who describe themselves as queer or intersex are more likely to be ideologically in step with gender identity ideology. Those who are gay/lesbian or have DSDs and don't use those terms are usually sex realists.

This is a generalisation, but I have found that it holds up IRL.

Personally I think that intersex is inaccurate, which is of course the point for the GII believers.

ChaChaChooey · 06/12/2024 16:58

You can call yourself intersex if you like but that puts you in the same category as the trans-intersex self identifiers and the men who think an extra x makes them less male (it doesn’t).

Whereas if you stick to your specific DSD/VSD diagnosis you aren’t in the same category as them (which is what I thought you wanted? To not be lumped in with those you have nothing in common with?)

Tootsurly · 06/12/2024 16:43

drspouse · 06/12/2024 08:52

You don't get to say if it's offensive.

So who does?

Black people can reclaim the "n" word, Rosie Jones can reclaim "retard", gay people can reclaim "queer", so why don't intersex people get to decide who uses the word "intersex"?

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Tootsurly · 06/12/2024 16:39

Hoardasurass · 06/12/2024 09:14

Sayers syndrome is a female dsd that results in xxy
The corresponding male dsd of xxy is kinefelters syndrome
Whilst they both involve xxy chromosome groups the extra x chromosome in males effect the male differently to the added y chromosome to females

Swyer's (not Sayers) is a female DSD where people have XY chromosomes (not XXY).

It affects (not effects) people by making them infertile, amongst other things.

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WarmingClothesontheRadiator · 06/12/2024 09:31

Swyers syndrome occurs in XY individuals. It is very rare: 1 in 80,000. As the issue is on the Y chromosome a similar, but even rarer, outcome can occur in those with XXY karyotypes. 1 in 500 males have klinefelters. So XXY with a female phenotype would occur roughly in 1 in 80 million individuals. So on average less than one person in the UK.

Rainbowandgrey · 06/12/2024 09:26

Hoardasurass · 06/12/2024 09:14

Sayers syndrome is a female dsd that results in xxy
The corresponding male dsd of xxy is kinefelters syndrome
Whilst they both involve xxy chromosome groups the extra x chromosome in males effect the male differently to the added y chromosome to females

That doesn’t really make any sense @Hoardasurass.

FlowchartRequired · 06/12/2024 09:25

Swyer is 46XY with no SRY.

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Hoardasurass · 06/12/2024 09:14

Tootsurly · 03/12/2024 19:40

CAIS is not the only DSD.

I have described someone with Swyer's Syndrome.

Sayers syndrome is a female dsd that results in xxy
The corresponding male dsd of xxy is kinefelters syndrome
Whilst they both involve xxy chromosome groups the extra x chromosome in males effect the male differently to the added y chromosome to females

BonfireLady · 06/12/2024 08:53

Wright's respose wasn't ideal, but he was provoked and the balance of bad behaviour seems to have been in the other side.

This.

I remember feeling very uncomfortable at the time but also fascinated by what was playing out. I had no intention of donating to the fund but it was an interesting way to approach it. It certainly garnered attention to the "academic dispute"**, which is ultimately a good thing.

It's a totally different topic but I imagine that's also how I'd have felt if I'd been around at the time that (some of) the Suffragettes were throwing bricks through shop windows etc as part of their protest.

** that's the kindest way I can describe O'Brien's dismissal of the Cass Report and subsequent ad hominem critique of Wright.

Rainbowandgrey · 06/12/2024 08:53

How about if soneone sent a barrage of tweets claiming you were profiteering?
Wright's respose wasn't ideal, but he was provoked and the balance of bad behaviour seems to have been in the other side.

I don’t think it was wise of Wright to engage.
O’Brien’s poor behaviour spoke for itself.
However, the tweets about profiteering came after Wright had suggested giving money to charity in exchange for debate I think? That was a bad idea from the start and he later compounded it with the GoFundMe. It wasn’t profiteering (for himself at least) but it was an attempt to manipulate and coerce. Not nice.

drspouse · 06/12/2024 08:52

Tootsurly · 03/12/2024 19:10

So the sex of an individual is entirely their chromosomes and nothing to do with their external presentation or there internal organs?

And btw, intersex is not intrinsically offensive as a term.

You don't get to say if it's offensive.

NoBinturongsHereMate · 06/12/2024 08:43

How about if soneone sent a barrage of tweets claiming you were profiteering?

Wright's respose wasn't ideal, but he was provoked and the balance of bad behaviour seems to have been in the other side.

Rainbowandgrey · 06/12/2024 08:32

WarmingClothesontheRadiator · 06/12/2024 07:55

And how would you feel if someone very publically condemned all your work as a sham and then refused to explain themselves any further?

I’d be very confident their foolishness and lack of objectivity would become clear to all in the fullness of time. I’d know it was clear to many already.

Was Wright a co-author or something?
It wasn’t his work as far as I’m aware.

Scientific papers disagree with one another all the time. It’s part of the process.
However, O’Brien was well out of order in the manner in which he disagreed with Cass. Calling the review a sham was far from ok, but OP has asked specifically about Wright’s behaviour here and it really wasn’t good either.

WarmingClothesontheRadiator · 06/12/2024 07:55

Rainbowandgrey · 06/12/2024 07:42

Oh I agree regarding no debate. It’s not fair.

But this was ‘two wrongs don’t make a right’ imo.

I’ve worked as a scientist and if someone challenged me or a colleague in the manner Wright did then we’d automatically refuse a debate, no matter how confident we were of our thesis. We’d refuse to engage with bullies.
This interaction was very far from the norm in that world, ime anyway.

I do understand Wright was frustrated but that does not excuse his behaviour.

And how would you feel if someone very publically condemned all your work as a sham and then refused to explain themselves any further?

Rainbowandgrey · 06/12/2024 07:42

ChaChaChooey · 06/12/2024 01:04

I dunno, I think people who profess to be speaking in a professional capacity probably deserve a bit of badgering if they are unwilling to explain how their opinion is formed.

No Debate got Bloody Boring circa 2018.

Oh I agree regarding no debate. It’s not fair.

But this was ‘two wrongs don’t make a right’ imo.

I’ve worked as a scientist and if someone challenged me or a colleague in the manner Wright did then we’d automatically refuse a debate, no matter how confident we were of our thesis. We’d refuse to engage with bullies.
This interaction was very far from the norm in that world, ime anyway.

I do understand Wright was frustrated but that does not excuse his behaviour.

WarmingClothesontheRadiator · 06/12/2024 07:25

Given he was libelling Cass and all the reveiwers involved in the report, he was lucky not to have to be debating in court.

ChaChaChooey · 06/12/2024 01:04

I dunno, I think people who profess to be speaking in a professional capacity probably deserve a bit of badgering if they are unwilling to explain how their opinion is formed.

No Debate got Bloody Boring circa 2018.

Rainbowandgrey · 05/12/2024 23:41

I think the fact that O’Brien wouldn’t engage in debate would have spoken for itself.

The GoFundMe thing was ill-conceived and tawdry in my opinion. Even before that they were trying to bribe O’Brien basically. Dreadful.

NoBinturongsHereMate · 05/12/2024 23:37

It is a bit badgering,, but with no personal threats or accusations beyond quoting O'Briens own tweets. Wheras in reaponse to the original perfectly polite suggestion of a debate, O'Brien appears to have responded with a barrage of personal accusations.

BonfireLady · 05/12/2024 23:35

Rainbowandgrey · 05/12/2024 23:23

It’s one thing calling someone out, no problem with asking O’Brien to debate the subject, that’s absolutely appropriate.

But the tweet goes beyond that imho. Not the first invitation, but the one quoted by @NoBinturongsHereMate. It’s badgering, pestering in tone. I mean, launching a GoFundMe for a children’s hospital all contingent on O’Brien’s participation in the debate? Did I read that wrong? If I didn’t that’s definitely harassing behaviour in my book.

It was right on the edge of my comfort zone in that respect, but I thought it was fair enough overall. O'Brien was criticising a 4 year review but won't defend why in a debate format.

From memory, Wright refunded everyone's donations when it was clear that the debate wouldn't happen.

Rainbowandgrey · 05/12/2024 23:23

teawamutu · 05/12/2024 22:42

I remember this. At the time I read it more as 'arrogant rude bastard gets called out over lie about reading Cass and then betrays complete inability to evidence his child-endangering bullshit ideology'.

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It’s one thing calling someone out, no problem with asking O’Brien to debate the subject, that’s absolutely appropriate.

But the tweet goes beyond that imho. Not the first invitation, but the one quoted by @NoBinturongsHereMate. It’s badgering, pestering in tone. I mean, launching a GoFundMe for a children’s hospital all contingent on O’Brien’s participation in the debate? Did I read that wrong? If I didn’t that’s definitely harassing behaviour in my book.

BonfireLady · 05/12/2024 23:09

teawamutu · 05/12/2024 22:42

I remember this. At the time I read it more as 'arrogant rude bastard gets called out over lie about reading Cass and then betrays complete inability to evidence his child-endangering bullshit ideology'.

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Yes, I remember it too.

At the time, I had been keenly waiting for some kind of debate (having only seen the shut down of No Debate) and thought this sounded like a good one.

One key point about the Cass review is that it comes from a position of belief. It assumes that we do all have a gender identity. Obviously lots of people (me included) don't believe this at all, so I'm particularly interested in a document that accepts it as "fact" yet still questions whether social transition and medical interventions are the appropriate approach, given the lack of evidence. In many ways, it's even more powerful as an argument, that even if you believe we all have a gender identity, it's important to have a good evidence base to support changing people's bodies to align with this belief. A debate about it would have been interesting.

It seems cowardice to criticise the Cass Report and not explain why.

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