What all these discussions bring into focus for me is the fundamental fact that I no longer believe that “trans” is real. In my opinion, this entire movement is fighting for something that they haven’t actually established exists.
I don’t believe being “trans” is “just a normal state of being for some people” which is what they have been trying to push. I no longer even believe that transitioning is an appropriate treatment for anyone. I do believe that those damaged by this medical bubble will need protection, but that’s a very different problem.
So those who are still arguing it’s just the approach that was wrong are going to find themselves on rocky ground. They no longer only have to persuade people like me that this is a group whose rights have to be balanced against women’s rights.
Before they can do that, they will have to go right back to square one, define who it is that they believe needs protection, convince me that is a coherent group who can reasonably be considered to need protection and then persuade me that there is a good reason why this group should be allowed to have any negative impact on women’s rights.
Because we’ve had a lot of thinking time, we’re now aware there is an obvious third option for separate spaces, which hurts nobody. If they want to reject that very reasonable suggestion, they’re going to have to come up with something very persuasive indeed. And all that is because they pushed this model for so many years that many women are now well educated about what we stand to lose if we give any ground at all.