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A Review of Academic Use of the Term "Minor Attracted Persons"

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UtopiaPlanitia · 11/11/2024 19:50

I came across this journal article thanks to Mike Salter (Professor of Criminology) posting the following tweet:

https://x.com/mike_salter/status/1854700225648378001

'Our review of academic use of the term "minor attracted people" is now published in Trauma Violence Abuse, highlighting the conceptual, political and empirical problems with characterising paedophiles as an oppressed sexual minority
^https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/15248380241270028^'

I thought I'd post the tweet and link to the article in FWR as this a subject that is of interest and concern to many contributors here.

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MarieDeGournay · 20/11/2024 09:54

The article under discussion it is a paper by academics which is highly critical of other academics going down the slippery slope of calling paedophiles 'MAPs'.

The abstract and 'Critical Findings' show that the academics who wrote this article are concerned about the use of the term MAP and its dangers in regard to child protection. This is just one of their findings:
Strong claims in the MAPs literature that the stigmatization of sexual interest in children is the primary driver of child sexual abuse, and thus sexual interest in children should be socially and culturally normalized, are empirically unsupported and contrary to child protection prerogatives.
[my emphasis].

I also want to point out that paedophilia/MAPs/whatever is just one aspect of child abuse. Most child abuse takes place within the family or the close circle around children. The fathers, grandfathers, uncles, brothers, stepfathers, etc. who do most of the abuse are often 'lovely chaps' who carry on a perfectly 'normal' life - 'good neighbour, highly respected in his community, happily married with three children' was how my abuser would have been described.

Most abusers are not career paedophiles or campaigning MAPS; they are 'normal' men, the man next door, your husband, your daughter's boyfriend, the guy works down the chip shop, your GP, anybody.

Identifying abusers as one group, be that campaigning MAPs or clergymen, or whatever, keeps the attention off all the low-profile everyday home-based abusers who do most of the damage to children.

PinkChesnut · 20/11/2024 02:59

As a CSA survivor, I am for whatever lowers risk to children. However that outcome is achieved. Education programs for kids, stronger community health, whatever it takes. I don't know enough to know what the solution is, but I only hope we can find one.

UtopiaPlanitia · 20/11/2024 01:01

I agree with your thoughts @themostspecialelfintheworkshop I think these attempts at rehabilitation or restorative justice are well-intentioned but ridiculously naive. Paedophiles do not see children in a way that can be realistically changed and the only way to keep children safe is for the danger to be removed from the community. There are just some people who are too dangerous for society to take the risk with. It would also help if the justice systems would treat men who view CSAM images and films as worthy of a prison sentence, letting men off with suspended sentences because of 'mitigating' excuses is not a realistic or preventative way to deal with that offence which is often the initial phase of an escalating paraphilia.

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themostspecialelfintheworkshop · 19/11/2024 23:40

Maybe being less isolated will help stop paedophiles reoffending. But it's only a maybe which is a bit fucking awful when you consider the potential harms to children. Plenty of well known paedophiles weren't socially isolated at all e.g. Saville.

When, on the other hand, a prison cell will 100% guarantee protection for children. This rehabilitation 'circles' approach still leaves 20-30%of those men harming children even if you believe their self announced statistics (which I don't). Which would be zero if they were in prison. Child abuse should be unacceptable.

I also think there's a risk of paedophile rings with this approach, call me cynical.

themostspecialelfintheworkshop · 19/11/2024 23:28

Agreed, I'm all for locking them up and throwing away the key. They don't care about children and they lie and reoffend. Protecting children is incompatible with rehabilitation for paedophiles. Once they've destroyed a child's life, they should never get the chance to do so again. Some crimes are too heinous for rehabilitation to be attempted - he risks too high.

I would suggest the vast majority of the population agree with me, sadly it's often not what happens.

I hate this modern trend to focus on the criminal rather than protecting existing and future potential victims.

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UtopiaPlanitia · 14/11/2024 15:15

ArabellaScott · 14/11/2024 14:57

Good question. Why are people happy to call out some supposed ethical failings, but shy away from this?

Consider why Welby publically expressed shame over his family's apparent links to slavery, while failing to report a horrifically abusive priest to the police.

Not academia, but I suppose the dynamics are similar.

I think the group dynamics must be similar because, for example, Alastair Campbell and Rory Stewart (two men who are fond of criticising almost everyone and everything) are publicly defending Welby as a good chap who ought not to have resigned over this issue 🤷‍♀️

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Helleofabore · 14/11/2024 14:59

UtopiaPlanitia · 14/11/2024 14:49

Yes!

When I read the article in the New Yorker magazine that detailed the German programme that deliberately placed young boys from the foster care system with paedophiles, based on an academic’s spurious arguments that this would benefit both the men and the boys, I was so bloody horrified that there were no adults in the decision making process with good sense.

That is horrifying! And something I did not know.

ArabellaScott · 14/11/2024 14:57

UtopiaPlanitia · 14/11/2024 02:27

Jesus! That's just so shocking...I am really surprised that this behaviour doesn't attract criticism from academics who, as a group, can be highly critical of each other for almost any reason.

Why is so much of modern culture determined to deny children a childhood?!

Good question. Why are people happy to call out some supposed ethical failings, but shy away from this?

Consider why Welby publically expressed shame over his family's apparent links to slavery, while failing to report a horrifically abusive priest to the police.

Not academia, but I suppose the dynamics are similar.

UtopiaPlanitia · 14/11/2024 14:49

Helleofabore · 14/11/2024 03:09

That doesn’t surprise me when you consider what the ‘intellectuals’ in France achieved when they convinced the French government to lower the age of consent.

Both in how they convinced the decision makers and the horrific impact on the children after this law change.

It becomes very clear when you look specifically at who actually benefited from the change. Directly and indirectly. And the answer was never ‘the children’.

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Yes!

When I read the article in the New Yorker magazine that detailed the German programme that deliberately placed young boys from the foster care system with paedophiles, based on an academic’s spurious arguments that this would benefit both the men and the boys, I was so bloody horrified that there were no adults in the decision making process with good sense.

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DeanElderberry · 14/11/2024 07:33

Children can enjoy sexual activity. Children can be very productive factory workers, their little hands can do intricate work. Children can be good soldiers - small size, trainability and lack of insight into what they are doing are great assets.

But children can also be protected by adults, taught to read and write, to play, to become social beings, to reason, to develop empathy, to explore their world.

Achieving that takes a lot of work by the adults who look after them, in their families, in their schools, in their wider society. Work and commitment to protecting their best interests, not just until puberty, but beyond that, while their brains and bodies are still not fully formed. That isn't always about making them choose. Sometimes telling them rather than asking them, and protecting them both from their own bad choices and from exploitative adults is the better way.

Exploitative adults including career academics and advertising executives, as well as more traditional perves.

Helleofabore · 14/11/2024 03:09

FallinUltra · 14/11/2024 01:04

Horrifically, a few years ago, while I was still in academia (social sciences), there was a call for papers for a special issue of a journal, on “children's sexual subjectivity”. The premise was that children’s sexual feelings are stigmatised, and as this causes shame in children, it should be destigmatised and the children’s sexualities liberated.

It seems clear that there is a pincer movement happening, with the idea of oppressed “maps” on one flank, and the sexual liberation of children on the other.

And too many gullible academics are lapping it all up.

That doesn’t surprise me when you consider what the ‘intellectuals’ in France achieved when they convinced the French government to lower the age of consent.

Both in how they convinced the decision makers and the horrific impact on the children after this law change.

It becomes very clear when you look specifically at who actually benefited from the change. Directly and indirectly. And the answer was never ‘the children’.

UtopiaPlanitia · 14/11/2024 02:27

FallinUltra · 14/11/2024 01:04

Horrifically, a few years ago, while I was still in academia (social sciences), there was a call for papers for a special issue of a journal, on “children's sexual subjectivity”. The premise was that children’s sexual feelings are stigmatised, and as this causes shame in children, it should be destigmatised and the children’s sexualities liberated.

It seems clear that there is a pincer movement happening, with the idea of oppressed “maps” on one flank, and the sexual liberation of children on the other.

And too many gullible academics are lapping it all up.

Jesus! That's just so shocking...I am really surprised that this behaviour doesn't attract criticism from academics who, as a group, can be highly critical of each other for almost any reason.

Why is so much of modern culture determined to deny children a childhood?!

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duc748 · 14/11/2024 01:22

Which is exactly what PIE were saying, decades ago.

FallinUltra · 14/11/2024 01:04

quantumbutterfly · 13/11/2024 10:08

One female NHS counsellor told me that some children enjoy the experience, ( her phrasing ). If she was trying to explore the shame, guilt & self loathing of a survivor she was pretty clumsy in her phrasing.

Horrifically, a few years ago, while I was still in academia (social sciences), there was a call for papers for a special issue of a journal, on “children's sexual subjectivity”. The premise was that children’s sexual feelings are stigmatised, and as this causes shame in children, it should be destigmatised and the children’s sexualities liberated.

It seems clear that there is a pincer movement happening, with the idea of oppressed “maps” on one flank, and the sexual liberation of children on the other.

And too many gullible academics are lapping it all up.

ConstructionTime · 13/11/2024 22:24

Bannedontherun · 11/11/2024 20:53

Much as i hate the Daily Mail i wish they would pick this one up.

You can send them (or any other media) a message if you wish:
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/home/contactus/index.html

theilltemperedqueenofspacetime · 13/11/2024 21:09

Kendodd · 13/11/2024 21:02

Actually it isn't universally reviled. Iraq has just reduced the marriage age to nine. Many other countries also allow child marriage.

OMG I can't believe I forgot about that 😳 ☹️.

Well, that just settles it then: men are vile.

(NAMALT, obvs)

Kendodd · 13/11/2024 21:02

theilltemperedqueenofspacetime · 13/11/2024 18:49

What are they hoping to achieve? It will never be normalised, because it is universally reviled.

Yes, we are all responsible for our actions, not our feelings. No, we can't kill or imprison them all, because we have to wait for them to commit a crime first.

But they would have to have a death wish to confide in anyone about it, and that's never not going to be true.

Actually it isn't universally reviled. Iraq has just reduced the marriage age to nine. Many other countries also allow child marriage.

OuterSpaceCadet · 13/11/2024 19:09

theilltemperedqueenofspacetime · 13/11/2024 15:17

Well, this is the kind of thing that makes academics and 'the left' look ridiculous.

But there is a real underlying problem of how to stop offending, if everyone treats them with disgust irrespective of whether their actual behaviour is impeccable.

They can't support each other, because of mission creep - they egg each other on to break the law/campaign to change the law.

I read about a project to provide released offenders with a support group of ordinary people who act as witnesses to the offender's life and keep him on the straight and narrow. This sounds promising, but needs enough people who are willing to hate the sin but love the sinner. Who are in short supply, I fear.

Yes I posted about it earlier in the thread. Quakers have been doing it a while.

https://www.quakersintheworld.org/quakers-in-action/86/Circles-of-Support-and-Accountability-in-Britain

You're right about the mission creep/ egging on. It's almost accepted without thought that finding a like minded "community" of people going through the same thing is always good but there are absolutely times when that's not true. Pro ana sites come to mind too.

Circles of Support and Accountability in Britain

https://www.quakersintheworld.org/quakers-in-action/86/Circles-of-Support-and-Accountability-in-Britain

theilltemperedqueenofspacetime · 13/11/2024 18:49

UtopiaPlanitia · 13/11/2024 17:10

Oh great, now there are TED Talks about how society isn’t being nice enough to paedophiles:

https://x.com/UltraDane/status/1856431394144301572

What are they hoping to achieve? It will never be normalised, because it is universally reviled.

Yes, we are all responsible for our actions, not our feelings. No, we can't kill or imprison them all, because we have to wait for them to commit a crime first.

But they would have to have a death wish to confide in anyone about it, and that's never not going to be true.

UtopiaPlanitia · 13/11/2024 17:10

Oh great, now there are TED Talks about how society isn’t being nice enough to paedophiles:

https://x.com/UltraDane/status/1856431394144301572

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theilltemperedqueenofspacetime · 13/11/2024 15:17

UtopiaPlanitia · 13/11/2024 10:51

I’m listening to the recent episode of Gia Milinovich’s podcast (The Cluster F Theory) where she and her co-host are discussing Sarah Ditum’s book Toxic with the author. They’re discussing the idea of cultural poisoning and how the internet has affected culture over the last 2 decades.

One of the theories Ditum has proffered is that because of the toxic gossip blog culture of the early 00s, the idea of slut-shaming or shaming people for inherent characteristics like sexuality wasn’t seen as a morally negative issue 20 years ago but is now considered morally repugnant because of what happened to so many (mostly) female celebrities. Her thesis is that, in strong reaction to the internet LIbertarian free for all that was the early social web, people have changed their views on what is acceptable social behaviour and now there is a new high-status moral standard that claims to be highly empathic.

I’m thinking that this new moral standard is actually, in some ways, less moral than attitudes of the past on certain issues (like sexuality) and is instead more censorious about negative public discussion of these issues that were considered immoral behaviour in the past e.g. the push to make kink shaming seem bad.

I think, Ditum’s description of social mores changing radically because of the internet also works on this issue as well: in an academia that wants to follow the current high status social mores, particularly around sexuality, this has effectively benefitted groups like paedophiles who are now busy promoting the idea via research (and in groups online) that they are being unfairly stigmatised for an ‘inherent’ characteristic. And academics are also, via sympathetic framing of research subjects, following another new ‘moral’ development, that has arisen in recent years, i.e working towards shaming people who criticise what they see as an ‘unfairly stigmatised’ group.

Well, this is the kind of thing that makes academics and 'the left' look ridiculous.

But there is a real underlying problem of how to stop offending, if everyone treats them with disgust irrespective of whether their actual behaviour is impeccable.

They can't support each other, because of mission creep - they egg each other on to break the law/campaign to change the law.

I read about a project to provide released offenders with a support group of ordinary people who act as witnesses to the offender's life and keep him on the straight and narrow. This sounds promising, but needs enough people who are willing to hate the sin but love the sinner. Who are in short supply, I fear.

UtopiaPlanitia · 13/11/2024 10:51

DeanElderberry · 13/11/2024 10:01

There are areas (RTE radio, looking at you, but it's everywhere including on MN) where any criticism of people's sexual behavior seems to be taboo. But there's plenty of judgement and stigmatising around eating habits.

I'm also reminded of a colleague back in the late 80s getting furious with a few of us (mostly but not all women) when we said we didn't intend to go to the latest very violent X-rated movie because we were self censoring and all censorship was wrong.

I’m listening to the recent episode of Gia Milinovich’s podcast (The Cluster F Theory) where she and her co-host are discussing Sarah Ditum’s book Toxic with the author. They’re discussing the idea of cultural poisoning and how the internet has affected culture over the last 2 decades.

One of the theories Ditum has proffered is that because of the toxic gossip blog culture of the early 00s, the idea of slut-shaming or shaming people for inherent characteristics like sexuality wasn’t seen as a morally negative issue 20 years ago but is now considered morally repugnant because of what happened to so many (mostly) female celebrities. Her thesis is that, in strong reaction to the internet LIbertarian free for all that was the early social web, people have changed their views on what is acceptable social behaviour and now there is a new high-status moral standard that claims to be highly empathic.

I’m thinking that this new moral standard is actually, in some ways, less moral than attitudes of the past on certain issues (like sexuality) and is instead more censorious about negative public discussion of these issues that were considered immoral behaviour in the past e.g. the push to make kink shaming seem bad.

I think, Ditum’s description of social mores changing radically because of the internet also works on this issue as well: in an academia that wants to follow the current high status social mores, particularly around sexuality, this has effectively benefitted groups like paedophiles who are now busy promoting the idea via research (and in groups online) that they are being unfairly stigmatised for an ‘inherent’ characteristic. And academics are also, via sympathetic framing of research subjects, following another new ‘moral’ development, that has arisen in recent years, i.e working towards shaming people who criticise what they see as an ‘unfairly stigmatised’ group.

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quantumbutterfly · 13/11/2024 10:46

DeanElderberry · 13/11/2024 10:33

And we can only unpack that if we accept that sex can be harmful, and that response and consent are not the same thing, and that adults should not be pushing children into exploring sex when they are not yet mentally able to understand and control what is happening.

Absolutely.