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Kamala Harris has a problem with men. Will misogyny cost her the election?

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IwantToRetire · 21/10/2024 18:01

There was an earlier thread about whether the Democrats would support a WOC candidate https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5124648-will-us-democrats-support-a-woc-as-their-candidate-or-will-they-by-pass-kamala-harris

And I think there were some later about her policies, but then maybe there weren't. https://kamalaharris.com/issues/

But was depressed to see this article Kamala Harris has a problem with men. Will misogyny cost her the election?
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2024/oct/20/kamala-harris-has-a-problem-with-men-will-misogyny-cost-her-the-election
(Should have been men have a problem, not making out she is the problem.)

Polls reflect this age-old dichotomy. Men are more likely to back Trump; women lean towards Harris. A recent New York Times-Siena poll put her 16 points ahead of Trump among female voters. NBC gave her a 14-point lead with women. Trump leads by up to 16 points among men.

Harris’s gender may be tacitly affecting or reinforcing attitudes in other voter categories. In the New York Times poll, 60% of white college-educated voters backed Harris, while 63% of white non-college-educated voters backed Trump. Likewise, Trump, who is white, has a significant advantage among white people while Harris, who identifies as black and Asian, leads among non-whites. Yet voters in two other key categories, blacks and Hispanics, are less supportive of Harris than of Biden in 2020, surveys show – a decline partly driven by younger, non-college-educated Hispanic males. Speaking in pivotal Pennsylvania, Barack Obama angrily castigated his black “brothers” for finding “all kinds of excuses” not to support a woman.

Its just really depressing to think this is the basis on which the decision about the next US President is taken. Because like it or not what the US does or doesn't do impacts on the rest of us.

Even though they are now talking about Trump's mental capacity Trump’s Unwieldy Speeches Raise Questions About His Mental Acuity https://www.forbes.com/sites/saradorn/2024/10/16/trumps-unwieldy-speeches-raise-questions-about-his-mental-acuity/ it doesn't seem likely it will change the minds of his supporters. And is already clear he doesn't feel the need to abide by accepted norms in terms of procedures.

Divisive politics in the UK seems to have lead to an apathy, disengagement (low turn out at GE) but it seems, if news channels are to be believed, that in the US the devisions are making people more active engaged. More oppositional

Or rather men not caring about women's issues, or even trusting a woman to be President.

Kamala Harris has a problem with men. Will misogyny cost her the election? | Simon Tisdall

After a rousing start to her campaign, the Democratic candidate is flatlining in the polls, and sexism could swing the vote in Donald Trump’s favour

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2024/oct/20/kamala-harris-has-a-problem-with-men-will-misogyny-cost-her-the-election

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EasternEcho · 22/10/2024 08:20

Shortshriftandlethal · 22/10/2024 08:10

He's also very plain and straight talking and a lot of people like that. Kamala, on the otherhand, waffles a lot and has no obvious coherence. People want to feel confident in their leader and need to know what it is they stand for.

With Trump - people know what they are getting ( regardless of whether or not they appreciate his style and manner); with Kamala, the suspicion is that she doesn't even know what she'd do herself. She sounds flaky.

Two example of Trump's answers very recently:

Question: Are you willing to legislate on childcare?

Answer: “Well, I would do that, and we’re sitting down. You know, I was somebody — we had, Senator Marco Rubio, and my daughter Ivanka, was so impactful on that issue. It’s a very important issue.
"But I think when you talk about the kind of numbers that I’m talking about — that, because look, child care is child care, couldn’t — you know, there’s something — you have to have it in this country. You have to have it. But when you talk about those numbers, compared to the kind of numbers that I’m talking about by taxing foreign nations at levels that they’re not used to. But they’ll get used to it very quickly. And it’s not going to stop them from doing business with us. But they’ll have a very substantial tax when they send product into our country. Those numbers are so much bigger than any numbers that we’re talking about, including child care, that it’s going to take care. We’re going to have — I look forward to having no deficits within a fairly short period of time, coupled with the reductions that I told you about on waste and fraud and all of the other things that are going on in our country.
"Because I have to stay with child care. I want to stay with child care. But those numbers are small relative to the kind of economic numbers that I’m talking about, including growth, but growth also headed up by what the plan is that I just — that I just told you about. We’re going to be taking in trillions of dollars. And as much as child care is talked about as being expensive, it’s, relatively speaking, not very expensive compared to the kind of numbers will be taking in.
"We’re going to make this into an incredible country that can afford to take care of its people. And then we’ll worry about the rest of the world. Let’s help other people. But we’re going to take care of our country first. This is about America first. It’s about make America great again. We have to do it because right now, we’re a failing nation. So we’ll take care of it. Thank you. Very good question.

Question: “Should Google be broken up?”

“I just haven’t gotten over something the Justice Department did yesterday where Virginia cleaned up its voter rolls and got rid of thousands and thousands of bad votes, and the Justice Department sued them that they should be allowed to put those bad votes and illegal votes back in and let the people vote. So I haven’t gotten over that. A lot of people have seen that. They can’t even believe it,”

I can understand people saying that Harris sometimes skirts issues, but to say tha Harris is incoherent but Trump is "straight talking" is laughable. He can barely finish a thought, let alone a sentence.

Shortshriftandlethal · 22/10/2024 08:13

TooBigForMyBoots · 21/10/2024 21:49

Misogyny and racism in the US will damage her chances. I hope they will not be enough to defeat her.

She's just not a very strong candidate. The thought of her on the internatonal stage is a concern. People suspect that she's been selected just because she's female and mixed race - not because she has any great strengths or ability.

Shortshriftandlethal · 22/10/2024 08:10

username35890 · 21/10/2024 20:18

America is still a very conservative country with a Christian ethos. Look at the rise of the trad wife.

Trump is a populist who appeals to the working class. He presents an alternative to other politicians as he says things others don't.

He wants to deport people - like the UK, immigrants are scapegoated for the state of the country. He wants to build a wall - ditto. He's anti woke, he's misogynist, he's (barely) white, he's Christian and talks of challenging the establishment.

He's very hard right; protectionist, isolationist and nationalist. Globalisation and neo liberalism have scuppered the working class and Trump tells people what they want to hear.

He's also very plain and straight talking and a lot of people like that. Kamala, on the otherhand, waffles a lot and has no obvious coherence. People want to feel confident in their leader and need to know what it is they stand for.

With Trump - people know what they are getting ( regardless of whether or not they appreciate his style and manner); with Kamala, the suspicion is that she doesn't even know what she'd do herself. She sounds flaky.

NotBadConsidering · 22/10/2024 07:41

AstonsStolenData · 22/10/2024 07:14

It happened twice in the last 23 years (and almost a third time). Before that, there was a 112 year gap between the last time someone who won the popular vote lost the EC vote. To me, twice in 16 (or 24) years is a lot more frequent than none in 112 years.

When it's been over 100 years since a problem has occurred, the ppl I know tend not to focus on it or put much energy into changing it.
"Yes, it's theoretically a problem but it's always been ok since 1888 so I'll focus on other things"

The modern Republican and Democratic parties have almost nothing in common with those parties in 1888. IF anything, the modern Democratic Party has more in common with the civil war era Republican Party than the modern Republican Party does and vice versa. The civil war era democrats represented wealthy agrarian interests, just like the current republican party. The republicans represented wealthy northeastern industry and blacks, just as the democrats do now. The ppl the parties represented changed a great deal in the New Deal and again with Johnson's Great Society (“We’ve lost the south for a generation.”) and Nixon's southern strategy. (" The more Negroes who register as Democrats in the South, the sooner the Negrophobe whites will quit the Democrats and become Republicans." )

It happened twice in the last 23 years (and almost a third time). Before that, there was a 112 year gap between the last time someone who won the popular vote lost the EC vote. To me, twice in 16 (or 24) years is a lot more frequent than none in 112 years.

But it happened twice in twenty years in the nineteenth century and everyone in 1888 probably worried it was going to be a regular problem, but it didn’t eventuate for another 112 years. So it’s happened twice since 2000, who’s to say it won’t be another 112 years before it happens again?

It doesn’t matter if the parties are different in their ethics compared to their nineteenth century counterparts, there is still nothing statistically to demonstrate that winning the popular vote/losing the electoral college is a problem.

Edit: a problem we are going to see regularly from now on

Hoardasurass · 22/10/2024 07:16

XChrome · 22/10/2024 05:08

Instead we have a woman who has admitted that she got her start as a politician by having sex with her boss, she's incapable of stringing a cogent adhock sentence together.

Utter, laughable lies. Btw, the word is adhoc, language expert. 😄

Dose picking on dyslexic people for there poor spelling make you feel big?
If you have a point to make about my post do you want to make it or just keep slinging ablist crap about mu dyslexic

AstonsStolenData · 22/10/2024 07:14

NotBadConsidering · 22/10/2024 06:43

It's coming up more now bc there is a discrepancy between the popular vote and Electoral College vote more often than there used to be.

But that isn’t true. The discrepancy between Clinton and Trump was 2%.

The discrepancy in other years when this has been an issue:

1868: 3%
1888: 0.83%
2000: 0.51%

So two occasions it’s been a fine margin and one occasion was bigger.

There was a 20 year gap between the first two occurrences, then a 112 year gap, then a 16 year gap. It’s not increasing in frequency, becoming more common, or a more modern issue.

Why do you think it's unfair to everyone?

I don’t think it’s unfair, but if both Democrats and Republicans at various stages of history have thought it unfair then it’s treating them both equally.

It happened twice in the last 23 years (and almost a third time). Before that, there was a 112 year gap between the last time someone who won the popular vote lost the EC vote. To me, twice in 16 (or 24) years is a lot more frequent than none in 112 years.

When it's been over 100 years since a problem has occurred, the ppl I know tend not to focus on it or put much energy into changing it.
"Yes, it's theoretically a problem but it's always been ok since 1888 so I'll focus on other things"

The modern Republican and Democratic parties have almost nothing in common with those parties in 1888. IF anything, the modern Democratic Party has more in common with the civil war era Republican Party than the modern Republican Party does and vice versa. The civil war era democrats represented wealthy agrarian interests, just like the current republican party. The republicans represented wealthy northeastern industry and blacks, just as the democrats do now. The ppl the parties represented changed a great deal in the New Deal and again with Johnson's Great Society (“We’ve lost the south for a generation.”) and Nixon's southern strategy. (" The more Negroes who register as Democrats in the South, the sooner the Negrophobe whites will quit the Democrats and become Republicans." )

Hoardasurass · 22/10/2024 07:12

Daisydaisydaizee · 22/10/2024 02:15

How do you know MO would have been a brilliant president?

Compared to Biden, Harris and Trump she's a rock god who can speak intellectually about most subjects and shock horror she actually admits when she doesn't know something and goes and researches it. That makes her someone who in my books has the potential to be a great president though ofcourse I could be weong

mids2019 · 22/10/2024 06:43

The democrats had an opportunity not to have a coronation and they blew it. We forget the US is a conservative country with both misogyny and racism so any woman of colour has to be exceptional unfortunately and Kamala is not. It was such a lost opportunity as Trump has no many poor features to target.

NotBadConsidering · 22/10/2024 06:43

AstonsStolenData · 22/10/2024 06:11

"No one has yet explained on this thread why the electoral college/popular vote discrepancy in 2016 is an indication that things need to change. In practically every presidential election in the history of the USA it hasn’t been an issue, why should it change because of the rare occasions it is?

The danger is in setting a precedent for altering a system to better enable candidates one might like or prefer, because it quite easily can go against you. If it’s unfair to everyone, that’s a check that is needed"

It's coming up more now bc there is a discrepancy between the popular vote and Electoral College vote more often than there used to be. Ppl I know generally care about the issue but it's not a hot, burning topic unless someone wins the EC but loses the popular vote. They think that the EC is antidemocratic but as long as the person with the most popular votes wins the EC as well, they aren't too bothered by it. A candidate winning the popular vote but losing the EC vote has only happened five times in US history. Two of those times were fairly recently: 2000 and 2016., In 2020, Biden won both but he won the popular vote by more than 7 million votes, while his Electoral College victory was decided by fewer than 50,000 votes in a handful of states. Ppl are more vocal about it now bc it seems to be more of a problem in recent years. .

I've been against the Electoral College for decades. So have most of the ppl I know, even if "my" candidate wins the election. (BTW, I almost always vote for third parties bc I live in a state where my vote doesn't matter so "my" candidate hasn't won in decades. But I was strongly opposed to the EC even before that.)

" If it’s unfair to everyone, that’s a check that is needed"
It doesn't hurt everyone, it systematically underweights the votes of ppl in large states and overweights the votes of ppl who live in less populous states. Why do you think it's unfair to everyone? I don't understand why you think that but even if it was unfair to everyone, my goal would be to try to find a system that's fair to everyone, not unfair to everyone. Why is unfair better?

It's coming up more now bc there is a discrepancy between the popular vote and Electoral College vote more often than there used to be.

But that isn’t true. The discrepancy between Clinton and Trump was 2%.

The discrepancy in other years when this has been an issue:

1868: 3%
1888: 0.83%
2000: 0.51%

So two occasions it’s been a fine margin and one occasion was bigger.

There was a 20 year gap between the first two occurrences, then a 112 year gap, then a 16 year gap. It’s not increasing in frequency, becoming more common, or a more modern issue.

Why do you think it's unfair to everyone?

I don’t think it’s unfair, but if both Democrats and Republicans at various stages of history have thought it unfair then it’s treating them both equally.

User135644 · 22/10/2024 06:35

One of the big reasons Trump won was a majority of white females voted him over Hilary.

PortiasBiscuit · 22/10/2024 06:18

Well, you can’t say that the American political campaigns aren’t thorough. Imagine getting as far as a British Women’s forum to target your propaganda.
I reluctantly salute you.

AstonsStolenData · 22/10/2024 06:11

"No one has yet explained on this thread why the electoral college/popular vote discrepancy in 2016 is an indication that things need to change. In practically every presidential election in the history of the USA it hasn’t been an issue, why should it change because of the rare occasions it is?

The danger is in setting a precedent for altering a system to better enable candidates one might like or prefer, because it quite easily can go against you. If it’s unfair to everyone, that’s a check that is needed"

It's coming up more now bc there is a discrepancy between the popular vote and Electoral College vote more often than there used to be. Ppl I know generally care about the issue but it's not a hot, burning topic unless someone wins the EC but loses the popular vote. They think that the EC is antidemocratic but as long as the person with the most popular votes wins the EC as well, they aren't too bothered by it. A candidate winning the popular vote but losing the EC vote has only happened five times in US history. Two of those times were fairly recently: 2000 and 2016., In 2020, Biden won both but he won the popular vote by more than 7 million votes, while his Electoral College victory was decided by fewer than 50,000 votes in a handful of states. Ppl are more vocal about it now bc it seems to be more of a problem in recent years. .

I've been against the Electoral College for decades. So have most of the ppl I know, even if "my" candidate wins the election. (BTW, I almost always vote for third parties bc I live in a state where my vote doesn't matter so "my" candidate hasn't won in decades. But I was strongly opposed to the EC even before that.)

" If it’s unfair to everyone, that’s a check that is needed"
It doesn't hurt everyone, it systematically underweights the votes of ppl in large states and overweights the votes of ppl who live in less populous states. Why do you think it's unfair to everyone? I don't understand why you think that but even if it was unfair to everyone, my goal would be to try to find a system that's fair to everyone, not unfair to everyone. Why is unfair better?

XChrome · 22/10/2024 05:19

Hoardasurass · 21/10/2024 19:24

The admission about her boss was from a tv interview she did years ago I can't remember where sorry. As for her inability to speak in a coherent way have you ever heard her response to an unscripted question? If not may I suggest that you listen to the 60 minutes add where they play her unedited answer to the questions about Israel, it's quite something and also just the most recent example.
You are correct about Michelle Obama unfortunately. I honestly believe that she would have won and been a brilliant president

The admission about her boss was from a tv interview she did years ago I can't remember where sorry.

Suuuure it was.
She was already an assistant DA when she met Willie Brown, so saying he was responsible for her getting the job is a lie. It has been thoroughly debunked.

ItsReallyShitingUp · 22/10/2024 05:12

The title phrasing makes it sound reasonable for men to have a problem with her, whereas if it were ‘Men say ‘No Girls Allowed!’ to Harris White-House Bid’, then that puts things into a better perspective.

XChrome · 22/10/2024 05:08

Hoardasurass · 21/10/2024 18:52

The problem is that Harris is one of the biggest proponents of identity politics and is a complete shit show of a politician.
If the Democrats (party) had chosen Michelle Obama to run against Trump as many Democrats (voters) wanted then I strongly believe that things would be very different. Instead we have a woman who has admitted that she got her start as a politician by having sex with her boss, she's incapable of stringing a cogent adhock sentence together.

Instead we have a woman who has admitted that she got her start as a politician by having sex with her boss, she's incapable of stringing a cogent adhock sentence together.

Utter, laughable lies. Btw, the word is adhoc, language expert. 😄

EasternEcho · 22/10/2024 04:54

yesmen · 22/10/2024 01:53

Again, the USA voted for Hillary CLinton.

If, as someone said upthread, M. Obama ran tomorrow, it would be a landslide.

The candidate is a problem and even more than that, the two parties are a problem. The parties are increasingly undemocratic.

When we talk about the US, it is understood that we are talking about voting in terms of the electoral college, not the popular vote, Some states are definitely more misogynistic than others. It is a little disingenous to look at the rolling back of women's rights, especially reproductive rights in these states and not say that misogyny is not at play, let alone Vance's constant comments on the matter of what women are good for.

IwantToRetire · 22/10/2024 03:02

Analysis of validated votes:

Kamala Harris has a problem with men. Will misogyny cost her the election?
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IwantToRetire · 22/10/2024 02:59

Another repeated fallacy, which again is really strange on a forum about women. Repeating a falsehood over and over again doesn't make it true.

Hilary Clinton GOT MORE VOTES THAN TRUMP.

It doesn't matter if you hate her, it doesn't matter if there was some conspiracy, or Trump circulated lies.

When it came to making a choice between Trump and Clinton MORE individual US citizens voted for Clinton.

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IwantToRetire · 22/10/2024 02:55

Honestly people seem to think insulting other posters is the way to win an point.

Nobody is saying the Electoral College is wrong because of Trump.

Those of you saying this have invented it as a way to pretend the issue of the Electoral College is just sour grapes.

Actually, some people have been politically aware for a long time, and a lot of people say the Electoral College is ANTI DEMOCRATIC.

The role of the President is NOT the same as those in both house who are the direct representatives, so there is NO need to weight the vote in the presidential election as voters already have representatives in both.

It such a whatabouterry arguement.

This is about making the President genuinely representative of a US wide vote by individual voters.

It should not be part of the party system. It should be apart from that.

So please stop with the weighting arguement and try and escape from the ding dont of party politics.

Can you not begin to grasp that in fact it might be better to have someone who is not tied to a Party.

So just to go through this for the zillionth time.

US citizens get to vote for those who they hope will represent them through the elections for Congress and the House of Representatives (NB the name of the last).

The President is not there as a respresentative.

The very last thing the vote should be is something manipulated by political parties, which political parties have done in the past century.

Why do you want to kowtow to such a blatant attempt to corrupt the concept of individuals directly voting in the idividual who should be above the distorting decision making of party politics.

Quote:

The power of the Executive Branch is vested in the President of the United States, who also acts as head of state and Commander-in-Chief of the armed forces. The President is responsible for implementing and enforcing the laws written by Congress and, to that end, appoints the heads of the federal agencies, including the Cabinet. The Vice President is also part of the Executive Branch, ready to assume the Presidency should the need arise.

Note the word "executive" branch ie carrying out.

Note the responsibility for implement etc., written by Congress.

I am not saying this because I think it is ideal, but because these are the facts.

Do voters think the person they want to be President is qualified to effective carry out the decisions made by those they have directly elected to represent them in Congress etc..

Personally I find it scary that apparently that a complete novice could become Commander-in-Chief of the armed forces.

And appoint judges(?)

So all this endless twaddle about people needing to know the President will represent them, is not relevant. That is relevant in terms of the 2 Houses.

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yesmen · 22/10/2024 02:47

Great thread OP.

I am learning a lot!

NotBadConsidering · 22/10/2024 02:43

yesmen · 22/10/2024 01:51

It woukd be a mistake to consider the electoral college in terms of Rich White Men.

Yes, at the time, RWM were working on a system that would represent the people (ie themselves).

But, they were not trying to keep people out (they did not see that women or poc would ever be in play), they were trying to set up circuit breakers to prevent one person grabbing power (a KING) and on the one hand, prevent mob rule.

And there was a lot of both those issues in 1700s.

But, they were not trying to keep people out (they did not see that women or poc would ever be in play), they were trying to set up circuit breakers to prevent one person grabbing power (a KING) and on the one hand, prevent mob rule.
And there was a lot of both those issues in 1700s.

And now. The mob attempted to rule after the last election.

NotBadConsidering · 22/10/2024 02:39

AstonsStolenData · 22/10/2024 01:57

Bc I was responding to the statement that "No one was complaining about the electoral college in states like Tennessee when it voted for Clinton in 1996.
What I am saying is everyone rails against the election system in any country when it elects someone they don’t like, and everyone keeps quiet about it when it elects someone they like." The part I omitted didn't seem relevant to the claim

Ppl did complain about the EC in 1996. I tried to show that ppl have consistently opposed the EC. I couldn't find 1996 specifically but there is no reason to think that ppl, in general, overwhelmingly disliked it in 1968, 1981, and 1987 but suddenly liked it in 1996.

I never claimed that no one supported it. Obviously, they did or the US would have eliminated it already.

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Ppl did complain about the EC in 1996. I tried to show that ppl have consistently opposed the EC. I couldn't find 1996 specifically but there is no reason to think that ppl, in general, overwhelmingly disliked it in 1968, 1981, and 1987 but suddenly liked it in 1996.

But there will always be people who like it and people who don’t like it and it will always come up, and most likely around elections. People didn’t like or dislike it anymore in 1996 than they did at other times, but I doubt Bill Clinton and the Democrats complained then.

No one has yet explained on this thread why the electoral college/popular vote discrepancy in 2016 is an indication that things need to change. In practically every presidential election in the history of the USA it hasn’t been an issue, why should it change because of the rare occasions it is?

The danger is in setting a precedent for altering a system to better enable candidates one might like or prefer, because it quite easily can go against you. If it’s unfair to everyone, that’s a check that is needed.

Ger1atricMillennial · 22/10/2024 02:28

DT beat every other much better qualified candidate (i.e. white men) to with the Republican nomination. This is even after he didn't hand over power peacefully after the last election and has been convicted of a felony since. Its not a fair test that the only two times that women have been up for president they have been up against DT.

I am confident that she is giving a bloody good go, and she picked a great running mate that is systematically taking brilliant pot shots at DT. But the only reason he was went last time was because of COVID which toppled alot of popularist politicians. They were put up against experts who were very skilled in evidence based reasoning and it really sorted the wheat from the chaff.

I think DT will still become president again even if he loses this one. Part of me wants him to win so he will just go away and we don't have to deal with the news being jammed up with his reactions and his run next time. The world is better prepared this time, we can see him comming and the sooner its over the better.

betterangels · 22/10/2024 02:28

napody · 21/10/2024 18:38

That's a really misleading headline with the phrase 'having a problem with' meaming what it does in the UK. It makes it sound as if Harris is a misandrist. It's MEN that have a problem with HER.

YES. Came to say this. She is not the problem.

US elections are so utterly depressing. The only thing that matters in the end is the electoral college, and I am so nervous.

Daisydaisydaizee · 22/10/2024 02:15

Hoardasurass · 21/10/2024 19:24

The admission about her boss was from a tv interview she did years ago I can't remember where sorry. As for her inability to speak in a coherent way have you ever heard her response to an unscripted question? If not may I suggest that you listen to the 60 minutes add where they play her unedited answer to the questions about Israel, it's quite something and also just the most recent example.
You are correct about Michelle Obama unfortunately. I honestly believe that she would have won and been a brilliant president

How do you know MO would have been a brilliant president?

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