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New lesbian club night for men

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TwistedWonder · 10/10/2024 19:35

https://x.com/Sorelle_Arduino/status/1844393457462411584

Seriously?? So black men getting for free, all other men half price but the actual female lesbians have to pay full price to enter this lesbians only run by and for men.

Make the world stop 😫

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https://x.com/Sorelle_Arduino/status/1844393457462411584

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lonelywater · 11/10/2024 12:31

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 11/10/2024 10:28

Looking on insta (because I appear to have too much time on my hands), it looks like it did go ahead and was attended by a small number of women and men. Obviously I can’t tell their gender identities or sexual orientation from photos

a follow up is planned for December.

I think the creepy chap doing the organising is also an aspiring musician and was by coincidence a special guest performer

so should you wish to familiarise yourself with his oeuvre for free you know what to do. Just make sure you identify as a black, working class man identifying as a woman

Edited

does/did that involve playing the piano with his knob? Or is that so very last year?

ChaChaChooey · 11/10/2024 11:55

Good job we’re barred tervern, because obviously we’d overwhelm the organisers in our mad rush to enjoy the facilities on offer across the tracks from Lewisham Muncipal Tip!

New lesbian club night for men
New lesbian club night for men
New lesbian club night for men
puffyisgood · 11/10/2024 11:13

looks horrendous to me but it's of course absolutely right that someone with these interests should be able to organise an event aimed at like minded people. they have a right to run it without fear of gatecrashing or other sabotage in just the same way as any other group.

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 11/10/2024 10:28

Looking on insta (because I appear to have too much time on my hands), it looks like it did go ahead and was attended by a small number of women and men. Obviously I can’t tell their gender identities or sexual orientation from photos

a follow up is planned for December.

I think the creepy chap doing the organising is also an aspiring musician and was by coincidence a special guest performer

so should you wish to familiarise yourself with his oeuvre for free you know what to do. Just make sure you identify as a black, working class man identifying as a woman

Ereshkigalangcleg · 11/10/2024 10:05

Plenty of women have formed a social and political identity around solidarity with trans people and sticking it to the TERFS, and I can imagine a lot of #bekind socia pressure to go as well. The lesbians showing solidarity might not be so keen to cop off with a male but I'm sure some of the more flexible queer women will - what better way for a spicy straight to prove her queer bona fides by getting off with not just a woman (so lesbian!) but a transwoman? (So Inclusive! so Proud! Living my values!)

Yes.

EnjoythemoneyJane · 11/10/2024 09:55

Shortpoet · 10/10/2024 20:24

Can you get in for free if you identify as a black trans woman?

😂👏

FlirtsWithRhinos · 11/10/2024 09:45

GailBlancheViola · 11/10/2024 09:25

The date on the flyer said 21/09? So where is the crowing about how wonderful this event was.

Ha cross post... I guess I gave the allies too much credit 😂

FlirtsWithRhinos · 11/10/2024 09:44

I expect with enough publicity he will get a good turnout of women who actually are lesbian and women who identify as queer and decide they count as well to claim it's been a resounding success. Plenty of women have formed a social and political identity around solidarity with trans people and sticking it to the TERFS, and I can imagine a lot of #bekind socia pressure to go as well. The lesbians showing solidarity might not be so keen to cop off with a male but I'm sure some of the more flexible queer women will - what better way for a spicy straight to prove her queer bona fides by getting off with not just a woman (so lesbian!) but a transwoman? (So Inclusive! so Proud! Living my values!)

I antiplcipate many social media posts of a full club with lots of people snogging.

The fact that some lesbians (claim to) see trans women as women sexually does not mean all lesbians see trans women as women sexually, and regardless of how well this event does or doesn't go, the latter group should have their desire to have male free events understood and respected without protest and agression from men who believe their sexist ideas about "womanhood" entitle them to decide who it acceptable for women to reject and why.

GailBlancheViola · 11/10/2024 09:25

The date on the flyer said 21/09? So where is the crowing about how wonderful this event was.

Oganesson118 · 11/10/2024 09:24

How do you prove you’re trans working class? Take a payslip along?

YesterdaysFuture · 11/10/2024 09:23

It's a good idea, I would love to see the disappointment on their faces when they realise no real women have turned up.

There are gay clubs that have trans nights, but those are for homosexual transsexuals (gay men to trans women) and the heterosexual men attracted to them. So gay men wanting a male partner.

This has clearly been designed by a heterosexual man wanting to date homosexual women. And a heterosexual man who can't hide his hatred in any of his posts.

The good news is his ego and wallet are going to take a massive hit from this flop.

wulves · 11/10/2024 09:23

WhatterySquash · 10/10/2024 21:29

Also if they can exclude terfs, logically that means terfs can have their own female-only spaces too right?

Intolerance is a one way street.

Surf2Live · 11/10/2024 09:21

I predict this will be a one and done event, unless the organiser has deep pockets.

I expect this idea has not come from someone with a head for business. It's not going to be profitable.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 11/10/2024 09:12

Apparently……,.

Aaaaaw whether this came from the male people or their enabling female friends they should get a little badge for trying so very hard

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 11/10/2024 08:46

Declaring yourself to be a treasure

now that’s chutzpah

TwistedWonder · 11/10/2024 08:43

Apparently……,.

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BernardBlacksMolluscs · 11/10/2024 08:13

The tone of the material is very much ‘Lesbians should be making themselves available to trans identifying men to show those evil terfs that lesbians are on the side of said men’

he wants to guilt trip lesbian women into having sexual encounters with men or guilt straight women into role playing as lesbians to shore up his fantasy identity

I know I’m not saying anything that hasn’t been said before but the cheeky fuckery of it still boggles my mind every time I see it, as does the fact that there really are women out there who buy into the narrative of men like this rather than going ‘yeah, nice try mate’

TWETMIRF · 11/10/2024 07:45

It's a night for people with or without a penis but not all of them, who fancy people with or without a penis but not all of them.

Look how clear inclusive language has made things, so much better than when words had a clearly understood meaning.

Grimgrump · 11/10/2024 02:12

TwistedWonder · 10/10/2024 21:15

💯- they’ll hate the fact it’s basically a sausage fest with dresses and lipstick and there’s not wall to wall lesbians gagging for girl dick

I hope so! But it makes me very sad and angry that things have come to this. I’m old enough to have gone to ‘ladies night’ at gay nightclubs in the early 2000s. It was just women (female!) dancing, drinking and having lots of fun. It felt very freeing and safe. The gay men stayed away, and any straight men who tried to gatecrash with ‘but I’m a lesbian trapped in a male body, har har!’ were laughed at by the bouncers and told to fuck off.
We even had a group of towering drag queens walking by accompany us to the train station to make sure we weren’t harassed or followed! Funnily, they were very clear that they were men who liked performing in drag and would have been appalled to be called TWs.

eatfigs · 11/10/2024 01:01

I'm sure they'll have every type of lesbiman

New lesbian club night for men
NPET · 11/10/2024 00:03

I'd like to go along DRESSED as a man, dildo at the ready.

PurpleSparkledPixie · 10/10/2024 23:22

Black trans get in free but trans POC will be half price? I can't see that going down well.

EDIT - Nvm, I'm guessing they mean identity as poc

TempestTost · 10/10/2024 22:49

You know, I think this is ok.

If they want a gathering like this that's fine. The black men thing is a bit weird, but I guess if they don't like it they can ignore it and stay home.

They can wallow in their self-delusion together.

Boiledbeetle · 10/10/2024 22:48

Maybe they are using abbreviations? So far I've got:

LESBIANS:
Lads Enjoying Seeing Boys In A Nightclub. Slay!

I'm struggling with Dykes though

D Y K E S:
Do You Know - Everyone's Single!

Myalternate · 10/10/2024 22:30

Surely that’s a spelling mistake? They’ve spelt ‘Dick’ incorrectly.

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