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Lexi Secker, rapist, and his pronouns

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ArabellaScott · 28/09/2024 15:43

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c8rdpdm4r4ro

'A trans woman has been jailed for six and a half years after being found guilty of rape following a night out.
Lexi Secker raped a woman in Blunsdon, Wiltshire, on 23 April 2023. The attack took place before Secker began identifying as a woman.
The attack took place in secluded woods after the pair took a walk "under the pretence of sobering up".
Secker, 35, of Lowbourne, near Melksham, has been ordered to carry out her sentence in a male prison and will remain on the sex offenders register indefinitely.
Throughout the sentencing hearing, barristers and the judge referred to the defendant as "Ms Secker" and "she".
However, in a victim personal statement, the woman raped by Secker used the name "Alex" to describe her attacker.
She said: "He took away my trust in people and myself. The assault consumed me with shame and fear."
The woman, who attended court in person to see Secker sentenced, added she had experienced "unbearable anxiety, shame and fear" since the attack.'

Fuck every single barrister and judge that colluded in this utter pish. This not a woman in any shape or form.

I can't imagine how his victim felt hearing the court pandering to his bullshit.

Flowers to her, brave woman.

A custody image of Lexi Secker, formerly Alexander Secker. They have long hair and a dark beard

Trans woman Lexi Secker jailed for six years for rape

Lexi Secker attacked the female victim in the woods after a night out.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c8rdpdm4r4ro

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lunar1 · 28/09/2024 18:43

I don't get it at all, by legal definition in the uk, only a man can commit rape. Why on earth are they playing these stupid fucking games.

VoodooQualities · 28/09/2024 18:35

I don't understand why news organisations can't have a policy of "We'll call trans women by their chosen pronouns unless they use their penises to rape somebody". Literally only lunatics would disagree with that policy.

ArabellaScott · 28/09/2024 18:34

ReadWithScepticism · 28/09/2024 18:09

Also fuck the BBC for this paragraph:

Secker, 35, of Lowbourne, near Melksham, has been ordered to carry out her sentence in a male prison and will remain on the sex offenders register indefinitely.

There is ABSOLUTELY no need for "her" in this paragraph. Even if the reporter and/or the editorial team are all too fucking weak-minded or unprincipled to use "his" they could have said "carry out the sentence" so the decision to use "her" is just a gratuitous knife to the guts of this man's victim.

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Alectoishome · 28/09/2024 18:25

ReadWithScepticism · 28/09/2024 18:09

Also fuck the BBC for this paragraph:

Secker, 35, of Lowbourne, near Melksham, has been ordered to carry out her sentence in a male prison and will remain on the sex offenders register indefinitely.

There is ABSOLUTELY no need for "her" in this paragraph. Even if the reporter and/or the editorial team are all too fucking weak-minded or unprincipled to use "his" they could have said "carry out the sentence" so the decision to use "her" is just a gratuitous knife to the guts of this man's victim.

What can you expect from the BBC. An organisation known to be longstanding harbourers and protectors of paedophiles and sex offenders.

ReadWithScepticism · 28/09/2024 18:09

Also fuck the BBC for this paragraph:

Secker, 35, of Lowbourne, near Melksham, has been ordered to carry out her sentence in a male prison and will remain on the sex offenders register indefinitely.

There is ABSOLUTELY no need for "her" in this paragraph. Even if the reporter and/or the editorial team are all too fucking weak-minded or unprincipled to use "his" they could have said "carry out the sentence" so the decision to use "her" is just a gratuitous knife to the guts of this man's victim.

murasaki · 28/09/2024 18:07

I do struggle with the whole 'I promise to tell the truth' bit and then being obliged to lie about the sex of the perpetrator.

Alectoishome · 28/09/2024 17:50

lordloveadog · 28/09/2024 17:21

Sounds like the judge’s computer needs looking at

Absolutely.

BobbyBiscuits · 28/09/2024 17:49

I honestly don't think anyone found guilty of rape/sex abuse against females should be allowed to 'identify' as the opposite sex. If you did that to a woman then you cannot be associated with them in any way. They should've kept calling him male and He.
I'm glad he went to a male prison.

duc748 · 28/09/2024 17:44

Women can't commit rape, but I understand there have been a very few rare cases where women have been charged with it, and what's happened is that man has done the raping, and the woman is being charged under 'joint enterprise'.

Are we confident on the stats business? Can we be confident that no crimes committed by men are assigned to women? One thing saying it's happened in this case. But in every case?

NPET · 28/09/2024 17:33

Hopscotchnumbers · 28/09/2024 17:21

Legally a woman cannot commit rape. If the person sentenced to a male prison for rape is a woman then the police, cps, jury and judge have all messed up severely.

True.
And I would say not just legally but physically we can't.
We can do all sorts of horrible (sexual) things but we can't rape.

ArabellaScott · 28/09/2024 17:30

Reduxx:

https://reduxx.info/uk-trans-identified-male-railed-against-bigoted-rosie-duffield-transphobic-jk-rowling-just-before-he-was-convicted-of-rape/

Here is his X. Full of attacks on 'gc' women.

https://x.com/itsTRANSylvania

UK: Trans Activist Railed Against "Bigoted" Rosie Duffield, "Transphobic" JK Rowling Just Before He Was Convicted Of Rape - Reduxx

A trans-identified male recently convicted of raping a woman was a vocal “anti-TERF” activist who targeted women critical of gender ideology. Lexi Secker, also known as Lexi Bowen, was “tried as a woman” for the horrific crime. The assault is said to h...

https://reduxx.info/uk-trans-identified-male-railed-against-bigoted-rosie-duffield-transphobic-jk-rowling-just-before-he-was-convicted-of-rape

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lordloveadog · 28/09/2024 17:21

Sounds like the judge’s computer needs looking at

Hopscotchnumbers · 28/09/2024 17:21

NPET · 28/09/2024 17:18

Good point. But he'd probably say "women can rape" which starts a whole different topic - on 2 levels.

Legally a woman cannot commit rape. If the person sentenced to a male prison for rape is a woman then the police, cps, jury and judge have all messed up severely.

Alectoishome · 28/09/2024 17:20

I always feel very suspicious of judges who become notorious for consistently giving sex offenders lenient sentences. Such judges should be investigated themselves to find out why they are sympathetic to such bestial creatures.

NPET · 28/09/2024 17:18

Hopscotchnumbers · 28/09/2024 15:53

If the judge believes it’s a woman and refers to that person as a woman, how can he sentence ‘her’ for rape at all never mind to a male prison?

Good point. But he'd probably say "women can rape" which starts a whole different topic - on 2 levels.

lcakethereforeIam · 28/09/2024 17:15

I posted a Telegraph article about this in the It will never happen thread. The extra information on the judge does concern me regarding sentencing

https://archive.ph/dRDse

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2024/09/27/trans-rapist-referred-to-as-she-by-judge-sent-male-prison/

especially as the judge being quoted here

The judge said he was sentencing Secker “with regard to how difficult a prison sentence in a male institution will be for you”.

Did he reduce the sentence because Secker claimed to be trans? I'm struggling to see any other interpretation to that comment.

Trans rapist referred to as ‘she’ by judge… but is sent to male prison

Lexi Secker, who raped a woman on a night out in 2023 while living as a man, sentenced to six years

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2024/09/27/trans-rapist-referred-to-as-she-by-judge-sent-male-prison

Theeyeballsinthesky · 28/09/2024 17:11

Perhaps this might help explain why pronouns matter to the “but why can’t you just beeee kind??/how does it affect you?” brigade

Catiette · 28/09/2024 17:11

Something else about the article. The shifting use of man, woman, male, transwoman etc. are pretty hard to follow even when you're well-versed in all this. And if you are, it also highlights the incoherence of the ideology.

One assumes the "woman" victim is described as such on the basis of her sex, for obvious reasons. But when the perpetrator is, in contrast, described as "identifying as" a man, does that not highlight a problematic inconsistency? By the time we read the explicit and emphatic, "At the time of the offence, you were a man", it seems clear that, in both court and article, "man" and "woman" must logically be being used in line with the perpetrator's interpretation of these words - that of self-perception, not biology. But does the victim agree with that?

If not, his reality is being imposed on her - redefining her according to his perception - even in the aftermath of a case which is all about his removal of her agency in order to meet his "needs". And in a context in which her sex is absolutely fundamental, it's implicitly being dismissed as secondary - to his preferences. Ironic.

I don't like reflecting on it in this detail so soon after it's happened - it feels intrusive to do so - so probably won't explore this aspect further... but, even as I type that, I think, again: if I feel that way about this, I struggle to understand how there's not, at the very least, more official recognition of the complexities of respecting convicted criminals' pronouns in certain contexts.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 28/09/2024 16:54

Catiette · 28/09/2024 16:43

Something else that's struck me for the first time, that really highlights the power of subtle linguistic shifts...

Compare:

  1. The BBC's "Lexi Secker raped a woman in Blunsdon, Wiltshire, on 23 April 2023. The attack took place before Secker began identifying as a woman."

  2. The alternative "Lexi Secker raped a woman in Blunsdon, Wiltshire, on 23 April 2023. Since the attack, Secker has begun identifying as a woman."

Would you agree with my sense that the first has undertones of - or at least the potential to be interpreted as - This was an attack more likely to be prepetrated by a man than by a transwoman? And that the second, in contrast, leaves more space for the reader to at least consider the possibility that such a transition may be in some way cynical?

Both versions are factual. Neither interpretation is definitive enough even to be considered as subtext.

Yet all the same, I do think they have a very subtly different resonance...

Is that me?

Edited

That's a really good point.
Of course all this undermines the "principle" that people are who they say they are and TWAW (except for rapists). The judiciary and the police repeatedly beclown themselves with all this. It brings the law into disrepute.
No wonder people are so cynical about authority when they pander to and prioritise the demands of a rapist.

Catiette · 28/09/2024 16:52

To add, I've now read the article and can see this timeline is addressed more explicitly in it (in, for example, the judges' remarks), and this creates a wider context to the language used above in a way that means my interpretation of it in this instance may not stand. I still feel the two quotations above - BBC and my hypothetical - in isolation are an interesting indication of the power of language and how subtle its effects can be, though.

Catiette · 28/09/2024 16:43

Something else that's struck me for the first time, that really highlights the power of subtle linguistic shifts...

Compare:

  1. The BBC's "Lexi Secker raped a woman in Blunsdon, Wiltshire, on 23 April 2023. The attack took place before Secker began identifying as a woman."

  2. The alternative "Lexi Secker raped a woman in Blunsdon, Wiltshire, on 23 April 2023. Since the attack, Secker has begun identifying as a woman."

Would you agree with my sense that the first has undertones of - or at least the potential to be interpreted as - This was an attack more likely to be prepetrated by a man than by a transwoman? And that the second, in contrast, leaves more space for the reader to at least consider the possibility that such a transition may be in some way cynical?

Both versions are factual. Neither interpretation is definitive enough even to be considered as subtext.

Yet all the same, I do think they have a very subtly different resonance...

Is that me?

murasaki · 28/09/2024 16:26

And would the victim have been told off if referring to this man as he in court? It's happened before with the Hyde Park case.

RedHelenB · 28/09/2024 16:10

SilenceInside · 28/09/2024 15:56

@RedHelenB I was referring to the victim!!

I see, bloody pronouns.

Justme56 · 28/09/2024 16:08

I noticed both the BBC and the Telegraph reported the rape as occurring in 2023. However, other local papers and Reduxx (I think), suggest it was 2021. I think 2021 is correct which must have been awful for the victim to have to wait all that time and then hear her rapist referred to as ‘she’ in court.

www.swindonadvertiser.co.uk/news/24614663.transgender-rapist-jailed-blunsdon-woods-attack/

SilenceInside · 28/09/2024 15:56

I wouldn't call that pos man "she" in a month of Sundays.

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