So we've reached the point of only nice men who behave properly will be granted the honorific fiction of being called women? Really?
It's over then.
Either it's something any man can do, or it isn't. Either any man who IDs as a woman must be respected - whether or not he's a total rapist thug or an angel on earth - or none of them can be. It's going to be obvious discrimination otherwise.
If it's going to be withheld from some men on the grounds that they're unsafe to be in women's spaces then that's it for any men in women's spaces, you can't gatekeep at the door to check offending histories or the ones that haven't been charged yet, it's ridiculous. And it makes it clear it's a big sweet and conditional gesture of indulgence towards men, not an actual belief.
Fgs can we just get out third spaces now, say a firm NO about any men at all in women's single sex spaces ever, and withstand the meltdowns from IW, and all crack on in peace?