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Algerian boxer filing legal claim over online harrassment

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GoogleWhacking · 10/08/2024 22:26

news.sky.com/story/algerian-boxer-imane-khelif-at-centre-of-olympic-gender-row-files-legal-complaint-over-online-harassment-13195264

She could have put this to bed by sharing DNA tests. I'm struggling to feel sympathy, although it must be horrid.

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Theeyeballsinthesky · 11/08/2024 16:40

RedToothBrush · 11/08/2024 16:39

Its always men's feelz are more more important than bitter wimmins desire for safety and fairness.

I dunno - us women and our desire to be treated fairly and not exposed to unnecessary risks

RedToothBrush · 11/08/2024 16:39

Its always men's feelz are more more important than bitter wimmins desire for safety and fairness.

Jaxhog · 11/08/2024 16:38

helenwaspushed · 11/08/2024 14:19

This has exposed the worst of humanity to me and I feel physically ill. To watch a mob of people repeatedly misgender someone due to false information is one thing. On top of that, demanding a generic test and medical evidence of their sex. Entitlement and bigotry. Disgusting. This is why people hurt themselves. This is why people are murdered for their differences by intolerant and power hungry bullies. Shame on all of you. You all are so disappointing.

Imagine if your child was treated this way by a bunch of strangers on the Internet.

The world has much worse.going on than a masculine looking woman winning a sporting event.

Get your heads out of your asses please "ladies". You all are not real women.

Gross.

It isn't about bigotry. Would I be a bigot if I insist the Paralympics be closed to able bodied people? Of course not! It's about fairness and safety.

Do I rant and rave about being short and old? Of course not! It's a fact of life.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 11/08/2024 16:37

This has exposed the worst of humanity to me and I feel physically ill. To watch a mob of people repeatedly misgender someone due to false information is one thing. On top of that, demanding a generic test and medical evidence of their sex. Entitlement and bigotry. Disgusting. This is why people hurt themselves. This is why people are murdered for their differences by intolerant and power hungry bullies. Shame on all of you. You all are so disappointing.

so the worst of humanity is not (off the top of my head)

  • men gang raping female civilians in war zones
  • stoning women to death for adultery
  • banning girls from having an education.
  • abolishing abortion so women and girls are forced to give birth to babies they don’t Want or risk their own health trying to protect cure an abortion illegally
  • murdering young girls enjoying a Taylor swift party

it’s - checks notes - refusing to call a man with DSD a woman

is there any chance at all that you might just be being a bit silly here?

Dumbledoreslemonsherbets · 11/08/2024 16:34

Helleofabore · 11/08/2024 16:22

You mean, we could get AI to post rather than us having to put so much effort in to link up all the evidence and pertinent points? FFS!

I'm guessing AI is inherently misogynistic though. We need a feminist AI!

Helleofabore · 11/08/2024 16:34

FlirtsWithRhinos · 11/08/2024 16:22

To watch a mob of people repeatedly misgender someone due to false information is one thing. On top of that, demanding a generic test and medical evidence of their sex.

Lolz. So it's unacceptable to act on false information and it's also unacceptable to ask for true information. How to square that circle? Why, accept what you are told without question as long as it's the right people telling you. Who are the right people? The ones we say are right of course!

Do they even hear themselves?

I think the amped up emotion and the inability to discuss tricky issues of what gender identity means in society vs what sex means in society without insulting and dismissing and belittling anyone who places sex over gender actually stems from the semi-conscious awareness that they don't really believe this, or rather see how it works, either. They absolutely cannot entertain the opposite position even as an intellectual exercise because they know this is what they really believe as well, but they've been told to think this way is abhorrent, beyond the pale, and so they cannot hear it from others because at some level they can feel they agree and they fear they are being corrupted.

Yes. The difference between the patient posts giving careful explanations and polite push back and those who resort to abusive labeling, mischaracterisations and then pleas/demands for emotional understanding and acceptance of those emotional demands is stark.

But it always was, wasn’t it. In saying that, the repetitious mischaracterisations of women’s campaigns has been very enlightening. Some people truly lack the understanding on what people discussing protecting female sports have been working for.

They have lazily believed the activists who dismiss the efforts to protect female sports as hate without doing any further investigation. I guess they don’t believe they need to. Because someone who they believe is righteous has told them otherwise.

So now they come out with all the falsehoods they themselves have believed. And they then cannot see that they were wrong about what they have just plopped down about what women have campaigned for, so what else are they wrong about.

Whereas, if it was me, my dissonance alarm would be off the chart!

PaterPower · 11/08/2024 16:29

Walkden · 11/08/2024 08:05

"However the "cheat" comment can be defended if the individual knows they are male but they choose to enter a female competition."

If we are going to take the position, That sex is black and white i.e xy chromosome = male then surely the issue of cheating or not cheating should also be black and white. We might feel the IOC rules are a joke but they have not been broken here so she is not a cheat.

This boxer believes herself to be a woman, was raised as such and did not benefit from. Male entitlement etc. At some point she realised she had a DSD but (after much soul searching I'd imagine) still sees herself as a woman.

If all of that can be ignored and dismissed as ultimately irrelevant then it's a bit inconsistent to introduce a " spirit of cricket" argument for branding her a cheat.

What the hell has “male entitlement” got to do with anything we’re discussing here?

It’s male puberty that ‘she’ benefitted from! You know, the surge in testosterone which gave ‘her’ an average 162% stronger punch (just for starters).

FlirtsWithRhinos · 11/08/2024 16:22

To watch a mob of people repeatedly misgender someone due to false information is one thing. On top of that, demanding a generic test and medical evidence of their sex.

Lolz. So it's unacceptable to act on false information and it's also unacceptable to ask for true information. How to square that circle? Why, accept what you are told without question as long as it's the right people telling you. Who are the right people? The ones we say are right of course!

Do they even hear themselves?

I think the amped up emotion and the inability to discuss tricky issues of what gender identity means in society vs what sex means in society without insulting and dismissing and belittling anyone who places sex over gender actually stems from the semi-conscious awareness that they don't really believe this, or rather see how it works, either. They absolutely cannot entertain the opposite position even as an intellectual exercise because they know this is what they really believe as well, but they've been told to think this way is abhorrent, beyond the pale, and so they cannot hear it from others because at some level they can feel they agree and they fear they are being corrupted.

Helleofabore · 11/08/2024 16:22

You mean, we could get AI to post rather than us having to put so much effort in to link up all the evidence and pertinent points? FFS!

borntobequiet · 11/08/2024 16:17

RainWithSunnySpells · 11/08/2024 15:22

Has soft used AI to write all their posts? Maybe explains the lack of understanding?

Yes, that will be it.

borntobequiet · 11/08/2024 16:15

RainWithSunnySpells · 11/08/2024 15:15

I thought you were joking at first!

Unfortunately, I see a lot of AI generated stuff in my work - it becomes really quite easy to detect, like spotting when someone’s had cosmetic surgery. Bland, unoriginal and a bit too good to be true.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 11/08/2024 16:13

RainWithSunnySpells · 11/08/2024 15:15

I thought you were joking at first!

Once you see the pattern and the typically phrasing, default content written by chatGPT is very obvious. And annoying. It's like being lecturered by an earnest A level student who has read all the books but has no understanding of the content and is therefore unable to draw a conclusion.

Good prompt engineering can easily get better results. Luckily ploppers understand AI no better than they understand sex.

WickedSerious · 11/08/2024 16:06

RedToothBrush · 11/08/2024 16:01

That or watch Al Jazeera for 24 hours to get a good idea of the worst of humanity (Al Jazeera still are more graphic than western news tv stations and regardless of their political leanings it shows some pretty grim realities about the worst of humanity).

Indeed,we might not seem quite so 'disappointing' after that.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 11/08/2024 16:05

borntobequiet · 11/08/2024 14:36

It’s almost as though we don’t know all this already, and haven’t been discussing it for years. Luckily, AI pulls it all together nicely.

👏👏👏

RedToothBrush · 11/08/2024 16:01

WickedSerious · 11/08/2024 15:51

I recommend lying down in a dark room for thirty minutes with a damp tea towel over your face.

That or watch Al Jazeera for 24 hours to get a good idea of the worst of humanity (Al Jazeera still are more graphic than western news tv stations and regardless of their political leanings it shows some pretty grim realities about the worst of humanity).

WickedSerious · 11/08/2024 15:51

helenwaspushed · 11/08/2024 14:19

This has exposed the worst of humanity to me and I feel physically ill. To watch a mob of people repeatedly misgender someone due to false information is one thing. On top of that, demanding a generic test and medical evidence of their sex. Entitlement and bigotry. Disgusting. This is why people hurt themselves. This is why people are murdered for their differences by intolerant and power hungry bullies. Shame on all of you. You all are so disappointing.

Imagine if your child was treated this way by a bunch of strangers on the Internet.

The world has much worse.going on than a masculine looking woman winning a sporting event.

Get your heads out of your asses please "ladies". You all are not real women.

Gross.

I recommend lying down in a dark room for thirty minutes with a damp tea towel over your face.

RethinkingLife · 11/08/2024 15:47

CocoapuffPuff · 11/08/2024 15:43

Yes.

I wonder if it can be done at point of posting? I wouldn't mind having to click squares with traffic lights in 'em each time, if it stops the knobheads flooding interesting threads with their spaffing.

I would object.

For various reasons (relating to sight and deafness), it's not unusual for me to have to go through 9 or more sets of those verification tests.

ditalini · 11/08/2024 15:44

Helleofabore · 11/08/2024 15:39

Well, Semenya raised a very valid point this week about being discriminated against under the IOC's eye.

Remember, Semenya cannot compete in the Olympics because the WA finally created a policy that excluded the now obvious male athlete with male pubertal advantage from competition. Because the IOC refused to exhibit leadership and decided to make the international sporting federations responsible for the policy and any litigation.

However, these two male athletes can compete because the IOC excluded the IBA and ignored the IBA policy, the one that excluded these two athletes.

Semenya raises the issue of discrimination. Because if Semenya had trained as a boxer last year, Semenya could have competed in the boxing but not their speciality. Because the IOC has allowed this inconsistency to occur.

And I am quite sure that if it went to court the CAS would most likely agree that in boxing it is a significant safety issue.

Yes, it does beggar belief that one of the sports where it's so obviously a matter of safety rather than fairness has done this.

It's the thing that most disappoints me from the be-kinders, the shocking lack of any sort of care for the other competitors and complete failure of any sort of risk assessment.

CocoapuffPuff · 11/08/2024 15:43

duc748 · 11/08/2024 15:38

Should AI-generated posts be banned/blocked on MN? Or 'labelled' somehow?

Yes.

I wonder if it can be done at point of posting? I wouldn't mind having to click squares with traffic lights in 'em each time, if it stops the knobheads flooding interesting threads with their spaffing.

Helleofabore · 11/08/2024 15:39

ditalini · 11/08/2024 15:27

I was musing about the "difficulties" of sports classification this morning over my custard danish.

Imagine three people of equal athletic ability and weight.

A has an F on their passport. They were assigned male at birth and now identity as female. They have xy chromosomes, an sry gene and are sensitive to androgens.

B has an F on their passport. They were assigned female at birth and identify as female. They have xy chromosomes, an sry gene and are sensitive to androgens.

C has an M on their passport. They were assigned male at birth and identify as male. They have xy chromosomes, an sry gene and are sensitive to androgens.

C is sad because he's not good enough to qualify for the olympics but he sees his equally mediocre pals A & B smashing it in the women's category.

Should C be able to sue for sex discrimination? We know that entry to the women's category doesn't hinge on self identifying as female as we also have:

D who has an M on their passport, was assigned female at birth, identifies as male, has xx chromosomes, no sry gene and is waiting until their sporting career is over before starting testosterone to avoid doping charges.

What a mess. Three identical male bodies (maybe C has a small willy - lets keep our minds out of their pants as we're told all good allies should), but only C doesn't get to go to the olympics. Won't someone think of the mediocre males that don't get to compete?

Well, Semenya raised a very valid point this week about being discriminated against under the IOC's eye.

Remember, Semenya cannot compete in the Olympics because the WA finally created a policy that excluded the now obvious male athlete with male pubertal advantage from competition. Because the IOC refused to exhibit leadership and decided to make the international sporting federations responsible for the policy and any litigation.

However, these two male athletes can compete because the IOC excluded the IBA and ignored the IBA policy, the one that excluded these two athletes.

Semenya raises the issue of discrimination. Because if Semenya had trained as a boxer last year, Semenya could have competed in the boxing but not their speciality. Because the IOC has allowed this inconsistency to occur.

And I am quite sure that if it went to court the CAS would most likely agree that in boxing it is a significant safety issue.

duc748 · 11/08/2024 15:38

Should AI-generated posts be banned/blocked on MN? Or 'labelled' somehow?

ditalini · 11/08/2024 15:36

RedToothBrush · 11/08/2024 15:31

C should have grifted harder.

Yes, C should definitely apply to the passport office as a crossdresser. No need for a doctor's note, any clothes are women's clothes, and Dave is definitely a unisex name.

Hurrah! Another podium properly diversified.

RainWithSunnySpells · 11/08/2024 15:34

Just for fun, I looked at soft's posts on other topics. I checked two in AIBU and both also came back as 100% AI.

Well that's opened my eyes to bots spamming the forum.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5138472-abroadshould-have-stayed-at-home?page=2&reply=137427793

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5138865-need-urgent-advice-to-lose-weight-quickly-bridesmaid-dress-doesnt-fit?page=8&reply=137444102

Algerian boxer filing legal claim over online harrassment
Algerian boxer filing legal claim over online harrassment
hihelenhi · 11/08/2024 15:33

helenwaspushed · 11/08/2024 14:19

This has exposed the worst of humanity to me and I feel physically ill. To watch a mob of people repeatedly misgender someone due to false information is one thing. On top of that, demanding a generic test and medical evidence of their sex. Entitlement and bigotry. Disgusting. This is why people hurt themselves. This is why people are murdered for their differences by intolerant and power hungry bullies. Shame on all of you. You all are so disappointing.

Imagine if your child was treated this way by a bunch of strangers on the Internet.

The world has much worse.going on than a masculine looking woman winning a sporting event.

Get your heads out of your asses please "ladies". You all are not real women.

Gross.

What ARE you on about?

I'm a "real woman" thanks. As are most of us here. You know, the type born female, a female karyotype, XX, a member of the group that have historically been treated as second class citizens/property for merely being born a member of our demographic and who the new sexists larping as us in their new outfits but armed with the same old lazy sexist stereotypes as they've always had are trying to persuade don't matter and are here to serve them.

Khelif, however, is not a woman from what we can tell. He almost certainly has a DSD, most likely 5-ARD, which gives him male advantage and means he should not be in combat sports against actual women because it's both unsafe and deeply unfair and unsporting. Having a DSD is no doubt a horrible thing, but it is not female athlete's job to get punched in the face so he can win as compensation for that.

Personally, I feel physically sick at a) the syrupy hyperbole from people who literally don't give a shit about REAL WOMEN BEING BEATEN UP ON TV FOR SPORT but even imagine they're being the "good people" in some way because of it. How can you imagine this? Look at what you're actually saying and supporting! Regressive, violent misogyny and subjugation of women. Well done you. b) the constant misogyny and abusive gaslighting, including now by public bodies c) the constant emotional manipulation and hyperbole.

"Real women" aren't support humans or male validation tools. Some people really need to get that into their thick heads. Oh, and we're not going to shut up about what we've seen here. The emotive hyperbole doesn't work on us. Women matter too. Our rights are human rights too. We are not put here to serve.

RedToothBrush · 11/08/2024 15:31

ditalini · 11/08/2024 15:27

I was musing about the "difficulties" of sports classification this morning over my custard danish.

Imagine three people of equal athletic ability and weight.

A has an F on their passport. They were assigned male at birth and now identity as female. They have xy chromosomes, an sry gene and are sensitive to androgens.

B has an F on their passport. They were assigned female at birth and identify as female. They have xy chromosomes, an sry gene and are sensitive to androgens.

C has an M on their passport. They were assigned male at birth and identify as male. They have xy chromosomes, an sry gene and are sensitive to androgens.

C is sad because he's not good enough to qualify for the olympics but he sees his equally mediocre pals A & B smashing it in the women's category.

Should C be able to sue for sex discrimination? We know that entry to the women's category doesn't hinge on self identifying as female as we also have:

D who has an M on their passport, was assigned female at birth, identifies as male, has xx chromosomes, no sry gene and is waiting until their sporting career is over before starting testosterone to avoid doping charges.

What a mess. Three identical male bodies (maybe C has a small willy - lets keep our minds out of their pants as we're told all good allies should), but only C doesn't get to go to the olympics. Won't someone think of the mediocre males that don't get to compete?

C should have grifted harder.