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Angela Carini to be awarded prize money by IBA

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Fetlocksblowininthewind · 03/08/2024 15:07

Just thought I'd share this in it's own thread in case it gets lost in the other one.

It's still not right what's happened but I'm pleased to see this, the IBA know she was cheated!

Angela Carini to be awarded prize money by IBA despite Olympic loss to Imane Khelif | The Independent

Angela Carini to be awarded prize money despite Olympic loss to Imane Khelif

The Italian pulled out in the first round against the Algerian amid a gender row at Paris 2024

https://www.independent.co.uk/sport/olympics/olympics-angela-carini-imane-khelif-boxing-b2590515.html

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ChewtonRoad · 03/08/2024 22:23

I think if I had been in Imam Kalif’s shoes I would have suppressed any hint of the knowledge. It would have been too horrifying.
Why horrifying? Since Khelif has never had menses and would have gone through male puberty, those two things alone would have made it quite clear that he is - and has been since conception - a male person.

Khelif and Lin are men. Referring to one or both as "she" is disrespectful and belittling to all women and girls.

Tinylittleunicorn · 03/08/2024 22:18

@ResisterOfTwaddleRex

On the fundamental point I don't disagree. I have stated clearly that I believe Imane Khelif should not be permitted to compete as a female boxer because of the importance of integrity, safety and fairness in the sport.

But some of the language used characterises Imane as someone "pretending" to be female. From her perspective, she is female and has always been female. It is very different to have a girls body and be raised a girl, and then to undergo this devastating revelation about your biology +/- virilising changes at or after puberty, vs being a normal biological male who decides at some point that their inner self is female (whatever that means). It's wrong to conflate these experiences by using words such as "imagined self" and not-so-subtlely equating her to a male domestic abuser. Female is how she was born and how she was raised. She didn't "choose" a female identity.

This could literally happen to my daughter, she's never had a karotype check, why would she? Would she cease to be the daughter I've raised? All I'm trying to say is we can talk about fairness in women's sport without needing to bring Imane's identity into it, in a cruel way. After all we are agreeing this is about biology, not identity.

So I agree she cannot compete but I have compassion for her and I don't view her as a man. Imane has some innate biological traits in keeping with a man and others in keeping with a woman. In my opinion those with DSD are truly the only people who should be allowed to decide their legal sex (but I agree, not to compete in female sport).

There are also testosterone limits in female sport? If an XX athlete has excess testosterone and is virilised as a result they may also not be able to compete but we can understand without the need to say she is a cheating man and lose all empathy for her position. If Imane is banned from the sport (which, I do agree should happen) her life and livelihood will be destroyed and that is through no fault of her own - chiefly it will because the rules around female sport are inconsistent and unclear and so it is possible (probable?) that intersex female teenagers will be pushed toward professional sport.

I hope that clarifies my position. X

@AstonScrapingsNameChange thank you for the correction

Goodtrouble2 · 03/08/2024 22:15

ElleMD80 · 03/08/2024 15:57

Never seen in a hijab, even when the trainer is wearing a hijab: Khelif is a man.

@ElleMD80 I went on Khalid's Instagram not one picture of a hijab in personal or training shots.

porridgecake · 03/08/2024 22:07

Disorders of sexual development are sex specific. "Intersex" is an old fashioned term that some people still use today. It does not mean what some people think it means.

AstonScrapingsNameChange · 03/08/2024 22:04

They knew they are a male and still competed in the women's category. I call that cheating.

Regardless of how sad it may be for them to not compete as a woman, they don't deserve to shatter someone else's dreams to make themselves feel better.

AstonScrapingsNameChange · 03/08/2024 22:01

Tinylittleunicorn · 03/08/2024 21:52

I don't think that somebody with XY chromosomes should compete within female sport. A line has to be drawn.

However, there isn't enough information to conclude that Imane Khelif is a "cheating man". It's possible that Imane Khelif was born with entirely female genitalia, not merely ambiguous and may have had no idea about the Y chromosome until after her boxing career had already begun. There is evidence in the form of childhood photographs that clearly supports this. To receive this diagnosis at or after puberty would be devastating to anyone, and most of all a sportsperson aspiring to a professional career.

I think it is cruel and unnecessary to misgender Imane and altogether it is important to completely separate discussion of DSD from discussion related to being "trans". It is possible to feel that Imane should not compete in female sport whilst recognising what a personal tragedy that is for her and having some compassion for her position. She did not ask for her biology to be this way and she is intersex, not a man.

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Intersex is an outdated term for Disorder of Sexual Development.

A person is still either male or female, with a DSD.

There is no third sex which is what 'Intersex' implies.

It might not seem respectful to refer to them as 'he' or a 'man' but it's important in these discussions to be clear and avoid this kind of confusion. Especially as the media is not being.

ResisterOfTwaddleRex · 03/08/2024 21:56

Tinylittleunicorn · 03/08/2024 21:52

I don't think that somebody with XY chromosomes should compete within female sport. A line has to be drawn.

However, there isn't enough information to conclude that Imane Khelif is a "cheating man". It's possible that Imane Khelif was born with entirely female genitalia, not merely ambiguous and may have had no idea about the Y chromosome until after her boxing career had already begun. There is evidence in the form of childhood photographs that clearly supports this. To receive this diagnosis at or after puberty would be devastating to anyone, and most of all a sportsperson aspiring to a professional career.

I think it is cruel and unnecessary to misgender Imane and altogether it is important to completely separate discussion of DSD from discussion related to being "trans". It is possible to feel that Imane should not compete in female sport whilst recognising what a personal tragedy that is for her and having some compassion for her position. She did not ask for her biology to be this way and she is intersex, not a man.

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Pictures of a child in a dress are not a free pass to punch women in the face and steal their dreams.

Getting told you thought one thing but actually it's another, isn't either. Sad for the individual but it begins and ends there. It's not on the entire world to prop up one person's imagined self.

Males don't belong in women's sport. End of story.

This must never ever happen again and we must revert to material reality, and fairness for women and girls.

Tinylittleunicorn · 03/08/2024 21:52

I don't think that somebody with XY chromosomes should compete within female sport. A line has to be drawn.

However, there isn't enough information to conclude that Imane Khelif is a "cheating man". It's possible that Imane Khelif was born with entirely female genitalia, not merely ambiguous and may have had no idea about the Y chromosome until after her boxing career had already begun. There is evidence in the form of childhood photographs that clearly supports this. To receive this diagnosis at or after puberty would be devastating to anyone, and most of all a sportsperson aspiring to a professional career.

I think it is cruel and unnecessary to misgender Imane and altogether it is important to completely separate discussion of DSD from discussion related to being "trans". It is possible to feel that Imane should not compete in female sport whilst recognising what a personal tragedy that is for her and having some compassion for her position. She did not ask for her biology to be this way and she is intersex, not a man.

OpizpuHeuvHiyo · 03/08/2024 21:35

It's ridiculous how many people are dense enough to think that the fact that Khelif, Lin or any other XY boxer in the women's category has lost plenty of fights is somehow evidence that there's no advantage. They must be very dense, or not understand what "advantage" means.

If you are playing a dice-roll game where one opponent has dice numbered 1-6 and the other has numbers 2-7 then player 2 has a clear advantage but they will not always win. That doesn't mean it a fair game.

In boxing you are competing for something where there's a combination of skill, reaction time, fitness and strength required.

If a boxer has XY chromosomes and is not insensitive to testosterone (complete insensitivity seems unlikely from what I've seen) then reaction time and strength will be affected by male advantage. It would still be possible for an XX woman to win a match against them if her fitness and skill were significantly higher but that doesn't make it a fair fight. The dice are loaded.

It would be like making some of the runners on a track race wear kilogram weights on their ankles while others don't. It doesn't matter exactly how many people with the ankle weights make it to the podium - maybe some will if their fitness is way higher than the average of the rest of the runners - but the race cannot have been a fair one and the only solution is to have one podium for those without ankle weights and a second podium for those who have them

porridgecake · 03/08/2024 20:39

"This propaganda of the ignorant is outrageous".

Indeed it is. I can only assume biology is no longer taught at school.

WickedSerious · 03/08/2024 20:18

OhDoStoppit · 03/08/2024 15:48

She wasn't 'cheated' she was not as good as her competitor, whether by training or luck of size.

Khelif was born a woman, has female body parts and has lost plenty more fights against women than she's won.

This propaganda of the ignorant is outrageous.

A woman being bigger than another woman means she's 'cheating'?? Talk about a bunch of snowflakes. Must we also cancel Serena Williams for being too powerful? Simone Biles because her petite size helps her in her sport?? Any woman with PCOS who has higher testosterone levels???

I absolutely agree that TRANSwomen should not be competing against women, but this is not what this was.

She was cheated,her opponent was a man.

Who continues to cheat.

WickedSerious · 03/08/2024 20:17

SonicTheHodgeheg · 03/08/2024 16:00

Internet says that hijab is optional
in Algeria

Same as your sex then.

Seems fair.

Mumteedum · 03/08/2024 19:37

californiaisdreaming · 03/08/2024 16:28

And either way, even if they'd lost 100% of their fights against women it does not make them female.

A lack of Y chromosomes is what does that.

Being bad at a particular sport should not be what makes someone eligible to fight in the women's category.

This is what gets me and it's awful all round.

They're male. Brought up as female. Legally female, but male in their chromosomes and in their physique, regardless of genital defects.

So they're neither so good that they would beat every woman they fight in which case likely wouldn't win against men. So what are they? A gold medal winning olympian who is likely am averagely good male athlete?

What a mess.

Blackcats7 · 03/08/2024 19:10

halava · 03/08/2024 18:58

What did Angela apologise for please?

Her opponent is a male. Who can tell if his backstory is true or not. Algeria is not exactly a society of open unbiased media and communication I'd say. The hierarchy of men in Islam is something to be remembered also.

I believe she apologised for not shaking hands after the fight.
I think she must be under huge pressure and feel very concerned by the criticism some have made of her. Another poster also wrote the right wing politicos are using her as a sort of mascot which she may not want at all.
The whole thing must be a nightmare for her.
Although this is not a trans issue directly clearly trans activists are very invested in males being able to compete in women’s sports and from hearing how other women who have crossed them have received threats of being cancelled, rape and even death who would want to be in this position?

halava · 03/08/2024 19:07

@Fetlocksblowininthewind Thanks for filling me in. I agree with you, it is sickening that a woman had to apologise to a man for being battered. As you said yourself, it was ever thus.

EatMoreFibre · 03/08/2024 19:04

GrumpyPanda · 03/08/2024 17:59

The IOC itself inadvertently admitted it's about a DSD!

https://x.com/iocmedia/status/1819667573698445793

Hahaha they really are muppets

ResisterOfTwaddleRex · 03/08/2024 19:04

Just catching up. I see Scrolling's picture question is answered/all OK.

Fetlocksblowininthewind · 03/08/2024 19:04

halava · 03/08/2024 18:58

What did Angela apologise for please?

Her opponent is a male. Who can tell if his backstory is true or not. Algeria is not exactly a society of open unbiased media and communication I'd say. The hierarchy of men in Islam is something to be remembered also.

The poor woman, I think she was forced/coerced into apologising.

She basically apologised for saying it wasn't fair (it wasn't, she was right the first time!), apologised for crying (I would have too!), apologised for refusing to shake his hand (well he did also sexually assault her by touching her breast and then practically chased her around trying to touch her!), for walking away when his hand was held up (Angela your instincts were correct, it was disgusting what happened to you!), and said she'd "embrace her" next time she saw Khelif.

ETA: she also apologised for not winning, I think to her country and late Father? Just wish I could give her a bit of a hug tbh.

Just no words for how sad this makes me. She is the victim of abuse apologising for being abused, we've all seen this before haven't we?

Absolutely none of this ^ is me victim blaming her at all in any way, I completely understand. It just makes me really fucking angry and heartsick on her behalf, and on behalf of all women who have found themselves doing similar. It is not their fault!

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AnnieMcFanny · 03/08/2024 19:00

ElleMD80 · 03/08/2024 15:57

Never seen in a hijab, even when the trainer is wearing a hijab: Khelif is a man.

I know more Algerians women who don’t wear a Hijab than those who do. It’s not so common in women from Algeria and Morocco for eg.

halava · 03/08/2024 18:58

What did Angela apologise for please?

Her opponent is a male. Who can tell if his backstory is true or not. Algeria is not exactly a society of open unbiased media and communication I'd say. The hierarchy of men in Islam is something to be remembered also.

Notaflippinclue · 03/08/2024 18:52

As KJK so eloquently put it - "he's a man"!

Omlettes · 03/08/2024 18:46

OhDoStoppit · 03/08/2024 15:48

She wasn't 'cheated' she was not as good as her competitor, whether by training or luck of size.

Khelif was born a woman, has female body parts and has lost plenty more fights against women than she's won.

This propaganda of the ignorant is outrageous.

A woman being bigger than another woman means she's 'cheating'?? Talk about a bunch of snowflakes. Must we also cancel Serena Williams for being too powerful? Simone Biles because her petite size helps her in her sport?? Any woman with PCOS who has higher testosterone levels???

I absolutely agree that TRANSwomen should not be competing against women, but this is not what this was.

"This propaganda of the ignorant is outrageous. '
But you are talking about yourself!
Bizarre, and so profoundly offensive to those with DSDs

OvaHere · 03/08/2024 18:42

ScrollingLeaves · 03/08/2024 18:38

Ok, I take your point, and also, since seeing a photo of him from Resister, I feel he may be aware of himself being XY, and just taking advantage of the IOC rules going his way.

If we put these 2 boxers and the 3 800m runners from the 2016 Rio olympics in a room big brother style do you think we'd see them all treating each other as 'other' women?

Nah. I don't think so.

Fetlocksblowininthewind · 03/08/2024 18:42

ScrollingLeaves · 03/08/2024 18:38

Ok, I take your point, and also, since seeing a photo of him from Resister, I feel he may be aware of himself being XY, and just taking advantage of the IOC rules going his way.

Thank you, yes it's pretty damning really isn't it?

And I have not expressed myself particularly well above, I'd like to clarify when I say I have "compassion for it" I mean Khelifs feelings and point of view, I am absolutely not referring to Khelif as "it" - that would be terribly dehumanising language and really very wrong of anyone to say!

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ScrollingLeaves · 03/08/2024 18:38

Fetlocksblowininthewind · 03/08/2024 18:33

I don't mean to be offensive (and I don't think I am being tbh) but I don't really think Khelif's feelings or point of view is the important bit here really.

I may have compassion for it, but it's not my focus and doesn't detract from the need to say things in a truthful and clear way.

Khelif is male.

Ok, I take your point, and also, since seeing a photo of him from Resister, I feel he may be aware of himself being XY, and just taking advantage of the IOC rules going his way.